From reading a few of the comments here, I think I've found the problem with this whole debacle:
Saying something does not properly represent women is not an excuse to jump to conclusions. For anyone (developers, gamers, publishers, Christian moms, feminists, farmers, WalMart slaves, etc.). The phrase "GTA V does not properly represent women, because it does not allow one as a protagonist," is an almost meaningless statement if there's no actual, concrete, definitive meaning for "represent women" (which, last I checked, there isn't). If there's no concrete definition of something (as in, it is not a fact, like "the atmosphere is blue when light from the sun hits it"), it's probably an opinion. You are free to not share an opinion. Personally, I don't necessarily think having a male-only protagonist prevents a game from "properly" representing women, but it can help.
If you are watching/reading/consuming any media, hear the words "does not represent women" and conclude, in order: This thing is Sexist->Sexist is hating women (misogynist)->Misogyny is an attribute of a fundamentally bad person->Creators of misogynist things are fundamentally bad people->Consuming things that are misogynist makes me a fundamentally bad person, stop. If someone says you are a fundamentally bad person for liking something they consider sexist, ask them to cite sources saying the material in question causes personality changes.
We all like something that someone has deemed "bad," "offensive," "juvenile," etc. Maybe it's because we're bad people. Maybe it isn't (you can appreciate an offensive joke without constantly offending the person/group the joke is about). Most of the "sexist" material being produced today is done from ignorance, not deliberate malice. This ignorance should be corrected. That is what calling something sexist, not representing women, etc. is trying to do. If you feel this threatens your worldview and should not be questioned, you have not yet found your own solidarity on this topic, and should challenge yourself to think about these things. Not every claim of "this is sexist!" will be right, but don't just dismiss them because it's easy.
Saying something does not properly represent women is not an excuse to jump to conclusions. For anyone (developers, gamers, publishers, Christian moms, feminists, farmers, WalMart slaves, etc.). The phrase "GTA V does not properly represent women, because it does not allow one as a protagonist," is an almost meaningless statement if there's no actual, concrete, definitive meaning for "represent women" (which, last I checked, there isn't). If there's no concrete definition of something (as in, it is not a fact, like "the atmosphere is blue when light from the sun hits it"), it's probably an opinion. You are free to not share an opinion. Personally, I don't necessarily think having a male-only protagonist prevents a game from "properly" representing women, but it can help.
If you are watching/reading/consuming any media, hear the words "does not represent women" and conclude, in order: This thing is Sexist->Sexist is hating women (misogynist)->Misogyny is an attribute of a fundamentally bad person->Creators of misogynist things are fundamentally bad people->Consuming things that are misogynist makes me a fundamentally bad person, stop. If someone says you are a fundamentally bad person for liking something they consider sexist, ask them to cite sources saying the material in question causes personality changes.
We all like something that someone has deemed "bad," "offensive," "juvenile," etc. Maybe it's because we're bad people. Maybe it isn't (you can appreciate an offensive joke without constantly offending the person/group the joke is about). Most of the "sexist" material being produced today is done from ignorance, not deliberate malice. This ignorance should be corrected. That is what calling something sexist, not representing women, etc. is trying to do. If you feel this threatens your worldview and should not be questioned, you have not yet found your own solidarity on this topic, and should challenge yourself to think about these things. Not every claim of "this is sexist!" will be right, but don't just dismiss them because it's easy.