Mom Calls 911 Over Son's Non-Stop Gaming

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chronobreak

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FinalHeart95 said:
If she doesn't approve of him playing the game, then WHY THE FUCK DOES HE HAVE THE GAME?
DSEZ said:
"i would never buy such a videogame"
how the fuck did he get it then?
Geamo said:
Firstly, if she doesn't approve of the game how'd he get it into the house?
UberMore said:
How did the kid get the game anyway? Where was her Church then?
Did you guys even read the thread and the multitude of ways someone can acquire something? If you aren't willing to even read through the thread, I'll present this once again:

1. Stealing it
2. Renting it
3. Borrowing it from a friend
4. Getting it as a gift
5. Paying for it
6. Finding it (slimmer chance than others)

Has anybody here EVER been in possesion of something their parents didn't buy them or know about?

Where was her church then? Oh, I don't know, but her church probably doesn't live with her. Unless you think that is the purpose of a church. Can anyone else see why people would be frustrated with this kind of logic? Do you really think the church is going to stakeout her house 24 hours a day and make sure nothing gets in or out without their permission? Don't you think that would be kind of ridiculous? Then why would you even make the church not preventing this a factor?
 

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The kid is a spoiled brat. Why? Because of his parents. Sorry, but it's not the media, it's not videos games, its not TV or even the kids at school. If your kid is a shithead, you've fucked up. Parenting is becoming a lost art.
 

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Go-- I mean--

Uah..

Four words.

WHAT A FUCKING IDIOT!

Look, why can't leave us alone? Please, we beg you! We don't care about what problems you have, we are gamers, PICK ON SOMEONE ELSE!

Satan is now the pope? Eh, he'll be gone.

VIDEOGAMES! KILLKILLKILLKILL!
 

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Taerdin said:
Disaster Button said:
Taerdin said:
chronobreak said:
Disaster Button said:
As much as I did fancy having a go its got nothing to do with being uneducated or bigotted. Its about the fact that it reads like she is seeing games as unholy and has to claim that even with Jesus' support the evil of video games is still corrupting her son. As that is insane, she therefore loses credability and is laughable.
I want you to answer me one question: Where in the article does it say anything about her thinking video games are evil, or where does it say her decision was based on her faith?

This is getting out of hand. People that want to make these assumptions should be moderated. The level of bigotry and ignorance on this forum is way out of control, and nobody seems to want to step in to take a stand. I have been in the R+P section for a few days, debating with people there, and I thought that section was bad. It's tame compared to the comments going on here.

I joined this community because it stood out from others on the net, because of the great userbase here. I don't know what has happened, but it's starting to become like the Wild West, and I no longer feel like I am welcome here, because of my faith. After all, if you are so quick to admonish some woman in Boston because she makes a small statement about seeking help from her church, why would anybody think I have any credibility in anything I say? It is clear the majority of this community does not want Christians around, and intend to be completely disrespectful towards them.
This post reminds me of a younger me. Of course I gave up on trying to get any shred of understanding or tolerance out of this mass of antagonistic and ignorant folk quite some time ago. Now I just come here on occasion for some videos, the few good articles, and to look down on the forum community as the giant pile of hypocrites they are.

"oh the media always labels games as evil! They just don't understand! If only they were less ignorant and didn't stereotype or generalise our community! ...This woman mentioned 'church' in the story so she is obviously crazy and thinks video games are the devil."

Its painful how easily you people find stupidity in others and yet never seem to notice the others finding just as much stupidity in you. No one is perfect, and everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt. Innocent before proven guilty? Apparently not. More like guilty before even proven guilty, that should be the new motto of the forums or something.
It must be lonely up there on you're obviously so hypocrisy and stupidity free pedestal. Really I dunno how you do it without even managing to fall off once, you really must be like a God. Oh hang on, the phones rining. *speaks into reciever* Uh huh, oh, yeah I'll tell him. So that was the head of the sarcasm society, apparently he's detecting a strong source of sarcasm in this post. Just thought I'd give you the heads up incase your tiny brain couldn't understand what was going on here.

News flash, the forums aren't the giant pool of slime you think they are, most of the people here are decent, some of the time, and that the only piece of hypocrisy I've seen around in awhile is coming from your post, and mate, its screaming at me like a crazy child looking for its next chocolate fix. Maybe you should work on that.
I'm not on a stupidity and hypocrisy free pedestal... if anyone sounds like they are its you looking down on me right now. I think I'm stupid and hypocritical too, but I also think you made an 'ass' out of 'u' and your 'mptions' just now by assuming I was looking down on everyone like some kind of fucking elitist piece of shit. I think we're all stupid and hypocritical, thats how human beings are. Its painful and I hate it, but it cant really be changed. What I was saying, is that people should be given the benefit of the doubt, which you clearly failed to do in this post. I'm sorry if this is your knee jerk reaction to me saying anything even somewhat critical about you or the forum you call home, but I wasn't looking down on anyone or being a complete elitist asshole... unlike you.

I just grow so tired of having to explain myself 8 freaking times and still have no one understand what I'm saying. I'm tired of people being blatantly hypocritical and ignorant and then touting this forum as the most advanced and intelligent place on the internet. I'm tired of this community and their apparently infallability while when I say anything at all, all of a sudden what I said gets transformed into what someone else assumed I was leading towards, which I never actually said or meant to say, and then all of a sudden I'm a complete asshole for thinking human beings are flawed, or that having double standards is kind of hypocritical.

I could go on forever, but I'm not sure if I'm even saying anything, or leading up to some kind of point. All I know is that no matter what I say you'll take it and twist it into some kind of stupid arguement or point I didn't even make and then twist it to make it seem like I'm a complete moron. If you really don't think every human being (including you and me) are flawed and do stupid things then I doubt I can convince you otherwise.
Strangely, I actually understand where you're coming from. But by no means am I hypocrisy or stupidity free, and I'm not sure how you got that that was what I was trying to say in my post, but k.

But dude, you did say in the post I quoted " I just come here on occasion for some videos, the few good articles, and to look down on the forum community as the giant pile of hypocrites they are" which sure as hell sounds like you're trying to make yourself out better than you are.

But what I get is when you constantly have to explain yourself and have people still not understand, people seem to do this a lot on the forums when debates/arguements kick off and its more often than not a way to continue arguing without sounding like a dick. No doubt I've probly done the same thing to you in return for you doing it to me but at least that shows that I am hyprocritical and willing to admit it. Although I like to think I'm not hypocritical where it counts, I hope.
 

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brodie21 said:
i suggest reading Kutner's book, i have used it in a few research papers. it is intriguing. he basically tells everyone to chill out over video games.
Finally! What is it called?
 

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Great...a woman can't get control of her kid so she blames it on games and calls the police. Shouldn't she be the one held responsible if she bought the game and/or system?
 

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The point is that the church has always hated gaming, and with the moronic claim some religious people make, there opinion on it loses worth instantly due to the claim they make.

Also its not nice to spray bile at people you do not know...
 

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Wow. That is a really silly thing for a person to do.

Woodsey said:
Erm...

If she doesn't approve of GTA IV, then why does she let her son play it?

This coupled with the fact she called the police over an argument leads me to the conclusion that she is in fact, a moron.
Is it wrong that I read that as 'Mormon' at first and agreed?
 

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If she doesn't approve of him playing the game, then WHY THE FUCK DOES HE HAVE THE GAME? Honestly people, just because your child asks for something, or wants something, doesn't mean they have to have it. And if he stole it, or borrowed it from a friend, then you just need to keep a closer eye on your kid, that's all.

Also... 911? Seriously?
 

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Just another example how much people like to blame the 'violent video games.
Its a comfortable choice : u dont have to think about that perhaps u fucked up .
But the kid has problems too. playin till 2:30? wtf?
And she called the 911. rofl ,pathetic.
I hate these ignorant parents. If ppl wouldnt play violent video games, i think they would be violent in real life.
 

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Crazzee said:
Wow. That is a really silly thing for a person to do.

Woodsey said:
Erm...

If she doesn't approve of GTA IV, then why does she let her son play it?

This coupled with the fact she called the police over an argument leads me to the conclusion that she is in fact, a moron.
Is it wrong that I read that as 'Mormon' at first and agreed?
It doesn't really make sense for you to agree if that's what you thought it read, but if we're talking Mormon = moron, then err...

I would be inclined to agree.
 

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Flos said:
Now, y'see, she should have just picked up the console and thrown it out the window.

That's parenting.
No that's wasting about $300.

That mom sounds kind of...dumb. Calling the cops on your son b/c he wouldn't stop playing games? Really? And if he stayed up on a Friday night, unless he had something important to do on Saturday, so what?
I'd be more than willing to waste $300 if my child was so intent on disrespecting me.

You've lost if you think money is more important than your relationship with your child. The problem is the child not listening because of the system. Get rid of the system and the problem is on it's way to being resolved.
 

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chronobreak said:
FinalHeart95 said:
If she doesn't approve of him playing the game, then WHY THE FUCK DOES HE HAVE THE GAME?
DSEZ said:
"i would never buy such a videogame"
how the fuck did he get it then?
Geamo said:
Firstly, if she doesn't approve of the game how'd he get it into the house?
UberMore said:
How did the kid get the game anyway? Where was her Church then?
Did you guys even read the thread and the multitude of ways someone can acquire something? If you aren't willing to even read through the thread, I'll present this once again:

1. Stealing it
2. Renting it
3. Borrowing it from a friend
4. Getting it as a gift
5. Paying for it
6. Finding it (slimmer chance than others)

Has anybody here EVER been in possesion of something their parents didn't buy them or know about?

Where was her church then? Oh, I don't know, but her church probably doesn't live with her. Unless you think that is the purpose of a church. Can anyone else see why people would be frustrated with this kind of logic? Do you really think the church is going to stakeout her house 24 hours a day and make sure nothing gets in or out without their permission? Don't you think that would be kind of ridiculous? Then why would you even make the church not preventing this a factor?
Oh deary, I appear to have annoyed one of Religion, or someone who can't see the satire through their own views.
Calm down, it was merely a statement that she's using something for backup that isn't required in this situation.
 

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robman1130 said:
aaaaand this is what happens when parents stop beating their children
Amen, I know as a kid I didn't respond to anything but fear. The thought of my dad coming home to whoop my ass pretty much set me straight for the rest of the week.
 

chronobreak

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UberMore said:
Oh deary, I appear to have annoyed one of Religion, or someone who can't see the satire through their own views.
Calm down, it was merely a statement that she's using something for backup that isn't required in this situation.
I think you should realize that something that may be hilarious in your own mind may not appear so funny when you type it up for people to see. I can't look through the screen to see you cracking a smile or having a chuckle. How was she using it for "backup", though? I can't see it as anything more then her being kind of desperate, feeling she has nowhere to turn, saying she has the Church to help her out but even that isn't helping her enough. I don't think she was falling back on religion in any sense, at least not by what we can gather by her quote, rather just offering perspective on her struggles as a parent.
 

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I can imagine this phone conversation.

Idiot mother: Help! My son will not listen to me!
911 Operator: Welcome to the world of parenting, would you like me to patch you through to the other hundred million parents who have this problem?

In all honesty it baffles the mind the police did not chastise her for such a colossal waste of their time. Your inability to parent is not the responsibilities of the police force. Ironically she seeks respect from her son and this debacle has most certainly decimated all hope of such a possibility.

How to be a rationally minded parent in this scenario.

1. Inform the child it is time to turn off the console. (I would allow him to save the game however)
2. If he refuses, unplug said console.
3. Take console to your bedroom and close the door.
4. Should whining persist, threaten to sell console or ignore and sleep.
 

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chronobreak said:
Terramax said:
How is this article biased or sensationalist?
The Boston Herald is biased because it leans towards the viewpoint of the mother. It goes on to emphasis her as a victim-

"Sometimes I want to run away, too," Mejia said, breaking down in tears (cue the violins) in her immaculate apartment (clearly Mejia is just a hard-working, single mother who's only thought in life is to raise children in a clean, safe environment).
-which also insinuates there is something 'wrong' with her son by stating-
"I want to help my son."
-although there is nothing to indicate the kid needs help, just disipline. And that he, along thousands of other kids, are 'video-game obsessed'.

Now playing a game at 2:30am is not obsessive. Plenty of kids (and grown-ups) play games early in the morning, along with watching television, listening to music to even cleaning their homes at that time.

Because the kid gets hold of a game, the mother is a bad parent? Everything the kid does is the mothers fault, there is no personal accountability?
Since when did I state everything was the mother's fault? I stated she's a bad parent (as you appear to have at least insinuated also). I didn't say it was all her fault, neither have I stated the teenager was a saint. I even openly agreed with your viewpoint that both parties have made mistakes.

Yeah, when kids don't listen to their parents it makes them a brat.
Well seeing as 99% of kids at some stage don't listen to their parents I guess it's safe to call them all brats. Perhaps we should just replace the word 'kid' with 'brat' in the dictionary and get it over with?

I guess you will argue at this stage that if the woman has gone as extreme as to call the police on her son then he must've been an excessive brat? Well, to nip this one in the bud, there is nothing in the article to say the kid has done anything previously to upset his mother. We don't know. But you simply presume he's "a little shit, a brat", just because of this one isolated incident. To me, that's not being open-minded which has been my arguement this whole time.

And I didn't say the kid was definetly going to go nuts on his mom, merely presented it as a possibility.
My point is you expressed hate and anger towards the kid in your first post, seemingly exaggerating him as being the anti-christ-
I can only imagine what kind of little shit this kid must be and what he puts his poor mother through.
, along with the mother as being defenceless victim, as if you've danced to the Bostan Herald's tune. This draws me to the conclusion that you are not open-minded, but simply believe what the news tells you to.

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Bourne said:
I can imagine this phone conversation.

Idiot mother: Help! My son will not listen to me!
911 Operator: Welcome to the world of parenting, would you like me to patch you through to the other hundred million parents who have this problem?
Win!