Maybe its me?

[bouncymike999]

At this point I'm beginning to believe that I am doing something wrong. Every girl i have a relationship with treats me without respect. My latest girlfriend skipped our one year anniversary to meet up with one of my best friends and hook up, I had spent a week and a half preparing that evening. Is there something I do wrong as a boyfriend? I'm the kind of person that does everything they can to make their girlfriend as happy as possible, but they always seem to run off to some asshole who uses them for sex.

 

[Sacman]

your too nice girls like bad boys that don't care about them and leave them at fancy restaurant, after you ordered the most expensive items on the menu, to go play a killer rock guitar solo and clean your car...
P.S. my last one left me for another girl...

 

[Aerodynamic]

Don't let the walk all over you. Thats all I can say.

 

[rockingnic]

Don't let it bother you too much. I think most people these days pay a little too much attention to themselves to care what other people have done for them. I say it's better for them to leave you anyways because you can tell they're just not mature enough to try and have a mature relationship. It's their loss.

 

[AugustFall]

Maybe you're going after the wrong kind of girl?

 

[Agent_Nahmen_Jayden]

Maybe you're going after the wrong kind of girl?

This may be the truth.

Also, stay true to yourself, don't change for other people and you'll find the right girl.

 

[Energylegzz]

I think you need to use more chloroform.....discard that last statement. Try dating a different type of girl and even if you dont get any girls now soon enough those girls will become women and not keep looking for the jerk guy and want to settle down with a nice safe romantic guy, and when that day comes your in!

 

[Miumaru]

This is why good girls never have good boyfriends...all the good guys are dating horrible girls.

 

[Aryanos]

Don't let it bother you too much. I think most people these days pay a little too much attention to themselves to care what other people have done for them. I say it's better for them to leave you anyways because you can tell they're just not mature enough to try and have a mature relationship. It's their loss.

Maybe you're going after the wrong kind of girl?

This may be the truth.

Also, stay true to yourself, don't change for other people and you'll find the right girl.

Try dating a different type of girl and even if you dont get any girls now soon enough those girls will become women and not keep looking for the jerk guy and want to settle down with a nice safe romantic guy, and when that day comes your in!

Listen to these guys please. Dont let an bunch of witches ruin your opinion of all women.

 

[LiberalSquirrel]

I may be saying an unpopular opinion here, but if all your relationships end up like that... you're the common denominator in these failed relationships. I find that a lot of guys that are self-proclaimed "nice guys" that "do everything" for their girlfriend are amazingly pushy in a relationship: coming on way too strong, way too fast, and being far too clingy. I've never cheated in a relationship, but something like that has pushed me away from a guy before.

I obviously don't know you, and what I'm saying may not be right in your situation... but I'm just pointing out some observations from personal experience.

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

Sounds to me like you're a really nice guy. The thing is, if she think you're too nice she'll just walk all over you. You can still be nice but you have to set some ground rules and assert your own masculinity. Obviously if this is a common occurrence then it's something you're doing.

OR try to find a girl who is just as sweet as you are. My girlfriend is the nicest person I have ever met and I would never have a single doubt towards he loyalty towards our relationship. To make a long story short:
nice+nice=good
nice+bad=bad.

 

[viranimus]

This is why good girls never have good boyfriends...all the good guys are dating horrible girls.

Unfortunately the reverse is also true.

Im thinking its part opposites attract, part forbidden fruit syndromes. Theres no real good reason for it.

As someone who is personally flypaper for freaks, I do feel your pain OP. God I do.

 

[Marmooset]

This is why good girls never have good boyfriends...all the good guys are dating horrible girls.

Unfortunately the reverse is also true.

Yup!
My wife married an utter jackass. I think her parents are still pissed.

 

[ultrachicken]

You are too nice. Don't let her walk all over you, you have to resist occasionally. Do something for yourself.

 

[Daxus13]

Stand up for yourself, I was in one of those relationships for years, its not good for you and messes with your head.

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

You'll find a good girl eventually my friend, they do exist. Don't change who you are (by lowering yourself to your GF's level) simply to keep her.

I found a girl that would be perfect for me... But of course, she was taken by another guy who also happened to be a good, honest person.

So much for the science of opposite attracts.

 

[SL33TBL1ND]

This is why good girls never have good boyfriends...all the good guys are dating horrible girls.

That works so well with your avatar.

OT: Just keep trying, man. It'll work out eventually.

 

[Good morning blues]

I'm the kind of person that does everything they can to make their girlfriend as happy as possible, but they always seem to run off to some asshole who uses them for sex.

I'm interpreting this as "I defer to my girlfriend in every possible situation and at every opportunity." Yes, you are doing something wrong; you have to be self-confident, and you have to know what your expectations of your girlfriend are. If she doesn't meet them and you can't come to a compromise, there is nothing wrong with dumping her.

 

[Cody211282]

Sounds like your attracted to, well for lack of a better word bitches.