It's nice to see that there are a few people who are like me : fine with multiplayer, but shunning the despicable behavior that permeates most, if not all, online games.
I used to play Quake - the original, not II or III - on a LAN with buddies. Yes, I am that old. Heck, we were happy we had a LAN ! It was great fun.
When the Internet finally arrived to my PC, I tried online Quake a few times, and systematically came away with a foul taste in my mouth and utter, utter incomprehension at how some people can so easily ruin the game experience for everyone else.
From that time, and I'm talking around 1997, I decided that online gaming was just not for me.
And I stand by that decision.
Every now and then, I dare myself to try again. For Battlefield 1942, for example. What. A. Disaster. Every match I tried online, EVERY SINGLE ONE, I had more to fear from the fricking, bunny-hopping lunatics ON MY OWN SIDE, then from the enemy. Jesus H. Christ in a bucket, there's a WHOLE OTHER SIDE to shoot at, and you morons have to target ME ?!
Note that I do not confuse multiplayer with online play. I play BF2 over the internet with buddies twice a week, co-op of course, and it's great, we all have loads of laughs (sometimes my wife has to come down to remind me that my daughter is trying to sleep). Recently, I tried with Guild Wars, dragged into that by a few friends. The time spent with my friends is always a good time.
Then I tried Guild Wars with players I didn't know a few times. I systematically got called a noob, or worse, and only managed to end a quest with a player once. He must have been the only nice guy on the web since Y2K.
I'll cut this short by repeating myself : multiplayer I'm fine with, as long the players are all people I know.
Online can go screw itself, the "gamers" out there are not there to play the game with you, they're only interested in either killing you and raping your corpse, or finding the most despicable way to gratuitously insult you and keep you from enjoying anything.
Ugh.