keillord said:
I have always been interested in the martial arts and am now thinking about trying a style. I am looking for some advice in what style to try.
Any martial art practitioners out there, could you please tell me your style and why you chose it.
I am a practitioner of Kung Fu, but I also have a background in Tae Kwon Do. I basically chose what was near me, which may be a little lame but it's the only option I had. However, to me, martial arts is not game or just a hobby. As a kid I practiced Tae Kwon Do because I thought it was cool but now, as an adult, I do Kung Fu because I am enamored by the world of martial arts and I also have a desire for strength and I honestly enjoy fighting (but not killing, let me explain that right now).
There really is no "best" martial art style. Everything has it's purpose. Some things, like boxing or MMA, are more made for competitive. There are some styles that used to be true self defense which have now been watered down a bit for more tournament styled usage, like certain forms of Karate and Tae Kwon Do. There are a few that are still a legitimate self defense and, if you can find the more "pure" versions of them, legitimate martial arts. As a martial arts student and hand-to-hand combat enthusiast there are a few things I can tell you for sure:
1. Know what you intend to use it for. As I mentioned before everything has it's purpose and certain styles are not suited to certain situations. THe brazilian capoeria (not sure on the spelling there) is very flashy and is as much a fighting style as it is entertainment. Akido, on the other hand, was made for the purpose of being able to defend and disarm and unarmed opponent, protecting yourself without killing your aggressor. Muai Thaion the other hand, the TRUE version of it, is a KILLING martial art, known for using elbows and knees as contact point for the purpose of inflicting maximum damage ot your enemy's vital points and breaking their bones. So what are you intending to use this for? Friendly competition, self-defense, or being a legitimate lethal force? Or some combination of them?
2. Start with something simple. There may not be a "best" martial art, but if given a choice err on the side of a more practical martial art. Although Kung Fu has some flashy moves not every version of it is that flashy. The variant I practice is very practical, more focused on keeping a firm root and not loosing your balance rather than breathtaking acrobatic feats. The more flashy stuff, though it can be effective, may take too long to learn for your liking. Not everyone is patient enough. BTW, before I go on, in my opinion anything that teaches you how to fight is a martial art which includes boxing, MMA wrestling (the real kind, not like the stuff on ECW).
3. The most important part of any martial art is conviction. Like any sport (or anything in life for that matter) you have to do more than like or have a casual interest in it. You can't just want it you have to have a PASSION for it. If the lessons on whatever style you choose are anything like what I went through you will be ACHING after your first day, even ever there is no sparring of any kind. I'll admit to being a bit out of shape when I started, but even still I had never felt anything like the pain I had when I finished my first lesson. But I WANTED this, I NEEDED it, and I was gonna keep pushing no matter how much it hurt, no matter how much my body screamed to stop. I've been practicing for five years now and it still hurts, but I keep pushing. A friend of mine gave the class a go once. He tried his hardest bet he quit after the first three weeks. Another thing I should tell you is ignore any markers of status. Pay no attention to what level belt you have or what level belt your fellow students have. There should be nothing but you, your teacher, and you own conviction. Basically everything I'v said boils down to this: If you are going to take a martial art because you're trying to impress someone, because you think it makes you look cool, or just as a hobby, don't even bother. Don't waste your time.
I know this i rather long winded (I have a tendency to run at the mouth when I get passionate about something) but I hope you've gotten what is really important out of this. If you decide to truly go for this I hope that one day we can have a sparring match together.