antman890 said:
Orekoya said:
girzwald said:
mjc0961 said:
girzwald said:
That's may be the definition of bigot. But sorry, just because you don't approve of gay marriage does not mean you are a bigot. Do tell me how believing in something means you are automatically INTOLERANT of the opposite. Maybe what you need is to learn what TOLERANCE means.
Tolerance: a fair, objective, and permissive attitude toward those whose opinions, practices, race, religion, nationality, etc., differ from one's own; freedom from bigotry.
I hate rap. Hate, hate, hate it. Think its crap that all sounds the same and I wish it didn't exist But guess what. Still tolerant of it. I let it exist because it has a right to. But that doesn't mean I have to like it.
But its ironic, the chicken guy has a view, and a belief, but you seem to be rather intolerant of it. That make you a bigot as well?
If you wish it didn't exist, guess what. That means you AREN'T tolerant of it. Wishing that something you dislike would stop existing isn't fair, objective, or permissive at all. You're saying "I don't like that thing, I wish it didn't exist. Fuck everyone who does like it because I do not like it and I am the only one that matters."
That's about as far from tolerating rap as you can get. :/
I like how you highlighted and took out of context one part of what I said but obviously ignored "But I let it exist BECAUSE IT HAS A RIGHT TO" Meaning, I recognize that it has a right to exist and I have no right to make it not exist.
Sorry, that's not far from being tolerant. That's quintessential tolerance.
No it isn't.
tolerate - to allow the existence, presence, practice, or act of without prohibition or hindrance; to endure without repugnance(ie strong distaste, aversion, or objection)
To tolerate means you see or experience without batting an eye from whatever personal discomfort you feel about something, so no you're not even tolerating rap. You stop tolerating something when you start complaining about it because you are expressing your distaste and aversion. And stopping yourself short of firebombing rap out of existence because you see it isn't your call to determine what should be allowed to exist doesn't make you suddenly more tolerant. It means you aren't psychotic.
Thank you for being sane.
sorry I'm with grizwald on this. tolerance doesn't hinder you from expressing your discomfort or aversion to something. the moment you actively try to stop something you have an aversion to is when you stop being tolerant. i.e. giving money to anti gay marriage organisations.
The very definition of tolerance means you don't express your discomfort or aversion to something. I would think that does hinder your ability to express your discomfort or aversion.
girzwald said:
Orekoya said:
girzwald said:
mjc0961 said:
girzwald said:
That's may be the definition of bigot. But sorry, just because you don't approve of gay marriage does not mean you are a bigot. Do tell me how believing in something means you are automatically INTOLERANT of the opposite. Maybe what you need is to learn what TOLERANCE means.
Tolerance: a fair, objective, and permissive attitude toward those whose opinions, practices, race, religion, nationality, etc., differ from one's own; freedom from bigotry.
I hate rap. Hate, hate, hate it. Think its crap that all sounds the same and I wish it didn't exist But guess what. Still tolerant of it. I let it exist because it has a right to. But that doesn't mean I have to like it.
But its ironic, the chicken guy has a view, and a belief, but you seem to be rather intolerant of it. That make you a bigot as well?
If you wish it didn't exist, guess what. That means you AREN'T tolerant of it. Wishing that something you dislike would stop existing isn't fair, objective, or permissive at all. You're saying "I don't like that thing, I wish it didn't exist. Fuck everyone who does like it because I do not like it and I am the only one that matters."
That's about as far from tolerating rap as you can get. :/
I like how you highlighted and took out of context one part of what I said but obviously ignored "But I let it exist BECAUSE IT HAS A RIGHT TO" Meaning, I recognize that it has a right to exist and I have no right to make it not exist.
Sorry, that's not far from being tolerant. That's quintessential tolerance.
No it isn't.
tolerate - to allow the existence, presence, practice, or act of without prohibition or hindrance; to endure without repugnance(ie strong distaste, aversion, or objection)
To tolerate means you see or experience without batting an eye from whatever personal discomfort you feel about something, so no you're not even tolerating rap. You stop tolerating something when you start complaining about it because you are expressing your distaste and aversion. And stopping yourself short of firebombing rap out of existence because you see it isn't your call to determine what should be allowed to exist doesn't make you suddenly more tolerant. It means you aren't psychotic.
Thank you for being sane.
Here is a list of things you tolerate but yet are repugnant or that you just don't like. A bad smell, a crying child on an airplane, in laws. Am I a BIGOT or INTOLERANT because I don't like that someone farted? Or that some baby has been crying for 2 hours and it makes my ears want to bleed?
There has go to be some more subtle nuance to those words or you are interpreting words within the definition incorrectly. Because once again, some of you like to omit key words and phrases. This is the source you are quoting from.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/tolerate?s=t
And THIS is what you left off.
to endure without repugnance;
put up with:
So obviously, that clarification did not mean that you cannot like the thing you are tolerating. Because obviously if I start shouting at people who are listening to rap to turn that crap off, I'm not tolerating it, am I? When in fact, that IS the definition and spirit of tolerance. Its putting up with something you don't like or accept. Otherwise you wouldn't be tolerating something! You'd be accepting it. Don't make me break out the Mr. Garrison speech....
Tolerance doesn't mean like so liking or not liking anything is meaningless in this conversation. I also did not mention that that you have to like something to tolerate it, at all.
Thank you for including and bolding that section of the definition that I included, but let me state a fact you neglect to recognize:
you are not putting up with it when you start complaining. I do not know how to make this clearer: whether something pisses you off or not is irrelevant, voicing your dissent is
not putting up with it! Tolerance isn't some infinite state of being, that being tolerant of the action at that point in time makes you always tolerant of it forever just as much as complaining now makes you intolerant of it forever. When you stop complaining, you're being tolerant again. If you were on a long hold for a phone call and didn't complain, you tolerated the wait but if you complain to them after they finally pick up, you didn't tolerate the wait. And complaining that one time doesn't mean you are forever intolerant of long wait times, maybe next time you will tolerate the wait.
Stupidest part of this whole debate is the implication that being intolerant is an inherently bad quality. How you choose you to express your intolerance and what material you are being tolerant of are kinda way the hell more important than whether or not you were being tolerant. And the best way to measure how well you expressed your intolerance is by how people respond to it. Expressing your dissent for rap on an internet forum is intolerance (when you wrote the post anyways) but it's also a perfectly acceptable way to express intolerance; nobody will have umbrage that you simply posted you don't like rap (unless you or they start trolling each other). Spending your corporation's money to actively prevent people you don't know from getting married because those people you don't know happen to be the same gender is not an acceptable way to express your intolerance of gay people.