In recent years, I've probably played more western RPGs than Japanese ones.
Several years ago, it was the inverse which was true.
Both "genres" (the term "RPG" has grown to be somewhat of a misnomer in recent years) have their strong points, but as a general rule I prefer good stories over other aspects of games.
Western RPGs are built upon choice and exploration, which are fine goals to be certain; however, they aren't big selling points for me. They're fun with their more free-form approach to game structure, allowing you to do whatever you please. The problem is that I find this gets somewhat old fairly quickly, and I'll lose interest in the game because of the lack of a driving force to engage me. Speaking of which, the western RPGs I've enjoyed in recent years is because of their story rather than the choice they offer; said choice is a nice little addition, but it wouldn't be necessary for me to play the game. The added complexity of the gameplay (generally speaking) doesn't do anything me either, because it actually comes off as unwieldly rather than intriguing; the "complexity" isn't that complex (from my perspective), so it just feels meaningless.
As for RPGs of Japanese origin, I've somewhat grown disinterested in them over the last decade or so for some reason. Perhaps it could be that I'm moving out of the target demographic and I'm looking for some different themes in my games; things like morally ambigious situations and philosophical ponderings (though I prefer the more intellectual variety of these, rather than the emotional ones), things without easy answers. To tell the truth, neither JRPGs nor WRPGs are that great for exploring these; actually, make that very few games period.
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So here's the problem:
- WRPGs are more likely to have the darker themes & settings which are more likely to address the topics I'm interested in. The games having a stronger focus on choice means the player will feel the weight of the situation should it arise.
- JRPGs have the stronger central narrative, which allows them to better deal with those topics.
So yeah, neither is quite ideal for me; but then again, my interests are falling outside of the the vast majority of the demographics in society. So until those games which really engage me intellectually crop up, I'm fairly open to enjoying good games from either variety of "RPG". It doesn't matter which is the "true RPG", a good game is a good game.