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The only boobs or ass that I like are ones that exist in reality and that I am allowed, scratch that, encouraged to touch. I'm so sick of being sold sexuality by mass media or even having to hear some dude say "oh, check her out." I don't care. I'm over it. Make the game characters completely naked and give them sex organs so big they obscure gameplay. It means nothing to me. Even that pretty real life waitress is a waste of my time. She is never ever going to have sex with me, I have no idea what she's even like, or what she likes. I will not expend the one calorie to tilt my head in her direction.

I'll extend that to pornography, too. There is nothing on this big old internet of ours that's going to make me orgasm quicker/better than I can with the power of my own imagination.
 

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zelda2fanboy said:
The only boobs or ass that I like are ones that exist in reality and that I am allowed, scratch that, encouraged to touch. I'm so sick of being sold sexuality by mass media or even having to hear some dude say "oh, check her out." I don't care. I'm over it. Make the game characters completely naked and give them sex organs so big they obscure gameplay. It means nothing to me. Even that pretty real life waitress is a waste of my time. She is never ever going to have sex with me, I have no idea what she's even like, or what she likes. I will not expend the one calorie to tilt my head in her direction.

I'll extend that to pornography, too. There is nothing on this big old internet of ours that's going to make me orgasm quicker/better than I can with the power of my own imagination.
I'll agree to the first point, but not the second.

I've got a pretty impressive collection of porn and I'm hooked into some of the better porn sharing communities. I'm now at the point where my imagination and my porn feed one another in a gloriously creepy cycle of perversion. It really is awesome. ;)
 

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Emiscary said:
I'll agree to the first point, but not the second.

I've got a pretty impressive collection of porn and I'm hooked into some of the better porn sharing communities. I'm now at the point where my imagination and my porn feed one another in a gloriously creepy cycle of perversion. It really is awesome. ;)
I have a massive porn collection too, but I never look at it anymore. I can get the same result with my eyes closed in the dark. It was a combination of a different kind of masturbation and the discovery of a fetish site that specialized in writing only. I figured out to write one of my own stories in the same style and once I did that, I could structure twisted fantasies in my head.
 

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Fiz_The_Toaster said:
DoPo said:
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oh my god....

is that promo imagine real?...sweet jesus
That's not even the worst or most "in your face" of it.



This is armor. ARMOR!
I see your armour and rise you ARMOUR!

Because to hell with vital organs!

The boobs must be protected!
The amount of skin covered on a female is inversely proportional to the protection of her armor. This is a scientific fact!
 

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Jodah said:
Fiz_The_Toaster said:
DoPo said:
Dirty Hipsters said:
Vault101 said:
oh my god....

is that promo imagine real?...sweet jesus
That's not even the worst or most "in your face" of it.



This is armor. ARMOR!
I see your armour and rise you ARMOUR!

Because to hell with vital organs!

The boobs must be protected!
The amount of skin covered on a female is inversely proportional to the protection of her armor. This is a scientific fact!
Can't argue with science because science is serious business.
 

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I tried to back back out of this thread. It is usually a good idea when things get too heated, I do not particularly want to get banned.

Firstly, my use of the word objectify. I am using it as it is commonly used. Within this context I am stating that turning women into sex objects (As the art style does. It does not bring to mind "Epic Warrior", instead it makes one think of a cheap porno. I am not the only one who thinks this). As in, the women are not being treated as women, but as things a man would want to stick his penis into, first and foremost.
Secondly, my barbie facts? Just simple things one could find out if one was bored enough. On another note, her arms are ridiculously out of proportion and her neck is simply too long.
Thirdly, my notes on annorexia. These come from several sources: Studying psychology, Studying sociology and, primarily, dating several annorexics. Oh, and a bulimic. Now, I will state freely that one of the key causes of annorexia is a lack of control (Or the feeling that one lacks control) however, the current fixation on thin people within the west is also a contributing factor. Media depictions of beauty within the west are also contributing to this. As for my comments on the banning of size zero models? Well, this was primarily done because being that thin causes major health issues, including heart failure. However, it was also done due to the negative impact it was seen to be having on society: Stating that an unhealthy lifestyle was attractive.

And finally, because I believe all of the above neatly summarizes my opinion, the argument that this is art and they can do whatever they like? My answer? So what. They could have chosen to do whatever they like and they chose to make a race that dresses like strippers, they chose to promote their game with SFW pornography. They CHOSE this art style. And, as a human, with free will, I can CHOOSE to find this art style not to my taste and I can choose to find it abhorrent.

It does make me feel ill when I see things like this. Because this, this could be damaging. This is simply pandering to anyone with a penis "Play this game! We have boobs! Lots of boobs!" and I find it distasteful. I find it disgusting. I find the defence of this hyper sexualization, this sexism, I find it disgusting.

A woman can be depicted as attractive without being depicted as sexy. A woman can be depicted as feminine without being depicted as a sex object. Fuck it, a woman does not need to be attractive or feminie to be a woman.

And now, I quote someone who seems to be agreeing with me, on general terms at least:
Emiscary said:
I love how defensive people get when you point out needless hyper-sexualization in games. Mostly because I cannot imagine any context where you'd get the same kind of outrage at the *suggestion* that it should be curbed. Let's take say... "The Avengers". Now, if Joss Whedon had elected to dress Scarlett Johansson in a g-string & halter top and people complained about it, would you have marvel comic fans screaming:

"NO! NEVER! MEN ARE OBJECTIFIED SOMETIMES TO! RABBLE! ETC!" ?

If so mostly you'd just stare at them like they were a bunch of slack jawed idiots. Long story short: methinks the gamers doth protest too much. You don't *need* to have an erection at all times. And the fact that you insist that you do need one (or that there's some other more noble [and entirely fictitious reason] you wanna keep this shit in games...) implies some pretty sad things about you.
And I am done. Any issues you have with my opinions or use of language simply do not matter to me. I accept I will not change your mind. You think it is totally fine to depict women as little more than things to put your cock into, I think that it is wrong to do so. You love how women are depicted in games, I want games and gamers to grow the fuck up.

There was a fight for gender equality in textbooks at schools. I think its about time the same fight happened within games.
"Firstly, my use of the word objectify. I am using it as it is commonly used."

You are misusing it in a meaningless way that damages ability for us to discuss this issue. What do you ACTUALLY mean by "objectify" it clearly is not the dictionary definition? See I think you are just using it as a pejorative with no discussion value. "Pejorative", look that term up while you are looking up "objectify"

"I'm not the only one who thinks this"

Is no argument. Think about all the wrong and awful things that have been justified by "me and mah buddies think it's all right".

Your Barbie facts are mis-representative for your ignorance of how art works. It does NOT have to be in natural proportions, just because someone makes a doll, sculpture or painting of someone with long arms that doesn't mean the artist wants them to have weak and frail arms. Just as Pablo Picasso doesn't want women to have their faces smashed so their eyes are on the other side of their face.

"I have studied" is not a source. This is a source:

http://www.merckmanuals.com/professional/pulmonary_disorders/tumors_of_the_lungs/lung_carcinoma.html?qt=&sc=&alt=

about link between smoking and lung cancer. Not related, but an example of what it means to give a source.

Facile logic to ban unhealthy depictions, as by that logic fat people should be banned from television and obesity is a FAR greater problem in the western world. Banning depiction of thin people this without any science to actually indicate that this is the major causative or contributory factor in anorexia is wrong. It's amateur psychologist speculation.

And May I just comment on your breathless insensitivity:

"only appeal to those with a penis"

Have you never heard of homosexuality? Gay men would have no interest in this and again, invisible lesbians, their agency and interest is totally ignored and marginalised. Typical heterosexist narcissism.

Sex =/= sexism

Sexism is denigrating based on gender. TERA game is very well balanced, the female of this race are not disadvantaged in any measure of combat prowess or ability to influence the narrative.

Again, abuse of the term "Sex object" as nothing but a contrived pejorative.

You aren't adding any discussion value here, you are throwing meaningless insults and shallow fallacious "observations".

Video games are comparatively FAR more tame in terms of sex than film. Where is the video game equivalent of Wild Things? A major feature film that included a THREESOME! Or American pie with full frontal female nudity?

"Any issues you have with my opinions or use of language simply do not matter to me."

That's blatant denialism. You don't even bother to think about what a negative effect you are having on this discussion.

"You think it is totally fine to depict women as little more than things to put your cock into"

That's a blatant straw-man attack, I do not hold that stance and you know this as I've never said I hold that stance. You have fabricated that stance out of no where only to denigrate me in an Ad Hominem attack.

Games already have gender equality, there is exactly the same capability to sexually admire men is games like TERA, what you are talking about is NOT equality, you want an arbitrary and unequal ban on female sexuality. The characters are equally capable in combat and gameplay in general across genders and species even.

It's very clear what you want, it's very clear what your prejudices are, and it's very clear you don't have any good reason for holding your stance, and ESPECIALLY NOT for why they should ever be imposed on anyone else against their free will, not morally, not legally, not in any way.

If you want to have an actual reasoned discussion rather than throw around fallacies, facile logic, pejoratives, slurs under a facade of denialism then I'd welcome that. But so far you don't seem to be willing to do that. Your personal prejudice (your apparent disgust) is no argument and cannot justify your fallacies.
 

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RazadaMk2 said:
Fuck it. I was going to back out. But with things like this, I am just prevented from doing so. I keep being dragged back in.

The only mistake I will admit to have made was the "Penis" comment due to being incredibly tired. You are right. Plenty of gay men would be uninterested, plenty of gay women would be interested. The point is that the characters are being depicted as sex objects.

Two quick points.

ob·jec·ti·fy

verb (used with object), ob·jec·ti·fied, ob·jec·ti·fy·ing.
to present as an object, especially of sight, touch, or other physical sense; make objective; externalize.

sex object

noun
a person viewed as being of little interest or merit beyond the potential for providing sexual gratification.

So, my use of the word objectify? I am stating that the women are being objectifyed as sex objects. Boom. Correct use of the word.

And now?

My final, closing statement?

You are very well spoken. Let me admit that. You take much more effort with your posts than I ever would. But, well, I will be ignoring your entire argument based on a single point.

"Games already have gender equality".

Bahahaha. No. Games do not have anything similar to gender equality. You attacked me for slipping up and forgetting about gay men at 3am? I attack you for using binary genders. Simple enough.

However, that is just a pointless distraction from the actual issue right? Nobody would bring up something so pointless, it was just a mistake, nothing more, right?

*sigh*

As for the debate?

Just keep reading that person I quoted. I have no reason to read rather eloquent personal attacks. If you cannot see how treating women as sex objects is bad, well, thats fine. Some people are blind to issues, I guess. If you cannot see how the insane level of sexualisation within computer games can be damaging or is just plain sexist, well, thats fine. Some people just dont care.

Oh, and when I stated that "You think it is totally fine to depict women as little more than things to put your cock into" this is the same point I use in many debates.

If you do not want to change something, you are agreeing with it. Since you are arguing that there is nothing wrong with the depiction of women in the way they are being depicted within TERA, you think there is nothing wrong with them being depicted as little more than things to put your cock into. You are defending the view so it is safe to assume as much.
Yes, there is your problem those two definitions make it clear. The term "sex object" is not literal but figurative. You cannot extend "sex-object" to "objectification" as you are playing meaningless word association. Calling a hot guy a "stud" does not mean they are calling them a horse, even if stud literally means a type of male horse.

So. Incorrect use of the term.

But you were wrong even before you got these as the females depicted were not concubines, they were warriors, adventurers and playable characters. They were sexual without compromise, as evident by how balanced the playable characters are. So their sole role is NOT for sex so they defy even the definition of "sex object".

And the term sex-object in itself is a pejorative term.Would you ever be crass and crule enough to call a prostitute - to his or her face - a sex object. Yes, this job is sex but it is utterly contrived and insulting to conclude they are an object from that, it has no literal logical connection. I have never paid for sex but I have known prostitutes and they DESPISE how people like your characterise them. They are denigrated not by their work but by how people like you call them objects just for how they chose to earn a living.

As such there is not response for a rhetorical statement like this:

"If you cannot see how treating women as sex objects is bad, well, thats fine."

As that is NOT my stance. Straw manning again. I do not treat women as "objects". This is a pejorative. This is fallacy. This has no discussion value. You might as well ask me "have I stopped beating my wife". Think. Follow the Golden Rule, don't do onto others what you wouldn't like done to you, in this case present a false characterisation that is nothing but a veiled accusation.

And it follows the Golden Rule to find someone attractive. I like to be found attractive, but I would never bother a woman who I found attractive as if I was attractive I'd like discrete admiration. I would not treat them as objects as I reasonably wouldn't want that done to me if I was in their position. Masochism is the exception to the golden rule as just because you want it doesn't mean they might, ergo I wouldn't force feed a vegetarian meat.

I have repeatedly refuted your 'sexual = objectification' claim, so why is 'sexual = sexist'? What is the inherent factor that links sexuality to sexism?

"I attack you for using binary genders. Simple enough."

Nope. I never claimed such a binary existence. Merely mentioning men and women doesn't exclude transgender. So, another straw man argument to dismiss. And I did not attack you, I criticised your insensitivity and hetero-centrist dogma. This is not personal, this is about the argument you put forward, I'm not trying to shoot the messenger. My point with the hetero-sexist observation is refuting your claim that female sexuality purely and comprehensively serves men, when that is not the case. So sexuality is not sexism as it doesn't only serve men. And of course it goes both ways (Twilight, Nsync, boy-bands, etc)

Video games have pioneered transgender far more than film, with Poison fro mStreets of Rage, bouncing the hollywood stereotype by presenting a transgender individual being unable to escape their masculine form, but Poison being fully feminine and sexual. Look at the depictions of transgender in hollywood, they go to extra effort to accentuate the masculinity for a male-to-female trans-character.

"If you do not want to change something, you are agreeing with [the statement] 'You think it is totally fine to depict women as little more than things to put your cock into'."

That's another fallacy of a False Dichotomy, seen by George W Bush when he said "you are either with us or against us" what about any other option? Like being neutral? Or against terrorists just not with Bush? What you are saying is I must either agree with you to change or agree with this absurd pejorative straw-man characterisation of essentially using women only for sexual intercourse. It's wrong, so wrong, surely you can see what is wrong with such a false choice. There needs to be a sticky-thread on Fallacies.
 
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There's no problem as long as it's just an option. Maybe not make it this ridiculous since it's tacky and visually uninteresting but if people want to dress their characters in stripperrific outfits that's fine.
 

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RazadaMk2 said:
If you do not want to change something, you are agreeing with it. Since you are arguing that there is nothing wrong with the depiction of women in the way they are being depicted within TERA, you think there is nothing wrong with them being depicted as little more than things to put your cock into. You are defending the view so it is safe to assume as much.
Wow, just wow. I see Treblaine has already pointed out how fallacious this is, but I feel the need to re-emphasize it.

RazadaMk2 said:
You are defending the view so it is safe to assume as much.
How can you think this? When did fantastical representations become how one views women?

If I read and enjoy stories with rape, does that mean I think all woman should be subjugated into sex-slavery? No, I think that idea is horrifying and disgusting.
 

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If I read and enjoy stories with rape, does that mean I think all woman should be subjugated into sex-slavery? No, I think that idea is horrifying and disgusting.
Slightly different. There aren't too many stories that demonstrate a tacit enthusiasm for rape. There are many stories that portray universes in which rape is a threat or an unfortunate occurrence, but I can't think of any offhand that didn't portray it as an evil or at best sinister act. By reading (and enjoying) those stories, you're really just reading (and enjoying) stories that reinforce your ethics. If you read (and enjoyed) a story that was gung-ho on rape and put it forth as a cracking fun pastime, then you'd have something.

What Razada is implying is that since Tera does demonstrate a tacit enthusiasm for portraying women as comically under-dressed exhibitionists, if you enjoy the game in spite of this fact you are sharing that enthusiasm. Now, it's worth noting that the game is equally sleazy in its treatment of male adventurers, but unsurprisingly said male adventurers have not featured anywhere near as prominently in the marketing materials for TERA.

Now, I don't necessarily agree with what Razada is saying, because I do think it's a form of ad hominem attack. You can condemn the game and the way the game wears its puerile sexuality on its sleeve without attempting to undermine anyone and everyone who enjoys it. But the rape example is not a good analogue.

PS - It occurs to me Razada might be a woman. (checks profile)

PPS - Nope.
 

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Slightly different.
Not really. Portrayals of women and all is what we are discussing, I'm talking about stories where sexuality and rape of women is portrayed as enjoyable and erotic. It's not too different from videogames.

BloatedGuppy said:
What Razada is implying is that since Tera does demonstrate a tacit enthusiasm for portraying women as comically under-dressed exhibitionists, if you enjoy the game in spite of this fact you are sharing that enthusiasm.
If you want to be particular.

Fine, he's saying that every person who watches porn thinks it's ok to objectify women. He is saying that if I argue that this is not the case, then I think the very same.


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There aren't too many stories that demonstrate a tacit enthusiasm for rape.
There are, in graphic novels especially.
 

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Sean Hollyman said:
I must be the only person who doesn't love boobs, ass, and even boober ass in games and films...
So you don't like looking at chicks at all in any form of entertainment? What about when you are going to perform open palm surgery on your man meat.
Oh I do then, but when I'm playing games, I'd rather not see that.
 

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The male characters look just as outlandish.



Seriously now. Give it a rest.

Needless sexualization for the sake of sexualization isn't anything new, nor is it anything particularly damning in this medium. I find it funny that the "artistic integrity" argument only holds weight with endings and not with character design. :p

Those of you with legitimate complaints based on your opinion and preferences...well, it's your opinion as is mine and I don't fault you for it. Those of you white knighting? Well still...all right, to each their own. I simply ask that you be less irritating about it if you can at all help it, please.

If you don't like it then don't play it. I'm partial to the sexualized-bondage-elves, and yet I'm not bothering to partake either. Let those who enjoy it and wish to play it be.


You know, like in a tolerant society.
 

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Sean Hollyman said:
I must be the only person who doesn't love boobs, ass, and even boober ass in games and films...
You not the only one I'm the same way. As an adolescent boy I scoffed and turned off crap that seemed to be just about sex and tits.

I still don't understand it. I don't play games and watch tv for the sex I watch it for the story and the characters. If I wanted porn I would watch porn.

Then again my wife has pointed out I'm practically gay so maybe I'm the exception to the rule of men.