My Ex-Girl Friend

[Josh Diaz]

So my ex has dumped me for a jealous asshole who keeps threatening to "shut me up". So my question to you guys, Is it worth snapping and proving to her how bad of a move this was or is it best to be calm and let her learn how much a douche he is? If it helps i am a nice guy and im not just saying that plenty of people can back me up on this.

 

[Destal]

If she left you, it's not your problem anymore. She needs to learn her own lessons.

 

[Kimarous]

*reads title* So your friend is formerly a girl?

(Oddly enough, I found out the other day an old acquaintance had a sex change.)

 

[Naal]

Dude, she chose him. She willfully went to him, knowing that he's as good for her as shooting herself in the face, so there is nothing you can do. The only thing is to just let her go and find out the hard way. Cut contact so she's not running to you as her emotional pillow every time he hurts her.

If she broke up with him and came running to you, what would you do?

 

[dickywebster]

Id be wary of him, but still not your problem unless you still have feelings for her.

 

[Julian Raja]

I agree with most of the above posts. Unless you intend on maintaining some form of friendship in the future, wash your hands of that poor sod

 

[Tanakh]

Id be wary of him, but still not your problem unless you still have feelings for her.

^^

And even if you do it's not worth snapping.

 

[SonicKaos]

When she comes to you to talk about her problems, tell her that's what her boyfriend is for. Laugh, and then leave. She done goofed.

 

[JenSeven]

If she's doing that, she's simply not worth the bother.
Let her go and find out for herself that she's an idiot for doing so.

If she comes crying back to you, she choose to be stupid and let her deal with it.
There are plenty of other (better) girls out there, so go find one of those, and leave this one to deal with her own issues.

 

[neonsword13-ops]

Nah, let her find out what a bad decision she made.

If you are a nice guy, she'll come crawling back to you.

 

[Tryforlive]

listen to the people above my post

 

[dickywebster]

Id be wary of him, but still not your problem unless you still have feelings for her.

^^

And even if you do it's not worth snapping.

Probably not, but it could become an emotional mess or a brawl if he does start something.

 

[zehydra]

Ignore him and ignore her. She's not your problem anymore. Go find somebody else, and I would very reluctant to have her back if it ever came to that.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Keep out of it, and let it go. You'll just make a mess out of it. At least you're angry, relationships are easier to get over when they've made you angry.

 

[Kevak]

Cut contact, ignore them, let her learn the hard way.

 

[Josh Diaz]

yeah asshole i saw the typing mistake after i posted this im too damn lazy to go back and change

 

[Ionait]

Girls usually don't want you running after them, proving your love for them by shouting for them down the street and confronting the new guy. And if she DOES want that, she's very selfish and has no regard for your feelings, so it's best you two parted ways anyway.

And this is sadly relevant.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Fz3zFqLc3E&ob=av3n

 

[Blow_Pop]

be calm let her learn her lesson on her own. You do anything she'll just think of you as an asshole for it. Now if he comes after you by all means go ahead and defend yourself(even if it means calling the police/getting a restraining order) but don't like actively seek him out

 

[dickywebster]

Id be wary of him, but still not your problem unless you still have feelings for her.

And if you still have feelings for her, fuck her even more. Not in the literal sense.

Just forget about her, all youre going to do is make her realize that you want her back. Bad move dude. Thats a recipe for getting her to torment you. You basically give her permission to exploit you while still staying with the other dude she probably likes better.

kinda my point, makes the whole thing a mess very quickly...
But then, arent a lot of break ups?