Is this an Appropriate Time to Shell Off a F-You?

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Kanlic

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So I was reading to my roommate a comment that a friend of mine left on a thread. The thread is going on between the guys on my rowing crew team, and what it was meant for was for the team to post up their practice times and workout strategies for the winter break training sessions we have to do. Instead, we use this as an opportunity to talk shit to each other, and it is damn fun.

At a certain point we began to accuse one of our teammates for cheating on his tally sheet (we are supposed to reach a certain score throughout the break, I won't bore you with the details) because he did a very difficult workout that demands 100% exertion to be done properly, but did it two times in a row so that he can get a multiplier of 1.2, essentially taking care of a quarter of his winter break workout. So we had at him, jokes flying left and right about being bitches and what have you, and by the point he started saying that he was the greatest, I responded with:

You black athletes are so arrogant

to which he responded:
Go take your racist shit back to Texas and leave it there.

Now obviously we were just having fun with each other, and when I decided to read it off to my roommate, he started to go off on me saying that I was the arrogant one. He was telling me that it is highly unintelligent to just assume that all black athletes are arrogant, and that I was arrogant for talking to him about my crew team because I (according to him) assume that he cares about my team. Two things:

Being in college athletics demands full participation in the sport and the team, meaning that the crew team has been my life since the year began, so obviously it would be a topic of choice.

I was making a generalization that in my experience has been true all my life. Whether it be in tennis, football, soccer, baseball, basketball, etc. there has been a high volume of arrogant dudes I had to deal with. This spanned all colors and creeds, but I just said black in this case because thats what my friend is, and the name T.O. popped in my head.

So I looked at my roommate and almost told him to go fuck himself for being a wet blanket, but I decided against it because I feared that all the pent up anger I have for that lard-ass would consume me. What do you guys think?
 

x434343

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You probably shouldn't have included the black part.

That being said, you should tell him to fuck off if he's just going to treat you like shit for calling an arrogant team member arrogant.
 

Kanlic

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I appreciate the help guys. A jokes a joke, but not everyone knows that. I'll keep that in mind, but until then, a certain Italian man will be getting a fuck-you in the near future.
 

Cupid

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People are just so sensitive these days. It's almost as though you can't say anything without it being offensive or said in fun or a joke. I say, be yourself, if someone doesn't like or appreciate who you are including your sense of humor, screw em. Sometimes it's just we are on the the shitty end of someones bad day. It was all in fun, if that dolt couldn't see that, thats his problem, not yours. God, people really can suck. =/
 

quiet_samurai

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Eh, I probably wouldn't have said that to him in the first place. Not that it isn't funny, it's just some people are so sensitive now days.

But... since you are committed, you should respond with something like...

"Sure, right after you bring back my car stereo."

ZING!

<<<<<<<< Not Rascist.
 

tharglet

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I guess you ended up pressing one of his buttons. If he's usually jokey like the rest of the team, as you talked in his post, the race-card is likely to be one of those things that just sets him off.

Most people have some trait, that if you draw attention it, they seem to snap for no apparent reason. Race is pretty common, what with it being discussed a lot in society in general.

If he's peeved about the joke, you can try explaining to him that you didn't intend to offend him, apologise, leave it behind you and remember that mentioning "black" in jokes to him is not a wise idea.
 

Kanlic

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quiet_samurai said:
Eh, I probably wouldn't have said that to him in the first place. Not that it isn't funny, it's just some people are so sensitive now days.

But... since you are committed, you should respond with something like...

"Sure, right after you bring back my car stereo."

ZING!

<<<<<<<< Not Rascist.
haha, funny enough to me. No you aren't racist because it is a passive kind of racist to make those kinds of jokes. Every guy I knew growing up would laugh at a racist joke, but would never act on any racist thoughts. People need to make that distinction more often.