You make a great point here.Majorlazor said:Hey all, I'm avid reader of this site but never had an account until I saw this post and just had to say something...
I've been doing martial arts of over 8 years now, I have my blackbelt in TaeKwon-Do and I have been practicing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and MMA for 3 years.
I had to comment on this because of the general ignorance that I see in this forum is dangerous to you OP. Just so you know I'm not talking out my arse I have been a bouncer for a couple years in my towns most popular night club and I have won several international competitions in martial arts, I have been in fights, I have been attacked by more than one person, and I have been attacked by people with weapons (broken beer bottles, bar stools, etc).
To preface this commentary I should say that without a proper teacher you will learn alot of bullcrap with many of the traditional schools now being run for profits alone, a term we use in the martial arts community is "McDojo" and it is very apt. You also find that contrary to popular belief there is no one "master fighting style" every style has something to offer none should be disregarded out of hand. That being said some do offer more practical solutions.
For self defense and fitness reasons the best martial art to take, in my humble opinion, is basic K-1 style kick-boxing as most of the fights that you will encounter will be stand-up face to face encounters and knowing how defend yourself from punches and returning them in kind is very useful. Also a kick boxing school will get you in the ring sparring and fighting THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE for real fighting practice and sparring to become good at defending yourself and "kicking ass".
Now to address the haters of Brazilian Jiu jitsu out there..haha.. While it is true against multiple opponents one would not advise going to the deck (ground) in a fight because you are liable to get kicked in the teeth by his buddy...this is common sense I hope. However! in one on one combat is has been categorically proven that going to the ground against an untrained opponent will increase your chances of winning the fight exponentially, just watch ufc 1, when the smaller and lighter Royce Gracie dominated all of his challengers by drawing them in, taking them down, and submitting them. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu has time and time again been proven to be the most affective grappling style and I would highly recommend checking it out if you want an amazing full body workout.
In conclusion I guess depending on where you live, try looking for an MMA gym in your neighborhood, I mean hey, they call it Mixed Martial Arts for a reason. You will be getting the best of all the worlds Boxing, Kickboxing, Wrestling, Jiu jitsu and the sparring and practice required to test your skills, all of which add up to make you a complete fighter.
To the OP I would try a few sessions at the local clubs (most will be free the first time). See which system and mostly what club fits you the best. It's important to be confident with your master and your martial arts brothers and sisters.
But most of all have fun. It's a lot of hard work but with so many benefits.
Good Luck