bobleponge said:
The thing is, it's none of your business.
This has already been covered ad nauseum. I'd agree with you if we lived in a truly libertarian society, but we don't. We live in a society where taxpayers pay for people's healthcare (yes, even in the US), so people's health and what they cost taxpayers is everyone's business. It would take me 10 pages to list all the research on the harmful health effects of obesity, and it's already been shown that, even with shorter life spans, the obese have higher lifetime medical bills than the non-obese. All of this costs taxpayers money, thus it is "our business".
bobleponge said:
We have this idea that weight is tied to health, which only makes it worse.
Sorry but, for the most part, it is. Again, there are mountains of research concerning the link between obesity and general unhealthiness, I'll happily post some if you wish. Anecdotal evidence doesn't count.
bobleponge said:
Diets focus on losing weight quickly, when they should be focusing on eating and being healthy. The result is that a lot of people will lose the weight, feel like they're officially healthy, and go back to eating unhealthily and living an unhealthy lifestyle.
I'll be mean here, but if you weigh 400 lbs, go on a diet and lose 200 lbs, and then go right back to the same lifestyle (both in terms of food and exercise) that you previously had when you were 400 lbs and are shocked to discover that you return to the same weight you had when you were at that lifestyle, I don't feel much sympathy for you. This would be like if I trained to be able to bench press 300 lbs, and then I didn't train for a year, and then I started complaining because I could no longer bench press 300 lbs.
I agree that "fat shaming" is not the way to go, but neither is sugar coating the very real connection between obesity and health, the effects that obesity has on society at large and taxpayers, and denying established science.