Lets Play a Game With My Love Life

[arcnologia]

Well the week's almost over and I have seriously been putting your advice into action. I managed to find a girl of interest who was a bit excited when I greeted her, we exchanged names talked a bit, but nothing else she seemed like she wasn't willing to do anymore than that and I didn't want to feel I was pressing it out of her. However making this little event was a bit easier than my previous attempts. Its a rather small improvement but its a big step.

Thanks everybody!

 

[aba1]

Even if the girls are already dating still go talk to them make friends. Then make friends with there friends and eventually you will find someone who is a option and it will be natural.

 

[Angie7F]

How about getting a part time job or job ...
Even if you are bad at socializing, if you are a waiter, barista, book strode staf,, you are forced to smile and be friendly.
You will meet new people working there with you, and new people coming in everyday to shop/ eat/ drink coffee.
You will also make money too, which comes in handy.


I know t hat I found dates at work mo often than I did at school.

 

[arcnologia]

How about getting a part time job or job ...
Even if you are bad at socializing, if you are a waiter, barista, book strode staf,, you are forced to smile and be friendly.
You will meet new people working there with you, and new people coming in everyday to shop/ eat/ drink coffee.
You will also make money too, which comes in handy.


I know t hat I found dates at work mo often than I did at school.

I always thought the opposite because I figured you'd be too busy at times to really accomplish anything.

 

[Angie7F]

my lat post is a mess! iPad makes me have so many crazy typos...

whether you will accomplish something or not is really up to you.
Plus, all you need to accomplish is to put yourself ins an environment where you come across lots of girls, so how hard can that be

 

[WolfThomas]

Am I the only one a little weirded out by the "15 years" comment. I mean were you expected to date at 8?

I don't know I'm no expert but you have friends, surely they must have friends you don't know or their girlfriends must have, I'm not saying ask them to set you up, but any sort of gathering or social function where they're all at gives you a chance to start some sort of conversation and who knows where that might lead?...probably no where, but meeting new people always helps.

Also if and when you do get anywhere serious with someone, don't lie or makeup anything, be honest about your virginity and inexperience. I mean if they respond terribly to it, why would you want to be with them anyway?