I spent two awesome weeks with this guy. We really liked eachother but he had to go back to university - meaning i wouldn't see him for another six weeks. All the time we spent together he kept asking if I'd have a boyfriend when he got back and I said no. We lost contact while he was away and now hes back. The only problem is that hes back with his ex and he won't talk to me even as a friend. My brother's girlfriend (who introduced me and this guy) keeps saying that hes no good at keeping in contact anyway and that i should take action and go and see him. Just not sure if that would go down well with him. Before he left he was so into me but now he wont talk to me. Any suggestions on what I should do?
Need Advice: how can I confront this guy...
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Move on... you are at Uni!!! You should know by now that you meet new people daily whilst at uni. If he is being a knob & ignoring you then he isn't worth your time.
Welcome to the escapist btw
Welcome to the escapist btw
If he's too shallow to even acknowledge you as a friend, he's definitely not worth it. Shallowness is my ultimate turnoff above all else.
Thanks and nope i'm not at uni... hes 4 years older than meRancid0ffspring said:Move on... you are at Uni!!! You should know by now that you meet new people daily whilst at uni. If he is being a knob & ignoring you then he isn't worth your time.
Welcome to the escapist btw
Unless you truly want to be with this guy and are willing to take the chance, leave it. The guy is likely just playing around with ya girl its what we males do, makes us feel better if we have girls dancing around us.
Edit: And Im pretty sure females do that as well, I could be wrong.
Edit: And Im pretty sure females do that as well, I could be wrong.
That sounds like excess baggage. The question is do you really want to be the one who wants to carry it?.
Ah shite, sorry must have misread your OP. Even if you were to confront him what good would come of it? At worst you get heart ache or upset, at best (this isn't good BTW) you get him to dump his ex for you.Tanwen said:Thanks and nope i'm not at uni... hes 4 years older than meRancid0ffspring said:Move on... you are at Uni!!! You should know by now that you meet new people daily whilst at uni. If he is being a knob & ignoring you then he isn't worth your time.
Welcome to the escapist btw
NEVER go out with a person who has dumped someon else for you because it says A LOT about their loyalty & there is nothing stopping them from doing the same to you.
Sorry bit of a pescimist!(spelling?)
It's true, we can, but not all. If he's not man enough to at least talk to you, even to 'clear the air' as they say, then you're probably not losing out. Big world, lots of people meet.samaritan.squirrel said:
If he's back with his ex and wont even talk to you, he sounds like a prick.
Forget him. You'll find someone better.
Forget him. You'll find someone better.
Have some pride.
Do you really want to even give chance at this guy? Do you honestly think you deserve to be treated like that or that you should come through in this? Screw that, unless that guy happens to come to you someday, apologizing, you shouldn't even consider whether he's redeemable.
You might not have a guy at the end of the if you go about that like this, but you'll have pride. And that's more valuable.
Do you really want to even give chance at this guy? Do you honestly think you deserve to be treated like that or that you should come through in this? Screw that, unless that guy happens to come to you someday, apologizing, you shouldn't even consider whether he's redeemable.
You might not have a guy at the end of the if you go about that like this, but you'll have pride. And that's more valuable.
He was using you, and now that he's done wants nothing to do with you. Forget him and find someone else, no one is so great that they should get a free pass after treating someone the way he treated you.
You're too young for a relationship with an older more experienced man.Tanwen said:Thanks and nope i'm not at uni... hes 4 years older than meRancid0ffspring said:Move on... you are at Uni!!! You should know by now that you meet new people daily whilst at uni. If he is being a knob & ignoring you then he isn't worth your time.
Welcome to the escapist btw
He was using you.
Kick him to the curb and get on with it.
Be done with the prick. He could've been genuine in asking if you'd still be single when he got back, but much more likely (considering the state of things right now) he probably just asked that to try and make you think he really cared. Us guys, quite unfortunately, can be manipulative dicks like that sometimes.