Is there any community that you'd be proud to be a part of

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NoeL

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Hmm... tough question. Both the gaming and atheist communities seem to be full of the same bad pedigree so I can't say I'm proud to belong to either of them, the feminist community has its professional victims that ruin it for the rest of us, liberals are spineless, Australians are drunk/dumb/racist/apathetic, sceptics are pompous and aggressive (edit: I'm still proud to be Australian/sceptical though)... I'm a member of a Zelda Classic fan site that I'm pretty proud of. Most of the rotten eggs are gone.

So yeah. Three cheers for Pure ZC [http://www.purezc.net]!
 

EternallyBored

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SilkySkyKitten said:
Admittedly, I used to be proud to be a part of the Brony community, since during its early days it genuinely seemed to be the friendliest and genuinely nicest community I've ever been a part of. Sadly, those days are long gone, and the MLP fandom is just... well, another fandom with its fair share of fan-dumb. Maybe a tad more than most, arguably.
"Long gone"? I haven't noticed much of a difference. With the increase in the Brony community, the formerly rare douches, trolls, and cloppers-who-are-WAY-too-vocal-about-their-fetish have become a bit more than "rare" of late, but for the most part all I see is charities, conventions, all forms of art with varying levels of skill, and good ol' fashioned loving and tolerating.

Is there perhaps a facet I'm missing? Or is it just the increase in size and the "riff-raff" said increase entails that bothers you?
While I won't pretend I know much about the brony community in particular, I've been in other fandoms long enough to know, that it's probably likely a size and controversy issue. As any community gets larger and lasts longer the chances of a major community blowup approaches 100%, and subsequent blowups always happen if the community gets larger from there. I've seen the same crap happen again and again, with fandom after fandom, even before the internet got popular this kind of thing tended to happen as a greater number of fans gather around a popular property or community.

Avatar, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Pokemon, X-Files, Star Trek, and Star Wars. It all starts out the same way, small groups of people get together to geek out over something they love. They organize and become more complex over time. These small communities have their weirdoes but with low numbers it's easier to drown out 1 or 2 crazies. You also get the people convinced that they are starting a movement or that there is something super special awesome about this one community that makes it soooo much more awesome and they convince themselves that it's going to stay that way no matter how much their preferred piece of fiction gains in popularity. They think their fandom is going to be the exception and always remain with that closeness and tranquility that exists in much smaller communities

Some Star Trek and Star Wars fans were convinced in the early 80's their respective shows would be at the head of a revitalized space race, and a cultural renaissance of sci-fi shows and fiction (It didn't and the resurgance of sci-fi popularity wouldn't hit until the 90's and even then it petered out by the mid 2000's). Star Trek fans in particular, there were some that thought the shows optimistic futurism would spark a cultural revolution (it didn't). Furries thought their fandom would be a rock of solidarity in the early to mid 90's that would produce it's own shows, games and media, and would eventually be accepted as a valid alternative lifestyle ala rockers, punks, and hippies years ago (their still a cohesive fandom but not a fraction as relevant as they thought they would be). Some Harry Potter fans thought the series would spark a rennaissance of children's fiction (most of what we got were bad rip-offs involved kids finding out they had magic powers).

I could go on all night, but to sum it up, there's an idealism and naivete that exists in small fandoms and communities, they always think they are going to be the exception to the rule, that their fandom will rise above petty squabbles, drama, and the inevitable death threats that get sent to someone for something stupidly trivial. From what I know I imagine there are a group of bronies that are disillusioned that "love and tolerance" didn't somehow manage to stop every single person in the community from being the occasional douchenozzle.

Of course I'm not going to speak for the guy you quoted, his reasons may have nothing to do with anything I just said, but there's always this same complaint the person you quoted has, with every community throughout the last 20 years I've spent in various communities online and off. THat sentiment of, "I thought it was going to be different, back when it all started everything was great, everybody was so nice and supportive, but its changed now".
 

sanquin

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The LARP community here in the Netherlands. Those people are awesome. Friendly, open-minded, often dabbling in alternative things like paganism and herbal medicine, great to have a fun weekend with, etc.

And that's really the only community I belong to. I game, work in a garden, smoke marijuana and ride a motorcycle but I don't belong to any community in either of those categories.
 

Harley Q

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I am a member of the Injustice League, a damn fine community of evil doers who do many things involving arson and demons. I suppose the gaming community is one that I am proud of, we might be as awkward and opinionated as everyone else, but we have Portal, and that makes the world a better place.
 

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Abomination said:
An Astronaut would probably be something I'd be proud to call myself. Do they have a community? Space Walkers Anonymous? We are running out of prestigious groups to belong to.

Maybe a Buddhist? They are mostly pretty chill folks.

I guess I can say with some sort of pride that being a New Zealander does carry a certain amount of international respect or at least lack of negativity. The worst thing people can say is (jokingly) that we fornicate with sheep which is so obviously a joke as to be pointless? and that?s the only bad thing.
sorry if this is personal, but out of curiosity, what sect of Buddhism are you in?

OT: Atheist community maybe. I am very very proud to be a member of my school's debate club, and in it's presidency. I tend to be kinda mixed on the idea of communities, so I don't really have much.
 

Candidus

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- Dota 2, King of Fighters and Starcraft II communities.
- Tabletop gaming community.
- Rape-fetish, predicament bondage, mutual violence and consensual-non-consent communities. Yes, proudly.
- Anime and manga fandom communities, sort of. At the fringe. Would go to a convention alone, speak to nobody and feel involved anyway. That sort of "community membership".

That's it off the top of my head.
 

Teoes

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I dunno, actually.. the Escapist community? I could be more specific and say the Forum Games group, or something..

I wish I could say I was proud to be a part of the atheist community but 1) it's not really a community where I am and 2) too many atheists are jerks that I wouldn't want to identify with!
 

thesilentman

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Candidus said:
- Rape-fetish, predicament bondage, mutual violence and consensual-non-consent communities. Yes, proudly.
Huh. We'd get along quite well it seems. =P

OT- I quite like being part of the Linux community, if that counts. Friendly bunch who interests me with lots of interesting aspects about computing in general. Of course, I'm probably the only one in here to say that. x-D
 

Abomination

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Lonewolfm16 said:
sorry if this is personal, but out of curiosity, what sect of Buddhism are you in?
I'm as much a Buddhist as I am an astronaut :)

This is to say I?m not one. I've just had close associations with them over the years to the degree that I respect them highly despite not sharing their beliefs.
 

Lord Garnaat

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Well, I'm a proud Brony, if that counts. I hold it to be the greatest fandom that is or will be, so I'd say that's pretty darn proud.

I'm also a proud Christian, though being raised in a secular household causes one to have a more tenuous grasp on some of the proper protocol than one would like. Still, I hope to improve on that in the future.
 

Radoh

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No, not that I can think of.
If I'd be proud to be a part of a community, then I'd join that community.
Unless you mean things like the Gay Community, then I doubt I'd fit in very well, though I'd be happy to be accepted as one of their own, I guess. Though I doubt that's what you mean.
 

ReinWeisserRitter

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Pff. No. I don't take responsibility for anyone's opinions other than my own, especially not those of a fandom of any given thing, up to and including something I enjoy. Fandoms are, without exception, all horrible things.

Them aside, I don't affiliate with any established group, and think it's a ridiculous concept, although I'm perfectly fine with anyone that doesn't agree, provided they don't try to change my mind.
 

Reeve

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I would have said the skeptic community.

WOULD HAVE. It seems to have been distracted by trivial nonsense in recent times though. :<
 
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EternallyBored said:
I don't really feel proud of being in a community, because most communities don't have any standards for entrance, it's hard to be proud of something you can basically just declare yourself a part of. I never got the whole being proud of a bunch of strangers who share similar traits with me. I'm not proud of being a gamer, or a nerd, or even an American. I'm happy with all these things and I like being in the respective communities, but why should I feel proud for just being a part of something.

Any community that is large enough, starts to have problems as more people gather the more problems start cropping up. I don't let other people's problems effect my view of a community so I'm perfectly happy being labeled a gamer and liking games, even if the community itself has a multitude of problems, there are still a multitude more that are great to be around. Same reason I don't judge most other communities for their few crazies (excepting illegal, or unethical actions of course).

People who become too proud of their communities also tend to become irrationally attached to them, they start to ignore problems and let people do terrible things just because they are part of the same community or group. It just seems so much easier to be happy in a community rather than proud of it.
very true, I would say this is spot on for me as well.

Just because I share a similar trait/hobby with someone, doesn't make us all the same, far from it, so being "proud" of something is basically being proud of being human, which even then...debatable.
 

ShipofFools

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I used to feel some pride for being part of the trip community, but now I prefer to let that community be and just enjoy myself on my own or with a close personal friend.

A bunch of paranoid people all talking about the colours is just bad vibes, man.
 

Simple Bluff

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I'm a proud member of the exclusive gentlemens' association "The Odious Society (of) Spouting Extreme Rubbish."
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Angie7F

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I am just proud to be Japanese. We went through some crazy natural disasters but we were all polite and well mannered and did not brawl or root.
 

Korsgaard

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I'm rather proud of the fact I'm half-Danish.

I used to be in the US Army, and am pretty proud of being a veteran.

I'm also pretty proud of my freelance writing career. I may not be a known factor (Yet!) or a big name, but I make a decent living doing what I love, and for me, that's all that matters.

Also, being pretty big into the alternate history genre, I'm a rather proud AHer.
 

MammothBlade

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I'm proud to be... an inactive member of the anarchist community? Online communities?


No, that's a lie, I don't feel any affiliation towards anything.