Love and Relationships

[MelziGurl]

The best part, being proposed to...the worst, being told 10 months later he didn't feel the same anymore. It was my first serious relationship, so it was also my best and worst.

 

[masterkeaton]

Worst: Been going out with a girl (so far my only girlfriend) for a year, then she dumps me for someone else, just because he lived closer to her (long distance relationships FTL)

Best: Hasn't happened yet.

I guess it was my fault really, I'm no good when it comes to talking with girls IRL, and so far have yet to successfully ask a girl I like out.

 

[FinalHeart95]

Finally got the balls to ask out a girl today, and got a yes. So... yeah.

Although my dumbass friends almost ruined it. No, thinking about yelling "GET SOME!" isn't a good idea.

 

[Zaverexus]

hmmm
worst: getting dumped by e-mail.

Been there, Facebook dump, ouch.
But that girl was a ***** anyway so it turned out in the end

 

[Zaverexus]

I think I have made my opinions on this stuff quite known by this point. And I am way too fucking exhausted to deal with quote after quote after quote yet again.
But, to reiterate, I hate it with a passion for a variety of reasons that nobody gives a fuck about.

As for best/worst experiences, I haven't really had any.
I mean, I have kind of sort of had a thing with someone for a while which may or may not be ongoing I am not sure god fucking damn it is too confusing I want it to stop.
Why the hell do people willingly put themselves through this, anyway. All of this uncertainty and risk for even more uncertainty and risk.
I do not have the energy to deal with this crap.

It may be uncertain and risky at first but I think many people would agree with me when I tell you and all the other people who have expressed your view that when you find someone you are really happy with it's worth it.
If you get close to someone then you don't have that uncertainty because you know them, and you can enjoy your time together. Even if it doesn't last you can still enjoy the time in which it does.
I'm sorry if you haven't found someone with whom you are happy yet but that's no reason to give up on relationships as a whole. If you just don't want that then fine, but don't be bitter about it.

 

[xxmastermillerxx]

Well, all I have to say is that it sucks to be a teenager in a serious relationship.

 

[Jedoro]

Spoiler: This is how I feel about relationships

However, I'm willing to play and try to find a way to win until the day I die.

The best thing about relationships was knowing someone genuinely loved me for who I was. The worst was when the relationship ended. Details are irrelevant to me.

 

[Zaverexus]

Finally to my own OT:
Worst: after about four months of my closest relationship (at the time) with the first girl to whom I ever said "I love you" being told that she didn't love me anymore and didn't think we should speak to each other anymore
Best: got my first kiss a couple days ago ;D
Comments: most importantly: that both the best and worst moments have taught me just as much about how things work and getting to understand things a bit better everyday is the real best part. Happy to be in a great relationship with a girl I can be very open with.

 

[Composer]

Best moment? None
Worst moment? Asked someone out got rejected.
I had a big crush, and pussied out, on asking out.

Socially inept etc etc.

Yea anyway.

Happy for you people to have enjoyed some form of relationship.

this picture is getting everywhere!

 

[The Seldom Seen Kid]

The best moments are when I give my crushes personalities.
The worst moments are when I find out what they really are.


As a great man once said: "My memory of you is better than you."

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

It may be uncertain and risky at first but I think many people would agree with me when I tell you and all the other people who have expressed your view that when you find someone you are really happy with it's worth it.
If you get close to someone then you don't have that uncertainty because you know them, and you can enjoy your time together. Even if it doesn't last you can still enjoy the time in which it does.
I'm sorry if you haven't found someone with whom you are happy yet but that's no reason to give up on relationships as a whole. If you just don't want that then fine, but don't be bitter about it.

I could never get close enough to someone to not be uncertain. I lack the capacity.
I can't trust people, you see. And I don't want to. It never leads to good things, at best you're simply left vulnerable.
Which is, of course, a perfectly good reason to not get into any mushy tomfoolery with anyone ever. That bullshit is all about trust.

And I'm not bitter about anything, by the way. Bitter would imply bad experience has left me all, to coin a phrase, "butthurt".
I am just a miserable git.

 

[Mr.Pandah]

I'd write it out, but man is it long and at this point I feel like I shouldn't be as hurt as I still feel about what happened. I need another woman in my life, but I've yet to find someone to fit the bill. I'll keep looking though. I know it will happen sooner or later, I miss her though...from my previous relationship.

 

[Free Thinker]

At this point, I've had more worse than better. The one time I thought a girl was asking me out, it was all a joke and she never even showed up. Everything else afterwards ended up with me being rejected. This last one really stung and still does. I really liked her and it felt genuine. Instead staying friends, we don't even talk to each other anymore. So it's always been a kick in the ribs for me. Excuse my negativity, but I have my reasons.

 

[Hader]

So I'll pose a question real quick: if a girl you have been friends with for years, flirted with, even talked about a serious relationship with before, and she all of a sudden tells you to fuck off and doesn't talk to you for weeks on end...is that bad or good? Or maybe a better way to pose the question...WTF?

Maybe a stupid question, but hell, its a weird situation that I never saw coming, and I don't get if she is seriously bullshitting me or what. Completely out of the blue, just "Fuck off". Exact quote too.

 

[Julianking93]

*sigh*

Why do these threads keep popping up today?

 

[Naheal]

Best/worst love/relationship moments?

I've had more bad than good. It's nice to be with someone who cares about you, but it's a rarity. Worst is when you find that knife in your back.

Comments on love/relationships?

The premise of having a good relationship is nice. The success rate from what I've seen is <1%. I'd love to say that loving someone is well work the risk, but I have yet to see a payoff for the risk involved.

Things that make you think of people you love?

Actually, most of the people that I "love" are closer to friends than actual loved ones. Amusingly, working or research is where I think of people that I actually care about.