Its a dealbreaker

[Daveman]

I'm really not that weird, if they're overweight or unattractive obviously are no gos. If they are REALLY tall, mostly because I think it would be weird for them. If they try to eat my face when we kiss, passion is nice but COME ON. Also if they are religious because I don't think I could respect them. It's weird because I have mates who are religious and I respect them but I don't think I could ever see a long term relationship happening with somebody who's programmed that way. However I think I wouldn't mind so much if they were stupid. This isn't a deal breaker because I'd love teasing them so provided they don't mind that I'd be happy.

Dealbreakers I have: I'm not very funny. I make a lot of jokes but because of that a lot of them are shit, so unless you like funnily appaling jokes I'm not a great guy. I'm very argumentative. I'm only 5'8". I'm rather cynical. I imagine I'll be rather clingy, jealous etc.

 

[Layz92]

Stupidity in terms of racism, antisemitism and similar. If she said something like "damn Jews deserved it" when a story about Israel/Palistein came along and she meant it (possibly even if she was kidding) I would be done. Screw spending time with someone who doesn't deserve the time of day.

A chuavanistic/mysoganist A-hole but they are generally rare thease days (I mean REAL ones...this seems to grow out of guys..I think?).

This site disagrees [link]http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/[/link]

 

[MrGalactus]

actually you know what would be Ideal? just somone I could have sex with and not have to worry about anything else....

...a/s/l?
I'm kidding.


First of all, anyone who is hardcore racist. I get harassed by a group of skinheads at college a lot, and man they are just scum.

Another one would be anyone dismissive of the opinions of others. Having a serious conversation is difficult when they're determined to make you wrong no matter what you say.

My pettiest gripe would be anyone who repeats themselves a lot. It drives me MENTAL. I had to stop playing Half Life 2 for several months after that bit where yo have to flip the buggy. I almost destroyed my PC. I can't take anything at all being said multiple times.

 

[Smooth Operator]

actually you know what would be Ideal? just somone I could have sex with and not have to worry about anything else....

Let me get this straight, you are a member of the female species and just want someone for sex... well that must be a real struggle, where to find such a thing.

OT: Manly features on a girls are a major no-go, also hooves and tentacles I don't like that.
But mainly it comes down to stupidity and bitchyness, if you push it I'm gone.

 

[Floppertje]

actually you know what would be Ideal? just somone I could have sex with and not have to worry about anything else....

actually... it isn't. it's fun for a while, but it's kinda empty.

 

[Vault101]

Stupidity in terms of racism, antisemitism and similar. If she said something like "damn Jews deserved it" when a story about Israel/Palistein came along and she meant it (possibly even if she was kidding) I would be done. Screw spending time with someone who doesn't deserve the time of day.

A chuavanistic/mysoganist A-hole but they are generally rare thease days (I mean REAL ones...this seems to grow out of guys..I think?).

This site disagrees [link]http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/[/link]

ohhhhh boy....this guy

hes just having a laugh right? no ones that insane....right? no no what am I saying? this is the internet

 

[Astoria]

I don't have any physical dealbreakers but there are a few things I couldn't stand.

Being super religious
No or next to no sense of humour
Confessing their undying love for me after two weeks

There's others but I'm too tired to think of them right now.

 

[Vault101]

actually you know what would be Ideal? just somone I could have sex with and not have to worry about anything else....

Let me get this straight, you are a member of the female species and just want someone for sex... well that must be a real struggle, where to find such a thing.

OT: Manly features on a girls are a major no-go, also hooves and tentacles I don't like that.
But mainly it comes down to stupidity and bitchyness, if you push it I'm gone.

Im kidding...sort of

I tried the whole "boyfreind girlfreind" thing and didnt like it all that much (all the "I love you Babe" stufff blaaaghhhh)

however Im not confident with myself or in general (and sociable) enough to do the "one night stand thing" not that I would

 

[Macgyvercas]

A lack of nerdiness is a deal breaker for me. Being obsessed with tabloids is another one. Smokers are a no for me. And outright stupidity is not even worth considering (I'm not asking for a Hawking-esque intelligence, but they have to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation without throwing the word "like" in every other word).

 

[Colour Scientist]

Physically, I don't particularly like skinny guys, I mean really thin. I like a guy to have a bit of bulk but that's just personal preference.

Also, someone who knows I smoke when they meet me, still agrees to go out with me, then complains about it constantly. I know smoking is a huge turn off for a lot of people but then don't try to be with someone who smokes. Moaning about it is indescribably irritating.

Oh, and guys who want to settle down quickly really freak me out.

 

[Fetzenfisch]

I dissagree, the religious thing can be a huge turnon. I once dated a girl from a very catholic family. Teaching her all the fun things we do on "the dark side" was a great time.

first and most important: Humor. If you dont like dry, dark and sarcastic jokes, you're out.
Same for stupidity, racism and right winged political ideology and prejudices against urban subcultures .

Fat is a no go as is too thin. I want a healthy, good looking woman. While a little more than ideal weight is never a problem, less mostly is.

Being blonde is a dealbreaker in 90% of the time. Except she has other so amazing feats that i can ignore it. (like my current gf)
Wearing to many, too bright colours is a good way to stay in the friendzone forever.
So the vast majority of StiNo (jokingly for stinkin' normal) girls doesnt interest me the slightest.
Other things i don't like: dumb underclass sociolect, tan, no taste in music (i am not saying different taste, i say NONE at all. Either listening to "the radio" or the worst, not listening to music at all, exposing your soulless self)

yeah i am picky? and why shouldnt i be?
At least i became a very loyal person, for occasions for cheating are way to rare

 

[Fetzenfisch]

Confessing their undying love for me after two weeks

I remember one girl doing so at the very pleasant end of our first spontaneous date.
That was weird. But that one was pretty much a nutjob. A nice one but definatly not right in the mind.

 

[Astoria]

Confessing their undying love for me after two weeks

I remember one girl doing so at the very pleasant end of our first spontaneous date.
That was weird. But that one was pretty much a nutjob. A nice one but definatly not right in the mind.

Yeah I had a guy say this two me two weeks after meeting him. Not dating him, meeting him. Up until then he seemed normal but I quickly realised he wasn't.

 

[Silverfox99]

Being too selfish, not willing to be intimate (both physically and otherwise), abuse of drugs/booze, being unclean/lazy are my deal breakers.

 

[Griffstar]

My pettiest gripe would be anyone who repeats themselves a lot. It drives me MENTAL. I had to stop playing Half Life 2 for several months after that bit where yo have to flip the buggy. I almost destroyed my PC. I can't take anything at all being said multiple times.

This, oh my god this.

I find blonds to be unattractive, brunets and redheads are mine. Surprisingly enough, I used to be blond and still am a bit.

 

[trollnystan]

I kinda have a few - is it no wonder I've never had a relationship? - but the major two would be drinking and smoking. I couldn't be with someone who smokes or someone who likes to go out on a regular basis to get drunk. the occasional drunken lads' night out I could probably handle, but one of us would be spending the night on the sofa those nights.

 

[Super Six One]

I once found someone unattractive because they used the word "Doss" (slang for good), i hate that word.

 

[bliebblob]

apart from most things already mentioned: a big ego

Also i dont mind her not being a full on gamer but she has to accept it as a normal hobby, not something she should try to fix or judge.