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Mydnyght

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Yeah, one day I was at at Walmart checkout. I was standing behind this lady who apaprently didn't know how one of those electronic keypad credit-card readers worked. At one point, she seemed stuck, so she was told to hit CANCEL. She was told that not just by the checkout clerk, but by that customer's companions as well. She kept saying, "I don't see CANCEL!" I kindly pointed out the CANCEL button. Instead of thanking me, she told me something on the lines of, "I'm new to this, okay, so you COOL IT!"

If you ask me, people like her should be banned from shopping. -_-
 

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Oh yeah, plenty of times. A charity organisation I set up in our local town, in which all the proceeds go towards helping the mentally handicapped, has gotten a shit ton of abuse whenever it has tried to help.

One time when I get involved in a concert to raise money and awareness of certain rather stigmatized diseases. In the end I organised it far more efficiently than the event organisers themselves and ended up running it all (whilst doing 50+ hours a week or work as usual) and I thought perhaps I was helping out. Instead of gratitude or just a thanks, they fell out with me and blacklisted me because I effectivly showed them up on the organising side!

People and their pride. Sheesh!
 

steevee

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When I point out peoples mistakes and try to help them correct them, in terms of school work I mean. I try to do it ni the nicest way, so they can learn from it, or just get better marks, but no. I'm always an asshole, then, I'm an asshole for not telling them the answers :L
Urm... ok. No, so they don't get any help anymore, simple.

Also, the animal rights thing. A lot of the pro-vegan/vegitarian stances rely on you not being an asshole. To be honest with you, it's a chicken, not a person. Not that I wouldn't eat people burgers :p
 

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In middle school someone had forgotten their lunch and was complaining about it so I gave them mine and they got mad at me because they didn't like the food I had packed :(. He of course still ate the lunch though *grumbles unhappily*. Hungry and bitched at, not a very fun combination.
 

General Ken8

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I do a lot of nice crap, but there haven't a whole lot of consequences.
Maybe I'm one of the lucky ones
 

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s0denone said:
ThrobbingEgo said:
s0denone said:
Organic foods are more expensive.

Eating meat instead of organic food is cheaper.

Eating meat is cheaper than not eating meat.

How is that for logic? Honestly I don't care much for the discussion, but from where I'm sitting the vegans just look like people with too much money and time on their hands.
http://lifehacker.com/5271178/cook-for-good-plans-meals-for-less-than-two-dollars
I'm sorry, how is this relevant? I could eat cereal for breakfast, lunch and dinner and it would be dirt-cheap. That doesn't make it a good idea, nor something I would do.

Camembert said:
s0denone said:
Organic foods are more expensive.

Not eating organic foods is cheaper than eating meat.

Eating meat is cheaper than not eating meat.

How is that for logic? Honestly I don't care much for the discussion, but from where I'm sitting the vegans just look like people with too much money and time on their hands.
Too much money? Because meat is so much cheaper than vegetarian food : | We aren't talking about organic food here, genius.

It's called empathy. Being able to put yourself in someone or something else's shoes, and to think, 'Hm, how would I feel...? Not good? OK, I won't support that market anymore.' And sometimes enduring inconvenience for what you believe is a good thing, no? I would consider it a positive character trait, at any rate.
How is empathy relevant to the discussion? You are talking logic, yet bring in arguments based solely on emotion... And bingo! Those emotions may differ from person to person.

I should never have let myself be drawn into this, but I will continue as long as you do, although with a heavy heart. It will be rough, we may shed some tears, but ultimately we will come out stronger on the other side!

Still, having a healthy diet without including meat is impossible if you only have so much money to toss around. Believe you me.
I just assumed the "organic" thing, since we are talking vegan and not-vegan, and any true vegan would also only eat organic... Which is very expensive compared to other products.

EDIT: Also, no need for personal insults such as "We're not talking about that, genius" - there's no point. I'm being friendly to you, be friendly to me.
In terms of logic, the best argument I've seen for a vegetarian diet (strict vegan is...commendable, but either a little deranged, or as s0denone pointed out, dependent on a large amount of spending money) is that it's simply better use of resources. When people in parts of the world are starving due to malnutrition, it seems frivolous to spend time and money feeding up an animal in order to get around 25% of the nutrition you've given it. However, it's not that simple.



This is how it'd work in a simplistic communal world, but what we actually have to work with is a series of distinct capitalist economies, which affect each other indirectly rather than directly. So, by processing food through this cattle into a luxury object, you generate wealth and a living wage for everyone involved in the process, and thousands of people get jobs and livelihoods. It's unlikely that American companies (to take an accessible example from the developed world) would make a profit of any kind exporting corn to other countries, as they would definitely be undercut by local farmers (well, I'm assuming so. I'll concede this point of course if anyone knows of examples of this not happening). So the only way it can be an economically viable concern is to pump excess through cattle, generating profit for all involved. The problems with feeding cattle like this are detailed at length in a book I read once...I think it was Eric Schlosser's Fast Food Nation but I could be wrong. But that's a separate issue. So, produce from the West doesn't generally go to feed developing nations because it's not profitable. What you're mostly going to be buying as a casual vegetarian is food purchased from developing nations and jacked up in price by varying middlemen. This isn't particularly good for anyone - the areas surrounding the farm you're buying this food from (prices go up, albeit slightly), the environment (due to large amounts of travel), or the farmer (makes very little money compared to the Western companies selling his/her goods). The ways around this are to either drop out of the capitalist system and start some kind of commune/small farm of your own, which requires either money or a severe dose of hippyitis and dedication, or to pay extra money for locally sourced food to avoid competing for resources with the Third World. This option again requires a good income, which many people simply don't have. The point is, when vegetarian ideals are exposed to the real world, they often face a choice: dedicate a large chunk of your life, or money, to your ideals, and really bite the bullet, considering all ramifications and complexities arising from your actions, or buy into it as some kind of lifestyle choice.

The second best arguments are in Peter Singer's work, which I recommend to everyone, and are easily googlable, but you do have to accept his opening premises that sentience = moral worth. I think I'd add a certain degree of intelligence to that mix, and accept any Unfortunate Implications that came my way, given his take on meta-ethics - but then my own understanding of ethics is that it is a branch of aesthetics, so do what you want :p you have an anonymous stranger's permission now.

Concluding: The situation is more morally complicated and less clearcut than vegetarians generally make it out to be, at many levels of the debate. "Logical" moral choices often end up being slightly fuzzy in the real world, and you may have to remold your entire ethical stance, and indeed worldview, just to justify your vegetarianism.

And if you do want to help starving people around the world, there are easier, more direct and definite ways than vegetarianism (seriously vegans, I ain't talking to you ;P - good on yer, yer latterday monks, but you're a little unwell). www.freerice.com is waiting for you RIGHT NOW for NO COST, for instance, and conventional charities like Oxfam, Red Nose Day, Children in Need could really use your disposable income more than that organic produce farmer down the road. If you're just looking for a little boost, a portion of your money ALREADY goes to foreign countries, assuming you pay taxes - all the developed countries I can think of give a portion of their budget to foreign aid. Good job you! Now there's no need to make yourself all pale and passive-aggressive! (Joke. I like vegetarians, and plan to be one some day).
 

rosemystica

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I used to pick up trash along a mile-long stretch of country road and people would sometimes drive by and throw more at me. D:<
 

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Quid Plura said:
Being nice to people doesn't pay off. Because the world is so full of pricks, everyone expects you to be one too, and treat you like one, even if you try to be nice.
Basically this. That reminds me of a quote.

"Expecting life to go great because you do nice things is like expecting an angry bull to not gore you because you're vegetarian." (paraphrased slightly)
 

Naheal

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It's rare for me to do something that people approve of.

Examples? I'm Christian, but I dislike being conservative simply because others are. For example, this...


...is something that I love to point out to folks. Also, I love jokes/pics that could easily be construed as blasphemy, such as...


simply because I find it amusing.
 

proctorninja2

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there is a hangover reference to be made here but yeah i just tend to be nice to people i dont know and be a dick at all other times
 

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Doing something with good intentions wrongly percieved... hmm. Oh yes, this comes to mind, I saw a 10 dollar bill drop out of some guys pocket when he was grabbing his movie ticket in the ticket line. About a minute later, he started searching all his pockets (I presumed looking for his 10 dollar bill) I went over to pick it up and was about to and it to him when some other couple in front of me just shouted "NO CUTTING THE QUEUE!" Because of that, the guy that dropped his 10 dollar bill just turned around and already had a pre-concieved notion of me being an "asshole" and promptly just said "Hey! My 10 dollar bill!" Right at that moment I actually wanted to kill someone. Really a FML moment.

However, upon reflectig on the situation, I guess if I was another person in the queue and saw it happen, I would have also thought that the guy picking up the 10 dollar bill was an asshole. This really made me think... Should I just leave things be next time? Or risk doing the right thing and having it percieved wrongly?

Hmmm....
 

mew1234321

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Guys, you try to do some good... I mean, babies are evil right? But you eat just one, and everyone gets all pissed off at you. I mean, I'm doing the world a favour, with overpopulation and all.

But seriously, I'm a very nice guy, in a place full of assholes. Pretty much everytime I do something nice, either the person gets pissed off for whatever reason, or someone calls me gay.

Though when you do get gratitude, it really makes you smile.
 

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clipse15 said:
Shoqiyqa said:
clipse15 said:
I've told this story before on The escapist but one time I held a door open for an elderly man with a walker and in return he said "I don't need your help ******"
At that point I might just have slammed the door in his face ... and I'm white.
Ya it was my first time being called a ****** out of hatred and i was in a state of shock and let the dude slide.
Here's someone who didn't let it slide. [http://www.khou.com/home/Vulgar-voicemails-force-debt-collector-to-pay-15-million-95186194.html]
 

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Camembert said:
Miumaru said:
Camembert said:
Miumaru said:
Are they ever around meat eaters? Maybe you just keep better company. I know of preachy vegans though. I WILL argue with them if they start preaching. But otherwise they can not eat meat all they want if thats what they prefer.
Well I'm a meat eater. In fact, it's more often the other way around - I used to be a vegetarian and would constantly have morons asking deliberately irritating questions and making fun of me for not eating meat. On the other hand, no vegan has ever tried persuading me to stop eating animal products, unless I have already expressed interest.

I just get really sick of people making fun of vegans all the time. It's admirable, it takes restraint. If you have the willpower (I do not) to give up all animal products because of your ethics then that is a great thing.
Being a vegan for ethics sake seems silly to me honestly. I don't make fun of them though, cept for one snide remark. I dont exactly know the difference between vegan and vegetarian, mostly just assume vegan is even more "hardcore" I guess. But well, a shot at the ethicy ones...difference between plants and animals...plants cant scream. (Both used to be alive before you ate it)
So... you think someone who believes that killing animals for meat is wrong should go ahead and eat it anyway? Yes, real show of integrity there.

And the plant/animals thing is typical anti-vegan/vegetarian crap. Plants lack a central nervous system and consciousness, as you are well aware (I hope). People must eat for sustenance, and at least vegans are doing the very best they can, sometimes risking their own health for the sake of doing what they believe is right.

Edit: Vegetarians don't eat meat; vegans don't eat any animal product whatsoever, including honey.
Thats bloody stupid! What else are those bees going to do with thier vomit?
 

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ThrobbingEgo said:
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F-I-D-O said:
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I never said it was right or wrong. I tried to avoid ethical implications, instead saying that they were in fact the same. i don't have the most coherent posts, but the last few lines seemed to sum it up. They were the same problem, just with different ways of saying it. I believed humans to be natural because we are part of nature as a whole. By extension, anything humans do would be natural. It is said we (humans) are "naturally" more destructive, violent, and worse than anything else to walk on earth. But, a lion kills it's prey, slaughtering them without prior warning, destroying the prey's family, only for personnel gain. Is what the lion doing not part of what "comes naturally" to the beast?
This is all irrelevant. We are not lions. For us, eating meat is not necessary. We have no survival claim to keeping millions of animals in captivity, for their entire short lives.

I am not going to argue against more fallacious logic with you today.
OI YOU! STOP DE-RAILING THE DAMN THREAD! We're trying to discuss something here damnit!
 

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Quid Plura said:
Camembert said:
Quid Plura said:
Drauden said:
Quid Plura said:
Being nice to people doesn't pay off. Because the world is so full of pricks, everyone expects you to be one too, and treat you like one, even if you try to be nice.
What a positive way of life. :)
I know, but everywhere I go, it seems to be true. In Holland, there's even a commercial which roughly translates to "how to deal with nice people".
Attitudes like yours are the reason for that. 'Everyone else is a bastard, why should I be nice?'

Anyway, being nice to people very often does pay off. Gratitude is one of the best rewards, and if they don't give that, well, maybe the next person will, or the next one.
I never said I acted like a bastard, I don't. I generally try to be nice to people, and they react to me as stated above. ;)
The thing is it only works half of the times it is performed so why bother? that's my reality

I mean there was this lady (a costumer) at my store (supermarket) that had this kid playing bongos with the meat... My bosses have called the attetion of kids doing this so for me to do the same is not a big deal; so instead of calling the kid of I (pay attetion it gets good now) just simply and QUIETLY pointed him to his mom (the lady)you know just like saying: can you tell your kid to stop? But I never meant any disrespect or otherwise I mean I NEVER SAID A WORD TO HER OR THE KID; you know what i get?...

I get an Insult (in spanish just so you guys know) which stated that I was telling her how the kid should have stopped playing with the meat because it was MY belief that her kid had shit (literally) on his hands and that was why I was calling his and her attention. I must remind you readers that I never said anything; therefore it came to my understanding that she belief that I only spoke English (being Puertorican means that I am able to speak English and Spanish, quite fluent) never the less as she was pulling of she literally insulted me again.

After this I was simply (stupified, to put it) because I meant no harm; I been working there for 3 yrs and I know what raw meat can do (studying medicine) : salmonela, infections and bacteria. She or I or even God wouldn't know if there was blood leaking out of the meats or if the kid would right after put his hands in his mouth; that is why I caught her attention.

Anyway I lose a bit hope for humanity for everyday of those 3 wasted years in there...
 

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Shoqiyqa said:
clipse15 said:
Shoqiyqa said:
clipse15 said:
I've told this story before on The escapist but one time I held a door open for an elderly man with a walker and in return he said "I don't need your help ******"
At that point I might just have slammed the door in his face ... and I'm white.
Ya it was my first time being called a ****** out of hatred and i was in a state of shock and let the dude slide.
Here's someone who didn't let it slide. [http://www.khou.com/home/Vulgar-voicemails-force-debt-collector-to-pay-15-million-95186194.html]
Wow I just missed out on my chance to make some big bucks
 

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FallenJellyDoughnut said:
Thats bloody stupid! What else are those bees going to do with thier vomit?
They don't make it to feed us, though. I believe that is the thinking behind it. A lot of vegans do eat honey, but strict ones do not.

FallenJellyDoughnut said:
OI YOU! STOP DE-RAILING THE DAMN THREAD! We're trying to discuss something here damnit!

Erm... I believe he stopped derailing the thread around 21 hours ago.
 

Eggsnham

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I tried yelling surprise before having sex with a woman. Apparently, even if you yell surprise it's still rape and is frowned upon. Sheesh.
 

Shoqiyqa

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Eggsnham said:
I tried yelling surprise before having sex with a woman. Apparently, even if you yell surprise it's still rape and is frowned upon. Sheesh.
Was your boyfriend surprised?