sometimes in life it is necessary to make what is known at a "scene" it is because there is a problem somewhere. it may be that you parnter is ignoring you thus a scene results it may be that there is some injustice - which must be raised into the open at some point. i think the problem is where a single person creates scenes all the time - for dubious reasons this then points to a problem with that person - are they well known for creating a scene? is this an unusual occurance? is there an underlying reason for this scene? is the person right? all questions to be asked - sometimes just sometimes a little fire is needed - sometimes it solves nothing sometimes it creates a worsening of problems - but how are you ever going to solve anything if you dont raise what is upsetting you? NEVER