Need advice with my current relationship status.

[AquaAscension]

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Forget the old girl, she sounds crazy if what you're saying is true that she was "hanging out with" and "kissing" other guys. She probably did something with her Ex and is projecting on you like you're a damn screen. Dump her. If not because she's crazy because she said:

This is a contest to see who can care the less

This comes from the idea that the person who cares the least in a relationship has the most power. And in a double dick move, she turned it into a game. And for the cherry on top of the dick move Sundae, she can't even formulate the proper grammar which means either A) she's dumb as a post B) A victim of the public education system (though with the internet people can find good grammar somewhere so victim becomes an almost obsolete at least quite relative term in this sense) C) she was was wasted as hell (because speech dies first) which would make her even less interesting/admirable. Watch the most recent episode of Community (find it on Hulu). It'll make you laugh and brings up a good point about alcohol.

Dump the girl, don't "go out" with the band girl. Become friends first (so you can avoid batshit this time) and if something happens that goes beyond standard friend category (I think you know to what I refer), then she may be good girlfriend material.

Whatever happens, Godspeed. Try to survive highschool with some sanity left.

 

[klaynexas3]

the what culture? i honestly have no clue as to what you're talking about.

You advised a high school student to "beat someone up" with his "bro's" and then also advised him to "commit a few crimes". Does chav really not ring a bell for you? If you're not familiar with the British term then I'm fairly sure the American one is wigger.

i never said beat someone up i said beat some shit up. i did say fight someone but i meant like one of your friends in a fight club style type setting. i guess i should've specified a bit more with that. and by bro, i meant like frat bros, not black bros. commit a few crimes was more like a misdemeanor type thing. like truancy or something like that to get the blood running. idk, i'm mostly just advising to make himself distract himself from anything that could lead to drama. lately i've been doing some of this shit and i have just been having fun even though i too have been going through a bit of the same situation as the OT. when i say bros, essentially i mean douche bags, cause they seem to be able to have the most fun. just as long as no one gets hurt without consent and it's nothing you can't entirely handle, do whatever really that distracts you

and yes i am familiar with that, but i've never been called that before

 

[AndyFromMonday]

i did say fight someone but i meant like one of your friends in a fight club style type setting.

Seriously? I mean who the fuck does that with their friends? What's the point?

and by bro, i meant like frat bros

He's in high school.

commit a few crimes was more like a misdemeanor type thing.

then say minor offences or something. Crime encompasses a lot of crap.

when i say bros, essentially i mean douche bags, cause they seem to be able to have the most fun.

So you like hanging around douche bags. Most people don't.

do whatever really that distracts you

Next time, just say this directly.

 

[BoredRolePlayer]

Why not get over yourself and just date the other girl.

 

[AnAngryMoose]

From my past experiences just wiping her from your memory is the best thing to do. Whenever I've tried to get back to a girl who I've just broken up with it has just made matters worse. Forget her and move on.

you know what you need to do? find all your bro friends, not just friends and even if they're guys they don't count unless they're bros. you know who they are. just hang with them for a little while. fight someone, beat some shit up, commit a few crimes, do whatever it takes to just make her seem like the spec of dirt on the windshield of your life that you need to wipe off that she really is. just have fun essentially. maybe check out this new chick, but for at least a weekend, do nothing but hang with your bro friends. play some guitar, skateboard, do whatever you think would be fun. not trying to get a girl though. there is no such thing as a girl, you just hang with some bros, and have fun

This is some good advice (bar the fight someone and the committing crimes: not so good). Hang out with your best mates for a couple days, but don't get straight into another relationship straight away. Get friendly with this other girl, but not to the point where you'll be close to going out with her. Going straight into another relationship doesn't feel right (for me). I find it best to wait a bit.

 

[breadlord]

Always. ALWAYS. Whenever I post something on a forum, like thread, the opposite happens. Like when I said I'd leave her. We're getting back together. Why? Because my hatred for her turned into regret, and she was regreted everything that she did. Plus, I think I may have made at least 7 other girls to think about being all depressed and not talk to me. Including the girl in Jazz Band.

Also, I like how this turned into an argument.

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This is a contest to see who can care the less

B) A victim of the public education system (though with the internet people can find good grammar somewhere so victim becomes an almost obsolete at least quite relative term in this sense) C) she was was wasted as hell (because speech dies first) which would make her even less interesting/admirable. Watch the most recent episode of Community (find it on Hulu). It'll make you laugh and brings up a good point about alcohol.

Whatever happens, Godspeed. Try to survive highschool with some sanity left.

That wasn't the way she posted it. It was, "This is looking like a contest of who can act like they care less." I just rephrased a little bit. It was more of my mistake.

Bust a move?

Nah seriously. Be like me, don't give a shit, she left you. You're a man god dammit! Hang out with this new girl see if you like her. If not no big loss talk to other lasses. Hell you don't even need to get into a new relationship. Chill with mates. play videogames. DO something creative whatever.

Its called an ex for a reason. Cross the ***** out of your life.

You get Brofists from me for the break up. aaaaaannnddd
Get on with new life.....

NOW!

I have disappointed you. I have dishonoured the Bro Code.

 

[The Rockerfly]

People in music are much much better in bed and I'm not just saying because I play music

Anyway jokes aside, go with the band girl. I've been in a situation where it started from something stupid, snowballed with drama, waiting around for the right answer. I was in a similar situation where a girl liked me, I rejected her waiting for my ex and she went and slept with her ex

If you wait around for her, there is nothing good you can get. All you will get is pain, suffering, sadness, regret and be an emotional train wreck. Plus having someone else is the best way to get over your ex

 

[Adam Galli]

Your young and life is all ahead of you. its not worth getting too involved with this girl and the drama. Relationships come and go, but basically if you have any reservations about getting back with your ex, don't. trust your gut instinct

 

[LebbyLegs]

I have always had a thing for girls with musical talent, the way they play those instruments...
Ahem sorry my mind was wandering, erm, yeah do what these other cats are telling you