Arnoxthe1 said:
As to the people, again, I really don't see a problem. Things get heated here yeah, but never more than that. Trust me. If every forum community were as civil as this one, we'd be in online heaven.
Then we have a big difference of opinion here, because I don't see the forced civility as an upside. All that has ever done for this site is raise people into brushing up their rheotric and sly passive aggressiveness whilst making people like me feel like i have a hand tied behind my back because i don't like being all indirect and writing tldr pages of rheotic interlaced with gotcha "wittycisms".
I'd much PREFER it one had the freedom to outright rage at me, I'd respect that in some weird way as an expression of raw emotion without any pretense to the contrary. Instead we get passive agressive tldr and people with years of experience in toeing the line with insinuations and baiting comments, or just having a general antagonistic+smug attitude to spite others.
Heck you mention things get "heated" but never more then that, and again, that's not a good thing xD So instead of resolving things in 1 big blowout, what happens on this site is people keep their spite and grudges for ages, waging passive aggressive wars across multiple threads. It's much healthier to vent and get it out of the system imo then bottling it all up.
So beg to differ, every other forum being like this one is my idea of online hell second only to places like neogaf where it's easy to get outright banned for not having the right opinions.
And this is why I said the forum i found is better "for my own tastes" and that i know most others would disagree.
The forums i've been seeking and eventually joined have little in common with the escapist forums which is a good thing in my eyes, so if you're looking for an escapist 2.0 then i got nothing :S