I second this. By extension, the ONLY reason I remotely had a problem (had, past tense) with Dumbledore being gay is that he was... VERY acutely interested in Harry and his well-being which always made me feel kind of awkward but was then multiplied by ten because I was like "oh, was he... hitting on Harry this whole time? Is he "interested"?" but that eventually dissolved because I'm asexual and single and MOST relationships are strange and awkward to me regardless of what gender or sex one chooses to be.madwarper said:I prefer to see all the characters as asexual until other context is provided. As, whether they fancy the opposite sex, the same sex, both or other is irrelevant, until a plot point makes it relevant.inu-kun said:The sexual identity of characters is usually thought of as heterosexual, this is not because people are being homophobic as some f***tards think, but because this is the norm, therefore if a character is not heterosexual we expect it to be said or at least implied in the work itself.
Also thisAreloch said:I like how simply not interpreting that a character in a story is gay and asking the author for why they decided to write the character that way now gets you labeled as a homophobe.
This is why we can't have nice things anymore.
I mean, they would go on adventures together and fight together. But bar mates do that too.Pluvia said:You kinda shot yourself in the foot there when you mentioned Harry and Ron's relationship. Their relationship wasn't like Dumbledore's and Grindlewald's, they didn't spend an obsessive amount of time with each other (to the extent Dumbledore's brother said he was neglecting his family to be with Grindlewald) and they never wrote secret letters to each other.
Harry and Ron is an example of a friendship so close they would literally die for each other. But it's clear that Dumbledore and Grindlewald's was different.
Why would you call them "incredibly close"? Did they really talk about their feelings to one another or was it instead the stereotypical friendship via shared experiences rather than dialogue and relationship building?Fox12 said:I don't think this is necessarily true. The whole concept of the "bromance" came out of this. Harry and Ron were incredibly close, but no one thought they were gay. The idea that close friendships can't exist without being confused for homosexuality is, I think, an exaggeration. I like C.S. Lewis's stance on the four loves. Romance is one, but friendship is another. It's possible to love someone, someone you're not related to, without being IN love with them. If what you say is true, then we simply need to expand our concept of love.
While I agree that Dumbledore/Grindlewald is that different from Ron/Harry, I certainly would not take it as evidence of a homosexual relationship.Pluvia said:You kinda shot yourself in the foot there when you mentioned Harry and Ron's relationship. Their relationship wasn't like Dumbledore's and Grindlewald's, they didn't spend an obsessive amount of time with each other (to the extent Dumbledore's brother said he was neglecting his family to be with Grindlewald) and they never wrote secret letters to each other.Lightknight said:Yes, this certainly hints at it.
My only complaint with this sort of increasingly more common storytelling in modern literature is that it robs us of basic camaraderie. Guys should be able to be close and even love one another as friends closer than brothers without it needing to be read into as being "in love" with each-other. It's kind of unfortunate that people can't just be close friends in stories anymore. They can't be 3 musketeers just willing to fight and die for one another, they have to be lovers anymore.
I'd have rather she was more explicit about it in the books to that effect. I have no problem with different sexualities, it's just that the persistence of this narrative as some kind of hidden twist is so common as to make guys distance themselves purposefully so as to maintain status as an available mate. The issue isn't that this mechanism exists, it's just how common it is that makes society assume that intimate yet platonic relationships suddenly HAVE to be sexual. Harry and Ron were friends, but they weren't intimate despite being best friends. Certainly not the same way females can be depicted.
What's more is, I no longer accept the "*gasp* they're gay together" or "*Gasp, the person in the mask is a girl!" as plot twists anymore. Yeah, people are gay and females can do things. It's no longer novel or surprising. It's just one of many facts of life.
Harry and Ron is an example of a friendship so close they would literally die for each other. But it's clear that Dumbledore and Grindlewald's was different.
That is a very odd way to look at it.. first of all, Dumbledore felt terribly responsible for not doing more to protect Harry's parents and felt he owed it to Both Harry and his parents to do his best to try to help raise Harry in their absence. He felt responsible for Harry as a parent would, he came across as " motherly" not as " hitting on him." The way he questioned Harry and concerned himself was how a mother questions her own child, and I do not see that as weird at all. He was very good with dealing with Children, that doesn't make him a child predator, that makes him a mentor.Spider RedNight said:I second this. By extension, the ONLY reason I remotely had a problem (had, past tense) with Dumbledore being gay is that he was... VERY acutely interested in Harry and his well-being which always made me feel kind of awkward but was then multiplied by ten because I was like "oh, was he... hitting on Harry this whole time? Is he "interested"?" but that eventually dissolved because I'm asexual and single and MOST relationships are strange and awkward to me regardless of what gender or sex one chooses to be.madwarper said:I prefer to see all the characters as asexual until other context is provided. As, whether they fancy the opposite sex, the same sex, both or other is irrelevant, until a plot point makes it relevant.inu-kun said:The sexual identity of characters is usually thought of as heterosexual, this is not because people are being homophobic as some f***tards think, but because this is the norm, therefore if a character is not heterosexual we expect it to be said or at least implied in the work itself.
That being said, I don't think either of them were wrong. It was a question asked for curiosity's sake because people DO have different opinions and Rowling is right; people are people, doesn't matter how they look.
Also thisAreloch said:I like how simply not interpreting that a character in a story is gay and asking the author for why they decided to write the character that way now gets you labeled as a homophobe.
This is why we can't have nice things anymore.
Exactly, and yet works like this expect us to read between the lines and make that exact assumption just because there is a deeper relationship than just some dude-bro beer pong cooperation going on.DrOswald said:The primary difference between the two relationships, resulting in the different "look" of the relationships to the outside observer, is not sexual. It is the depth of the relationship. Now, relationships with a sexual component more often become deep, and relationships that are deep often become sexual. This is why you associate the signs of a deep of relationships with physical relationships. But it is not a safe assumption to make.
I don't think the books are expecting you to do anything, it is simply using a different interpretation for a relationship between two characters with a vague connection than the one you assumed. The events between Dumbledore and Grindlewald are vague enough that you can read either interpretation, the author had one interpretation in mind while writing it, but I can't think of anywhere in the books where you are expected to come to the same conclusion as the author. Just like the people who swear up and down that two characters must be in love and it turns out the author had no intention of anything being hinted at, you weren't necessarily expected to read their interaction as merely friendship, you just had a different interpretation. Unless the work explicitly lays out a relationship as either love or just friendship, the work itself is not expecting anything.Lightknight said:Exactly, and yet works like this expect us to read between the lines and make that exact assumption just because there is a deeper relationship than just some dude-bro beer pong cooperation going on.DrOswald said:The primary difference between the two relationships, resulting in the different "look" of the relationships to the outside observer, is not sexual. It is the depth of the relationship. Now, relationships with a sexual component more often become deep, and relationships that are deep often become sexual. This is why you associate the signs of a deep of relationships with physical relationships. But it is not a safe assumption to make.
Redlin5 said:Oh boy, its THIS discussion again.
Both aren't wrong in their positions. I read and will continue to read Dumbledore as a straight character because there was nothing in the text that clued me into it before I heard, years after the last book was published, that the character was considered by Rowling as homosexual.
However.
Re-reading it with that put into the mix, I could see the character keeping that mystery to himself. I just prefer my original interpretation of Dumbledore. Does that make me homophobic? I hope not; I just consider him played straight in the way I read the words on the pages. This doesn't come from me disliking the notion of him being homosexual, just that its not the ingrained image of the man I created while reading the series as they were released.
Rowling is free to comment on the sexuality of a character she created as much as she wants. Fans will interpret the work as they will. While my view of the man is now non-canon, if I enjoy imagining the character in the way I originally read him as years ago I don't see how anyone needs to police my attitude on it.
I'm not going to war on this but others always will be prepared to try and change my mind anyway.
[sup][sup]I enjoyed Dumbledore being flamboyantly gay in ERB so whatever. It's not a big deal to me.[/sup][/sup]
Not trying to accuse you of being homophobic but I don't get why you or anyone would assign him as straight in the first place as it has no reverence to anything he dose. Why is him being straight important to how you imagine him? Dumbldore's sexuality to me was always an unimportant blank. If Rowling says he's gay (even if that was decided after the books were finished), well ok, that something I didn't know about the character and it's not a blank anymore.Redlin5 said:Oh boy, its THIS discussion again.
Both aren't wrong in their positions. I read and will continue to read Dumbledore as a straight character because there was nothing in the text that clued me into it before I heard, years after the last book was published, that the character was considered by Rowling as homosexual.
However.
Re-reading it with that put into the mix, I could see the character keeping that mystery to himself. I just prefer my original interpretation of Dumbledore. Does that make me homophobic? I hope not; I just consider him played straight in the way I read the words on the pages. This doesn't come from me disliking the notion of him being homosexual, just that its not the ingrained image of the man I created while reading the series as they were released.
Rowling is free to comment on the sexuality of a character she created as much as she wants. Fans will interpret the work as they will. While my view of the man is now non-canon, if I enjoy imagining the character in the way I originally read him as years ago I don't see how anyone needs to police my attitude on it.
I'm not going to war on this but others always will be prepared to try and change my mind anyway.
[sup][sup]I enjoyed Dumbledore being flamboyantly gay in ERB so whatever. It's not a big deal to me.[/sup][/sup]
She didn't take it in the literal sense. Her statement works perfectly well in the same figurative sense the fan used.Ryan Hughes said:I doubt I need to add that the fan intended to use the word "see" in a figurative sense, and Ms Rowling replied -rather tongue-in-cheek- taking it in the literal sense.
Waaait a minute, I never read the last three books, but that /was/ cut from the film wasn't it?Pluvia said:That wasn't thoughtless or inappropriate, she just answered it in a pretty straight forward way.
When people complain about Dumbledore being gay, and how they don't see it, it makes me wonder if they even read the last book. I mean when he was 17 he wrote secret letters to another boy about how they'll be together. After his sister was killed the other boy ran off and became wizard Hitler, and Dumbledore wouldn't go and face him for some suspicious reason (coughlovecough) until 6 years later when he became to bad to ignore. Then, despite wielding an unbeatable wand and being evenly matched to Dumbledore, he lost. Kinda like the book was implying he didn't want to kill Dumbledore. Then he never even gave up Dumbledore's secrets despite a lifetime in prison, the fact that Dumbledore was already dead, and that he was staring death in the face. Kinda like the book was implying something about the way they felt for each other (coughlovecough).
You can interpret a character in any way you want, but Word of God and evidence in the books says Dumbledore's gay.
They do, but that doesn't mean they're right. If the /creator/ of the works says that something IS, that is what it is, regarldess of how strongly the interpretor feels it's something else.Ryan Hughes said:1) People absolutely have a right to interpret works of art as they see fit
No you didn't. You made that claim in the OP. Other people are now disputing it. That is how a discussion works.Ryan Hughes said:I already proved that cannot be the case in the OP. Also, you hold that opinion against all of postmodern theory for the last 70 years or so. Have fun with it.FalloutJack said:I'll never understand the phenomenon of people trying to outsmart the author. Anyone can come up with a theory on something, but only the 'professor' has the answer sheet. If I were to theorize that Dumbledore was actually wearing a fake beard the whole time, it would be a fun theory, but it would be wrong.
I think you highlighted the crux of the issue quite well there. Imagining that he was announced as straight and the fans being in uproar... Nah, not realistic. It just wouldn't happen. Since heterosexism, straight people are seen as normal everyone else is seen as abnormal and odd.FirstNameLastName said:Not trying to throw around accusations here, but am I the only one who thinks that if she had confirmed him to be straight (despite no evidence in the books either) then we wouldn't hear a peep out of anyone asking why it wasn't explicitly spelled out in the books? After all, it's not like this was the first time she ever clarified something that wasn't mentioned in the books. With the way that she seems to contrive new plot devices as she goes, and the way she seems to value a whimsical style over logical world building, she would surely have answered an innumerable amount of questions asking why character X didn't solve problem Y using method Z. In fact, these types of clarifications from authors/directors/developers are not uncommon, and yet, they only ever seem to become controversial when the content of the clarification is itself, controversial.
One would almost be led to believe this controversy has little to do with whether or not it was in the book, and everything to do with him being gay (regardless of how many people begin their posts with "I'm not homophobic, but ...").
I'm not saying it couldn't be compelling. The Nobody Dies version of Evangelion is brilliant. HOWEVER, it's not the actual author's tale. Regardless of quality, Word of God trumps all in terms of meaning. It's not like how George Lucas declared all Star Wars books canon here. A fanfiction is an alternate universe based upon the original text. It doesn't change the actual story.Charcharo said:You are giving authors WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much credit.FalloutJack said:I'll never understand the phenomenon of people trying to outsmart the author. Anyone can come up with a theory on something, but only the 'professor' has the answer sheet. If I were to theorize that Dumbledore was actually wearing a fake beard the whole time, it would be a fun theory, but it would be wrong.
And the comparison is not correct honestly.
In other words... uhm, fan fiction can, has, and will at times be more compelling then what the author has created. No matter what George RR Martin may believe in.