My conscience made me not-defend myself.

[Altaries]

I,Having long hair,and being a male,Makes me automatically a target for all the insecure teenagers in my school.

So,About a week before summer started (I'm just remembering this now :3),Ass-Face-Prick-Dog-Humper-Cum-Guzzler-Fat-Lard comes up and deliberately calls me a ******,and laughs.


After an awkward few seconds of him just standing there,I started to throw out a "Kinda like your mom?" Joke,but I thought it'd just make me an asshole,So I cut off like "Kinda like your m-..." And He laughed and agreed with himself that I am gay.

I should've just punched him in the mouth,if you were gonna say that,stop in your tracks.

So,Tell me,Has that or anything similar ever happened to you?
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[Marter]

Not really. If I need to defend myself, I will, usually targeting key points about the other person that really dig down deep. It works pretty well.

 

[Azure Sky]

Should have gone ahead and said it imo, it would have made for an interesting reaction at least. =3

 

[Cody211282]

Nope, can't say i was ever picked on since 5th grade after I moved to this crap hole. One kid made fun of the fact I wasn't Mormon, I beat his ass and was left alone ever since(it's a small town). If you go my prison rules you usually don't have problems.

 

[LWS666]

I've not been picked on for years (home schooled) but I'd just chicken out every time.

 

[Junkle]

Nah, you did good by not stooping to his level. I was about to recommend kicking him in the nuts, then read the rest of your post.

And my friends are actually nice and my school is small enough that A. I have the aura of really smart/silent and B. I just let everything go. I really shouldn't but I do.
I usually end up getting really angry, then cooling off without saying anything. So I'm in your circumstance basically whenever someone is yelling/insulting me.

 

[Blueruler182]

I'm big and intimidating, so it doesn't happen too often. Just twice. First, guy I don't know comes up to me and slaps me. First thought: WTF. Second thought: I'll punch him in the throat. Third thought: Nah, it'll hurt him, and neither of us need the grief.

The most recent time, I was in the middle of a fight and decided to take him down with a simple headlock. Plan went into motion, I was getting punched in the face, and he was so damn weak I could barely feel it. I was thinking, "okay, this wont hurt him, it'll just show him who's boss". I think I won, considering I drew first and only blood and his grand escape scheme was taking my shirt off and letting the cold make me let go (it was snowing), but I should have just punched the fucker.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Not especially, but I have a beard and occasionally wear boots and leather jackets, so that kind of people get the massive misconception that I'm a badass and therefore, would kick them shitless.

Truth is, whilst I am fairly strong, I probably wouldn't hit someone unless they really pissed me off, because all the chavs around here seem to know eachother and would get the big boys around.

 

[Shockolate]

I don't take shit from anybody. Not from strangers, not from children, and certainly not from douchebag teenagers. Hell, I punched my own mother after she hit me when she was in angry ***** mode.

Fortunatly I'm very unassuming and don't draw very much attention, despite having a "different" hair style like the OP.

 

[Azure Sky]

I learned early on that if someone picks on you for any physcial reason it's best to ignore them. No reaction from you, no satisfaction for them. Although recently someone was picking on my friend for being short, so I called them a 'Pathetic loser who can't fucking make himself wake up in the morning unless he knows someone is worse than him for whatever reason. It's just a shame sperm cells multiply so fast because you would have jerked your genes to death long ago, sitting alone trying to convince yourself it looks bigger at a certain angle. Go to hell you waste of fucking skin and tissue.'

That was a good day.

Oh that would have been good to watch. =3
Best shutdown I have ever heard!

 

[Dags90]

Not really. I'm a very...slight...guy, democracy and nonviolence are extremely pragmatic. Also, everyone in my school was convinced I was this massive druggie and thought that provoking me was to incur the wrath of my connections and psycho brother. It didn't help that my brother was suspended for a long time for dropping a knife on school property and a lot of my friends did drugs. I actually had people I didn't even really know come up to me in the hall and ask where they could get some pot.

 

[rokkolpo]

i would have replied: kinda like your dad.

but no i've never stopped myself from talking back (except for my sister when i'm too tired to argue). i'd rather get beaten up than censor myself.

 

[khaimera]

Well done, you took the high road. It takes a stronger man to not give into violent impulses.

Also, I belive in Karma. That alone prevents me from exacting revenge on people constantly.

 

[DividedUnity]

I've only stopped myself a few times. Like when a 5 year old chav came up to me and kept asking why I had long hair and calling me wierd. I told him to

Spoiler: Crude language

"Shut the fuck up and him and his little 3 stripe adidas jacket can go home and suck on his whore of a mothers tits"

but he just kept going. It annoyed me to the point were I was about to hit a five year old but I held myself back. I was very easily annoyed back then.

 

[SCAFC Chimp]

all the chavs around here seem to know eachother and would get the big boys around.

This is a very annoying problem. Several fights-that-weren't haven't happened because I stopped and thought "Shit. He will get 10 of his 20 year old mates to attack me/ my house". It's a problem because some of them really need a good ass kicking.

 

[DSK-]

No. There was one time a few years back at college, and it was presentation thing. This guy basically had it in for me, and he was...let's just say not very good at academics and thought he was gangstar.

So anyway, I'm in a group that are particularly shy, and I'm trying to back them up and explain stuff. This gangstar awesome mc something face proceeded to act like a complete and utter asshole, and then asked a question about something to which I replied "It isn't in the criteria you prat".

At this point he for some reason suddenly gets angry (after such a minor insult) that his friends go "oooooh" and he then retorts by saying "You better watch your back from now on". I think for a moment, remembering that we are in class, I have my back to him and as such am at a disadvantage. So I proceed to use his own ammunition against him by saying "what? what's on my back?" and pretend to look to see if anything was on my back. He kept repeating it and I continued the routine until the whole class and all his friends were laughing.

During break he said he would fight me after college. I expected it, but he never knocking. That was interesting. A few months after I was introduced to a job by the tutor of that class and he actually said "you handled that very well". I turned it down



I basically ignore verbal abuse and turn it around on someone. Like if someone called me "a pussy" I'd say "OK, I'm a pussy" or "you nazi" and just roll with it. Physical stuff I won't tollerate and will use full force. I spent too much of my life getting bullied to ignore such actions against myself.

 

[Burningsok]

I haven't had that happen to me in a long time. Ever since I started playing football, kids have back off from calling me anything negative.

 

[Nimbus]

You... You're really supposed to put a space after your commas, you know...

Sorry, but it's painful to read your post.