The same effect as what? Either way you're denying them something they want, and either way that very denial is going to make them more interested. The only thing you can really prevent is making sure you don't send the kid the message that images of sex and violence are inherently evil.thaluikhain said:Well, yes, but I'm not sure "later" isn't going to have the same effect.
It reminds me of something I read recently about teaching kids about abstinence. Yes abstinence-only sex education is bullshit, but there is an even worse way to go about it that transcends simply denying children a working knowledge on how sex works. A common practice to illustrate the effects of having sex with multiple practice is to start with a clean and clear glass of water, and then go around the room and have every child spit in the glass. Or, have certain children eat something and then put some backwash into the glass after they drink. And yet another was to have some children chew gum, and then gather the gum and ask others if they wanted to chew the prechewed gum. The illustration is used to explain to children that having sex with multiple partners makes you dirty and undesirable--used by another, and thus unworthy to be used by anyone else.
However, there's something else going on there, too. You're basically telling kids that the very act of sex itself is one of dirtiness and shamefulness. Trying to couple that with the lesson that somehow getting married makes all of this "okay" is rather contradictory, and not helpful for having them develop a healthy perspective on sex. It's one thing to explain to your child they shouldn't have sex until a certain age, but it's another thing entirely to say that sex is like getting chewed up and spat out again, and that until you find the right person to chew you up and spit you out you shouldn't do it or else you'll be useless.
That's more or less what I was getting at, there. It's one thing to tell kids they simply aren't ready for something, it's another thing entirely to say that thing is evil on the whole and tell the kid how they should think of it before they even understand what it really is.