Hello all. Me and my fiancee have been engaged for nearly two years now, and she also is a frequent user on this forum. She decided a few days ago we needed a break, something to do with having a (strange, unprecedented) feeling, which I do not understand. She acknowledges I did nothing wrong. What I need you fine people to do is tell her she should stay with me, she is on every day and is sure to see it, and she will be won over. If you need reasons, I am a good guy who loves her, and she says she still loves me, so it is just some phase I think she is taking too seriously.
Need help!!!!! Fiancee might leave me!!!!!
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Won't you think she'll see this?
Plus, it's not our job to run your life. I hate to say this, but if she's made up her mind, a bunch of people she doesn't know anywhere but the internet won't change her mind.
Just sit back and hope for the best. Also, engaged for two years? What are you waiting for? Have you set a date? Maybe that's why she's having second thoughts.
Plus, it's not our job to run your life. I hate to say this, but if she's made up her mind, a bunch of people she doesn't know anywhere but the internet won't change her mind.
Just sit back and hope for the best. Also, engaged for two years? What are you waiting for? Have you set a date? Maybe that's why she's having second thoughts.
Sorry, but I don't think this is really a situation that we can have any control over. It's your lives, not ours. Meant in the nicest way possible by the way.
She has scholarships that will not allow her to marry yet. Also asking for help, thought it was a nice gesture that would make her happy, the point was for her to see it. Kinda being a killjoy here.
I'm sorry to say this, but this really isn't the place for relationship advice. We are not professionals.
Hint: girls don't like desperate guys. Seeing you asking all of us to convince her to stay seems like an act of desperation.[SE said:
I'm not saying this to sound like an ass, I'm saying this as legit advice... girls normally see this stuff as creepy. Maybe she's different, but I'm just telling you what I know.
... And what god-awful scholarship is that?
Speak for yourself.Android2137 said:
And we can help you how?
All I can say is that making a fuss about it isn't going to endear you to her
All I can say is that making a fuss about it isn't going to endear you to her
And just how exactly should we go about approaching an unnamed user on these boards, and proposition her to stay with a man whom we also cannot name? Shall we just start posting in random places, "Hey, if you happen to be somebodies fiancee, and if you happen to be having second thoughts about it, you should just go ahead and throw those aside and stay with him."?
Honestly, I smell troll. Hate to call it with something potentially serious, but this just reeks of it.
Honestly, I smell troll. Hate to call it with something potentially serious, but this just reeks of it.
...I'm going to get suspended for this but I'm sorry...That's really pathetic. You've been engaged for two years? TWO? Let's ignore the fact that marriage usually comes after engagement and focus on the fact that you have so little faith in both you and her that you need to bunch of strangers ON A GAMING forum to tell her FOR you about how you feel.[SE said:
That is undescribably sad.
I could not let this one go, I will do the time with a smile on my face.
Edit: A scholorship that prevents her from wedlock? You are a fucking liar.
We have lived together this entire time. She would have thought it was nice, and I am not asking for anyone to MAKE decisions or have control of this or anything. Just to post and make her smile at it at least, since she is on all the time and it would be unexpected.
Also, how do we know that we SHOULD help you? You might be an ax murderer.
Someone above suggested you talk to friends and family and ask for their help. I'll second that. Strangers are not the way to go.
Someone above suggested you talk to friends and family and ask for their help. I'll second that. Strangers are not the way to go.
How will we recognise her?
If we start telling every female user (or every user with a female avatar), not to leave her fiancée because he's a good guy who loves her and she's taking her thoughts and feelings too seriously... well things are going to get pretty weird pretty quickly.
Also, what happens if one of the females we tell not to leave her fiancée because she doesn't know her own mind isn't your fiancée, but is also engaged, and she become so enraged by a stranger telling her what to do with her love life that she dumps her partner, not because she was going to, but because she assumes he complained about her to a bunch of strangers on the internet?
If we start telling every female user (or every user with a female avatar), not to leave her fiancée because he's a good guy who loves her and she's taking her thoughts and feelings too seriously... well things are going to get pretty weird pretty quickly.
Also, what happens if one of the females we tell not to leave her fiancée because she doesn't know her own mind isn't your fiancée, but is also engaged, and she become so enraged by a stranger telling her what to do with her love life that she dumps her partner, not because she was going to, but because she assumes he complained about her to a bunch of strangers on the internet?
You have all done an amazing job of taking this however you want though, so I am sorry to have wasted my and all of your time. Fortunately knowing her, since I do and this is not some attempt to be with someone I do not know anything about, she will find this really funny.