trunkage said:
One thing I've noticed over the last few decades is, particularly when used by right winger, divisive is a word used to point out that the Left is wrong. I am also very wary of ANYONE, on both sides, who says, 'bringing people together' because that bringing usually involves deleting any potential disagreement through vilifying people. If you can do it while not hurting people, Dreiko, more power to you. I've heard that phrase too much and be utterly harmful to people, I don't trust that phrase.
You seem to be thinking of the type of "bipartisan" behavior Biden is proud of, in which bringing people together means bringing the center to the right and agreeing with the right wing. I'm talking about bringing actual people together, and most normal people from both sides don't really care about these social issues a fraction as deeply as they care about economics.
Lets take a super divisive issue like abortion for example. Abortion ban laws mainly affect poor people who can't travel to get an abortion to a location it's legal and have to either have a kid they can't care for properly or do risky procedures at home.
There's two ways to fix this. You can either ban abortion and anger a good chunk of the country who still believes in fairy tales from eons ago, or, you can improve the economic situation so there's way less poor people who can't afford to travel for an abortion.
Both achieve roughly the same goal but one brings people together while the other divides them. Also, note, being for the latter path is not a stance against abortion, it's a stance for winning elections that is merely indifferent towards abortion. People fail to comprehend this sort of nuance way too often. They tend to value being for abortion as something of intrinsic value in and of itself, divorced from the actual benefits such a stance may (or may not) bring to people's lives.