Jim Sterling said:
All good, apart from your argument about the relationship between femshep and Liara.
You're right that anyone arguing the lesbian relationship doesn't count, because Liara is an alien, is a moron. The point however, that gay relationships already exist, fails because Shepherd is not female.
I'll obviously have to clarify that.
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Shepherd can be played as a female and can go bump in the night with Liara, so it's an obvious gay relationship.
But the character of Shepherd is not female, it's male.
There is nothing female about the character at all. It is a player controlled embodiment of the soldier hero trope, which is entirely male. Shepherd has no real character himself, he borrows it all from the trope he represents. The assumption, if playing femshep and regarding sexuality, is that she is either a lesbian or sexually dominant; in other words male oriented, just like the rest of the character.
The story is written about a man. There is not a single iota of femininity in the character. The ability to be female is entirely cosmetic, the story does not accommodate a woman in that role. (Which is why I can't take femshep seriously or believe that gayshep will be at all believable, BW don't write stories that do those characters justice. They
would differ enough from the trope to require actual characterisation, whereas mshep does not.)
This situation would be like putting a butch lesbian in a Barbie atmosphere game, that would not go down well. Put in a camp gay bloke on the other hand, that'd be fine. We're talking about the tropes the games deal with; one being the soldier hero and the other being the fashionista.
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That distinction of butch and camp is actually really important too, because they are what you imagine when you hear lesbian or gay. You imagine a butch lesbian and a camp man, because those are the most different from the norm. Also, the tropes I mentioned earlier decide which is good or bad in the context of the game. In ME a butch lesbo is ok whilst a camp gay is bad, in Barbie the opposite is true.
That's something I feel probably upsets some of the complainers; that they feel their Shep is now tainted with "the camp", something that's actually bad, thanks to the optional retcon. (Obviously I think that to a small degree, because I can imagine others doing so)
It is, however, stupid because a whole heck of a lot of gay men aren't camp.
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But, most importantly in this instance, your Shepherd's story is entirely controlled by your own good self. I managed to avoid BBC in ME2 as femshep, I think I'll be able to avoid it as mshep in 3.