May Have Messed Up Things (GF Problems). . . .
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This is all nonsense. If a girl cannot understand what it is like to say something at an emotional time, something they do not really mean, then she has not lived the sort of life any girl I know has lived...
She would have to be a hypocrite to hold a grudge if you made a mistake and honestly make attempts to rectify the situation, apologize and let her know you said the wrong thing at an emotional time. Girls often make mistakes and need forgiveness. But if she cannot understand that males too can get emotional and say the wrong thing, then you have to question her level of maturity. Most guys make mistake and are then too proud to admit it or ask for forgiveness, just don't be that sort.
Her friends will know her, let them know what you did that you didn't mean, let them know you love her, and that you want to make up for it, then you will have backup. Being honest with her friends about your feelings for her will help to rebuild the trust. Don't divulge any secrets, just let them know you love her, told her you didn't but did not mean it because you are still coming to terms with the fact you have found someone you could truly love forever. True love is overwhelming and women will flee if you cannot show that you understand love and are certain of it. Knowing how love can make you do the wrong thing is understanding, being prepared to make up for mistakes is showing your confidence in the feeling. If you do not have any sort of friendship with any of her friends, you probably need to start talking to them quick. If they all hate you, well... That's never going to help, but you can always impress with confidence.
Do something sweet, simple, from the heart. Something that shows you went out of your way for her, not just buying some flowers or the like, but creative effort from your heart. Let her know you did not mean what you said, that you are ashamed you got so frustrated and that you are 'scared' of losing her as a result. Because you are, clearly, this post is a cry for help. Let her know that you saying that has been a step forward, not backwards, it's not until you say these things that you truly know whether or not you mean them, clearly you did not mean this, now let her know what you 'do' mean. Let her know the love you feel is overwhelming and she will feel special. Love probably overwhelms her all the time and it will be nice for her to know she causes those same feelings in someone else. If this does not melt her, then she is an ice cold fox, not worth your time she will punish you for decades, and girls like this are perhaps better off not being given any second chances.
Oh and do all this face to face, hold her gaze and show some emotion, don't avoid eye contact. Think about how beautiful she is and how much you love her while you talk to her and things should be ok.
She would have to be a hypocrite to hold a grudge if you made a mistake and honestly make attempts to rectify the situation, apologize and let her know you said the wrong thing at an emotional time. Girls often make mistakes and need forgiveness. But if she cannot understand that males too can get emotional and say the wrong thing, then you have to question her level of maturity. Most guys make mistake and are then too proud to admit it or ask for forgiveness, just don't be that sort.
Her friends will know her, let them know what you did that you didn't mean, let them know you love her, and that you want to make up for it, then you will have backup. Being honest with her friends about your feelings for her will help to rebuild the trust. Don't divulge any secrets, just let them know you love her, told her you didn't but did not mean it because you are still coming to terms with the fact you have found someone you could truly love forever. True love is overwhelming and women will flee if you cannot show that you understand love and are certain of it. Knowing how love can make you do the wrong thing is understanding, being prepared to make up for mistakes is showing your confidence in the feeling. If you do not have any sort of friendship with any of her friends, you probably need to start talking to them quick. If they all hate you, well... That's never going to help, but you can always impress with confidence.
Do something sweet, simple, from the heart. Something that shows you went out of your way for her, not just buying some flowers or the like, but creative effort from your heart. Let her know you did not mean what you said, that you are ashamed you got so frustrated and that you are 'scared' of losing her as a result. Because you are, clearly, this post is a cry for help. Let her know that you saying that has been a step forward, not backwards, it's not until you say these things that you truly know whether or not you mean them, clearly you did not mean this, now let her know what you 'do' mean. Let her know the love you feel is overwhelming and she will feel special. Love probably overwhelms her all the time and it will be nice for her to know she causes those same feelings in someone else. If this does not melt her, then she is an ice cold fox, not worth your time she will punish you for decades, and girls like this are perhaps better off not being given any second chances.
Oh and do all this face to face, hold her gaze and show some emotion, don't avoid eye contact. Think about how beautiful she is and how much you love her while you talk to her and things should be ok.
I'm not trying to be malicious here, but your post is essentially:
"Mumble-mumble... girlfriend... mumble-mumble... I don't know... mumble-mumble... what about you?"
I can't answer that!
"Mumble-mumble... girlfriend... mumble-mumble... I don't know... mumble-mumble... what about you?"
I can't answer that!