Retrograde said:
Mr F. said:
Forcing someone to consume pornographic material counts as sexual assault (Go read the mental health act. I got bored and spent a lot of time talking to a lawyer/reading up the various acts because I was interested in the myriad of laws surrounding rape in this country.). So, forcing someone to handle it could count as limiting their freedoms. Therefore, there is nothing that insane about the legal action. Would you be angry if Muslims began to take stores to court for forcing them to handle pork?
Again, this is not censorship. Now, its important to state that I am not behind the whole pornblock thing, because that is insidious and wrong (Despite the fact that I do not consume porn.). I point that out because people seem to be thinking the two are aligned. This is the co-op making moves to prevent people from accidentally being confronted by boobs. This is not censorship. This has little to do with feminism (Since I have yet to see news coverage stating that this was caused by a feminist lobby within the Co-op, you must remember the co-op is OWNED by its consumers, blah blah blah.).
Private companies can make their own choices.
If you want boobs, go find it online. For those of us that don't want boobs, we don't like boobs being everywhere. I go back to my earlier analogy. Complaining about this would be like complaining that the escapist does not run porn adds. Because that is what the covers are, Porn adds. I don't want porn adds on this site, I don't want them on Facebook and its reasonable to ask to not have them everywhere.
What irks me is it always lad stuff getting targetting by this shit. Games targetting men with boobs, change that sick filth. Mags targetting men with boobs, cover up that sick filth(and attempt to ban, but fail, so then the attempt gets ignored by people like yourself like it didn't exist). Movies targetting men with boobs? Sick objectifying filth.
So when I walk down a street and am "forced to consume pornographic material" in shop windows along the lines of this:
That's what? My bad for walking down the wrong street? How about if this is outside my house, or place of work, then what?
Or do you think I should sue someone for sexual harassment and breaching my human rights to not have images of men plastered in what is heavily suggested to be massive loads of creamy white shit shoved down my throat? Where are the attempts to not accidentally confront people with gay fetish iconography, or S&M play, or big fake cocks? I think it's fair to say that bukkake and S&M rate higher on the list of weird shit than the naked female chest.
Double standards. That's my real beef here. And the sealed up old dears of co-op can do whatever they please I suppose, but that doesn't make them and anyone that says this isn't ok but the other stuff is not stunning hypocrites.
You know, I need to get better on uploading images to the webs and all because there is a snap of a LUFEMS poster that I think you would appreciate.
"I am not a feminist, I am just for the equality of both sexes."
"Congratulations! You're a feminist."
At what point did I say that its ok that you get bombarded with all of that? (Although I have not seen any of those add campaigns in either the place I live, which will remain unnamed, or in Manchester. Some adds which are pretty... raunchy, but none of those. Considering the top one doesn't have a slogan or a link to anything makes me think it is not, infact, an advert.)
See, the mistake you are making here is that you think I am totally and utterly cool with all the sexy shit that gets thrown at me on a regular basis. There are some adds which are pretty... Over the top, which does irritate me. Hell, its one of the things I have always disliked about France, if it exists they will advertise it using sex.
The thing is, there isn't an equivalent here. There isn't a "Chicks" mag that is all "Look, we covered the penis with a well-placed word/hand". So... Double standards. Lets try and look for them.
Issue:
- People do not like having soft-core porn mags on display due to not liking softcore porn everywhere.
Solution:
- Modesty bag so the soft core porn is no longer in-your-face as you shop.
What you seem to think it is
Issue:
- Everything is tits and boobs and S&M and nekkid guys and stuff!
Solution:
- Status Quo.
See, I do not like the status quo. Apparently, you do not like the status quo. People like me are happy that the Co-op is taking its first tentative step in dealing with the status quo. Personally, I would say the same should be done to "Mens Health" and a few other things that use the male/female form as the sole purpose of advertising because it is all part of a much wider problem which is causing ever greater amounts of blokes into plastic surgery and eating disorders.
Or do you think I should sue someone for sexual harassment and breaching my human rights to not have images of men plastered in what is heavily suggested to be massive loads of creamy white shit shoved down my throat?
Yes. You should. If those adverts are in the highstreet, you should complain. Because complaints are how things eventually get changed. Just because you are unwilling to do anything, yet very willing to ***** about it, doesn't mean that the people who are getting things done deserve to be ridiculed or told to stop because of double standards
Do you know what the double standard is here? You.
You expect to do nothing and do not want anything to change, yet are willing to complain. Yet when others are trying to get things changed for mostly the same reasons you want things to change, you are getting all angry. You are calling it ridiculous.
Why?
Because you simply cannot get your head round why people do not want this shit. You see no issue with tits on the front of soft-core porn mags. You are claiming that its not an issue, that it is nowhere, then saying that it is everywhere and it is a massive issue, all the while accusing feminists of some double standard when there is none. You are, quite simply, confused. And very, very confusing to talk to.
We agree. We both want things to change.
You are just getting angry because its changing slowly. Because we are tearing down one issue at a time. Getting rid of the softcore porn adds in groceries is a good thing. The fact that we have not yet torn down every single over-sexualised and utterly damaging advert in the country simultaneously is not a reason to hate this.
Please, explain to me what your issue is. Without mentioning feminism or a double standard. Just say, in calm words, why it is wrong that soft-core porn is being covered up in a modesty bag or will no longer be sold by one particular brand of stores. Explain why that is an issue. Then explain your link between that and all these other adverts you are apparently bombarded with and why its wrong for one to change before the rest.