My life is too mundane and lonely (time to vent!)

[TranshumanWonderkin]

You're an entrepreneur, but you have a mundane life and can afford to sit behind a the whirr of a computer and play video games. Odd, I too am an entrepreneur with a full time job and I don't have time to breathe, let alone play games anymore. Most small business owners I've met don't exactly complain of boredom, of all things; you must have discovered something fantastic.

You have skills, goals and a job (that makes okay money), but you DON'T have transportation which you are clearly upset about. Why is this? Is it too cliche to own a vehicle? Too mundane for you? Not artistic enough?

You say are a complex, motivated artiste with varied hobbies, yet girls aren't interested and even your friends are slowly abandoning you.

No logic, this is a feels only zone.

 

[BackgroundCharacter]

You're an entrepreneur, but you have a mundane life and can afford to sit behind a the whirr of a computer and play video games. Odd, I too am an entrepreneur with a full time job and I don't have time to breathe, let alone play games anymore. Most small business owners I've met don't exactly complain of boredom, of all things; you must have discovered something fantastic.

Boredom is not necessarily cured by having something to do for me.

What I need is to have something fun to do every once in a while with my friends. I want to use the free time I have to do something that I really enjoy with the people that I enjoy being around.

You have skills, goals and a job (that makes okay money), but you DON'T have transportation which you are clearly upset about. Why is this? Is it too cliche to own a vehicle? Too mundane for you? Not artistic enough?

More like cars cost way more money (gas, insurance, etc) than I'd like to pay out right now and I have a yearly bus pass.

edit: I am not upset about not having a car. It's a decision I made and followed through on.

You say are a complex, motivated artiste with varied hobbies, yet girls aren't interested and even your friends are slowly abandoning you.

No logic, this is a feels only zone.

And I've found out why I've been growing apart from my friends from this thread.

and like I said before to the guy before you, it's because people here were willing to discuss things with me and throw ideas around until I came to that conclusion, instead of doing what you did and assuming me to be some sort of loser archetype that they should condescend to. :/

 

[BackgroundCharacter]

The only thing that's happened in this thread is you making outlandish statements and then covering your ass when people called you out.

You're a graduating college student that owns a business and that still has tons of free time.

You've started a successful business but claim to be "not be a leader" and "wait for things to happen."

You make okay money but can't afford a car.

You're not a pasty loser but your friends are abandoning you and girls that get close dip out.

You wear cat ears out in public and legitimately think people are complimenting you.

You legitimately believe that not wearing outlandish clothing and being socially accepted is a lose-lose situation.

Seek professional help; you are not well. Or continue to live in your sycophantic delusion.

I don't even know why I'm speaking to you. You still seem to have this condescending idea that you're right about everything. It's like you don't have the capacity to realize that you're wrong.

Honestly, at this point, think what you want. I honestly couldn't care less, because in the end you don't matter to me.

You know, I went to a fun party today that I was invited to (by another group of friends that very recently (AFTER I MADE THIS THREAD) started speaking to me more, since you seem to take everything at face value) and met a lot of new people there. Yeah, I must be a loser because of how I dress. People must really not want to be around me. You're right, cat ears are driving people away.

I took initiative (because that's the context of me not being a leader and waiting for things to happen. Friendship.) last week and started inviting my friends to come with me to places instead of waiting for the opposite to happen. Guess what? They all accepted my invitations happily and we're spending a lot more time together now. Oh, they must reeaally not want to be seen with me in public even though they, unprovoked, tell me how they don't care how I look all the time.

Also, I like how you comment on how I have free time. Yeah, graduating college students don't have any free time in the SUMMER.

So while you may be intolerant of how I might dress, that doesn't mean everybody is. Open your mind a little bit and realize that situations are more intricate than you might think.

 

[BackgroundCharacter]

It's actually kind of hilarious how you refuse to believe you're wrong.

I'm actually laughing a little bit.

 

[KOMega]

I think a lot of miscommunication is drawing a lot of this backlash.

Like, a lot of people are questioning your age, and to be fair your original post does sound like something the average person of adult age would have sorted out by then. However you have stated you are about graduate college (so about 20-ish or higher at least I'd say.) so I would say your original post actually does have some legitimate concern, it's just that communication could use work here and there.

Anyways,

You know, I went to a fun party today that I was invited to (by another group of friends that very recently (AFTER I MADE THIS THREAD) started speaking to me more, since you seem to take everything at face value) and met a lot of new people there. Yeah, I must be a loser because of how I dress. People must really not want to be around me. You're right, cat ears are driving people away.

I took initiative (because that's the context of me not being a leader and waiting for things to happen. Friendship.) last week and started inviting my friends to come with me to places instead of waiting for the opposite to happen. Guess what? They all accepted my invitations happily and we're spending a lot more time together now. Oh, they must reeaally not want to be seen with me in public even though they, unprovoked, tell me how they don't care how I look all the time.

good to know things are lifting up. Enjoy the rest of the summer while you can. Summers about to end and college will totally be a real downer once it starts up again. I know it will be for me at least. Bleh.