My best freind treating me like crap.

[Enerfor]

Well I have this freind and we have been best buds ever since secon grade but latley he's been treating me like totle bat shit. I've been getting advice from freinds,ect. but it's not realy well..... good advice so I want to know what you think.

 

[Amethyst Wind]

Well, what's changed lately?

Has something happened to him to bring about this personality shift, or is the guy just a tool?

Has he realised latent sexual feelings which confuse him?

More info is needed.

 

[Enerfor]

No nuthings changed he's just started being a doush.

 

[PureChaos]

any examples of the type of stuff he's been doing and how requently he does it?

 

[archvile93]

People don't change for no reason at all, something's up. Talk to him about it; ask him what's with this sudden behavior change. If you can't get a straight answer out of him then abandon his sorry ass, the asshole.

 

[BioHazardMan]

If something doesn't seem apparent, ask him if anything is bothering him. If that doesn't work, he could just be a douche, in which case dump his ass. There are plenty of people that treat other friends civilly.

 

[FalloutJack]

Well I have this freind and we have been best buds ever since secon grade but latley he's been treating me like totle bat shit. I've been getting advice from freinds,ect. but it's not realy well..... good advice so I want to know what you think.

I don't think he's your best friend if he treats you like shit. If your friend turns into an asshole, then that's what he is. He can't be your friend and be a pain in your rightly behind at once.

 

[tehannihalator]

I feel sorry for you man but for the love of cthulu spellcheck.

 

[Enerfor]

any examples of the type of stuff he's been doing and how requently he does it?

Well constontly smashing me in the arm just becouse he can is a start.

 

[Amethyst Wind]

Call him on it then. You've been friends with him for that long that you shouldn't have to put up with any crap from him unless you want to.

You've mentioned you have other friends, so it's not like you spend all your time with the guy anyway.

Sometimes people have to be shown they're out of line or they'll keep getting worse.

 

[PureChaos]

any examples of the type of stuff he's been doing and how requently he does it?

Well constontly smashing me in the arm just becouse he can is a start.

usually talking to them helps so tell him to stop being such a pain in the arse (in a nice way). if he is a friend, he will listen

 

[Enerfor]

any examples of the type of stuff he's been doing and how requently he does it?

Well constontly smashing me in the arm just becouse he can is a start.

usually talking to them helps so tell him to stop being such a pain in the arse (in a nice way). if he is a friend, he will listen

Yeah but apparently i'm the arse according to him.

 

[floppylobster]

You'll never keep all your friends all your life. So know when to move on. Don't stay friends with someone out of habit. By all means be there for him if he really needs you, but you need to hang out with your other friends more until he shows you a better reason to stay his friend.

 

[binvjoh]

I feel sorry for you man but for the love of cthulu spellcheck.

That was on purpose, right?

 

[Enerfor]

You'll never keep all your friends all your life. So know when to move on. Don't stay friends with someone out of habit. By all means be there for him if he really needs you, but you need to hang out with your other friends more until he shows you a better reason to stay his friend.

He hasn't bean there for me so why should I be there for him?

 

[freedomweasel]

You'll never keep all your friends all your life. So know when to move on. Don't stay friends with someone out of habit. By all means be there for him if he really needs you, but you need to hang out with your other friends more until he shows you a better reason to stay his friend.

He hasn't bean there for me so why should I be there for him.

Then what is this thread for? This person sounds like he's a huge douche to you, so... stop hanging out with him. Solved.

 

[floppylobster]

You'll never keep all your friends all your life. So know when to move on. Don't stay friends with someone out of habit. By all means be there for him if he really needs you, but you need to hang out with your other friends more until he shows you a better reason to stay his friend.

He hasn't bean there for me so why should I be there for him.

That's what I'm saying. Move on. I've had at least 5 best friends in my lifetime (judging by your spelling, I'm guessing I'm probably a lot older than you). But don't stay friends with someone out of a misguided sense of loyalty. Friendships are a relationship. And like all relationships, sometimes when they don't work out, you break up.

 

[Thedayrecker]

Maybe he's mad that you can't spell

I think you should find out if anything's bothering him, or maybe his sense of humor has become more cynical recently? I think black humor is rather hilarious...

 

[Scarecrow]

You'll never keep all your friends all your life. So know when to move on. Don't stay friends with someone out of habit. By all means be there for him if he really needs you, but you need to hang out with your other friends more until he shows you a better reason to stay his friend.

He hasn't bean there for me so why should I be there for him?

Which your are. I know this guy and I know his friend...and his friend is one of the best guys in the world. It's HIM who is treating his friend like shit.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

I feel sorry for you man but for the love of cthulu spellcheck.

That was on purpose, right?

You best be suggesting capitals, because Cthulu is an acceptable spelling.


Hit him in the face? Ignore him? Talk to someone else?