lovest harding said:
Best of the 3 said:
No different from anyone else. If they flaunt their sexuality (eg: being overly flamboyant for being gay) I still find that annoying. Other then that, no differences.
I've never understood this. So a man is flamboyant. Say they have a lisp and say girlfriend after every sentence and everything they talk about is fashion based. Isn't that their personality? How are they flaunting it?
People don't look at a straight man who drinks beer all day and talks about nothing but tits and NASCAR and say he's flaunting his sexuality.
I'm not trying to start and argument or be offensive. I seriously want to know how you justify saying that a gay man is 'flaunting their sexuality' when they simply have an over the top personality.
Firstly, straight guys do flaunt their sexuality, if anything just as easily as any other sexuality. You never heard a go "woah, she's so fit, I'd have me a piece of that ass" etc etc. Happens all the time, it's also annoying, just as much as any flamboyant. Only that's refered to being a dick/twat/fucking idiot, most of the time.
People (gay and straight) can have a bubbly personality. That's fine, no problem with that. But they can keep it to themselves. I have nothing against how gay people may chose to act, but I don't need it directed at me, or shoved in my face, which it has been a few times. Perhaps it's just the few gay people I have in mind, the in your face, lipstick, high heels, handbag, eye liner, and always telling everyone how many boys they fucked last week (oh yeah, my school sounds great now XD) that get on my nerves. That is what I call flaunting it.
Call me closed minded, but I do judge people on outward appeaence and actions. Everyone probably has / does. So that guy I just mentioned might actually be a really great guy, but I will know cause he annoys me, so I won't get to know him at all.
[sub][sub]I know what I want to say but it's really hard to say it without sounding like a complete bastard. I kinda hope I got what I want to say across. Sorry in advanced cause that was probably written really badly xP[/sub][/sub]