Jim, I know that as an example of shining hope for humanity, you assume better of people than I do, but I think it's important to accept that racism, sexism and homophobia are rampant in gamers. While it may be some people are afraid their pastimes will be taken away, but there are a lot of people who will actively harass and discriminate based on race, genitals, or whose genitals you are attracted to.
I'm not sure of the actual ratio, but I would certainly call this a major reason people try and shut down debate on sexism and the like. Remember, we have guys who think it's okay to sniff their teammates and be basic creepers or worse.
Women harassed at cons tend to get the whole "she was asking for it!" treatment, and there are numerous reports of security being crap at these events. People ask why gays feel they need a safe space, but I'm surprised any woman dares show up at cons these days at all either.
No, it's easier to say the person who is bringing it up is a bad person, because the character of the actual gamer is quite often at issue.
Calibanbutcher said:
So, you are telling me that no-one wants to take my games away from me?
Can I finally come out of the basement then?
Or will all these "isms" suddenly unfold and steal my library?
It's a trap! Jim is working with the isms! In fact, you can't spell "Jimquisition" without ISM!
I am, whoever, a bit weary of people crying out that "OMG EVERYTHING NEEDS TO CHANGE SO NOTHING EVER IS OFFENSIVE EVER AGAIN ANYMORE", because if we go that far, we will be sitting in front of blank screens, lest we offend the colour-blind who can't play, listening to nothing, so as not to offend the deaf.
Okay, who the hell is actually saying that? Seriously.
Jimothy Sterling said:
I would argue that trying to bury those little things, hiding them, and acting sensitive whenever they're brought up can only HELP those trying to undermine it. Accepting them, and using them as jumping points for rational and provocative discussion, will only solidify gaming's status.
Indeed, denying the existence just makes us look...Well, bad. It could be bad for a bunch of reasons; we could be childish, stupid, naive, combative/petulant, addicted or any of a number of other states. It comes off as "LALALALALALALALA! I CAN'T HEAR YOU!"
Though gamers can hear the criticism, and take it poorly.