Need help!!!!! Fiancee might leave me!!!!!

[Kobainsghost1]

Don't know you at all dude but I must say you are screwed. Maybe it isn't obvious to you why your fiancee is having "strange, unprecedented" feelings about your relationship but It IS GLARINGLY obvious to me at least that you are a neurotic,whining,self-absorbed loser. There is no other explanation.

The thing about women is (especially young women) they change their Minds. WOW!
but Women dont just develop random Feelings out of the blue. That line about it not having anything to do with something you said or did is nothing short of a LIE, designed to not hurt your feelings while she tries to figure out how to break the news to you that shes Banging somebody else(or wants to).

Get your head out of your ass and of your monitor screen. Turn off the Warcraft and take this last part down.Tell her you love her and your sorry for being a pussy and Fuck the SHIT out of her. Are you listening? Turn this shit off stop reading it and go and MONKEY Fuck This Girl now.

Or someonelse will.

 

[Kobainsghost1]

That ancient Chinese crap is Bullcocky. Stop spreading it around bro.

Strider Go home get your head straight and Power-Bang your girl. Its not the answer to all your problems but I swear man grow some balls and be a man.

Thats what she wants.

 

[Trolldor]

Power-bang...

I haven't laughed that hard in quite some time.

 

[Fawcks]

My fiance decided we needed a break once.

Went to California. Didn't tell me where. Sent a few emails. After awhile, stopped responding cold turkey without so much as a "Goodbye" or "Farewell".

Doesn't look good, friend... If you need to talk...

 

[VulakAerr]

To put it bluntly, if she's done this without explaining why, then I think you need to move on. It is not the sign of a relationship that is going places. Find somebody who is straight with you and who respects your feelings more.

Also, don't EVER post on internet forums asking for genuine advice over something like this. You might JUST reach people's humanity if it's over a death or homophobic/racial hate, but relationship advice? That's pretty unlikely.

 

[gyroscopeboy]

Dude, I feel for ya. Buy her something expensive.

Diamonds...she'll pretty much have to

 

[Trolldor]

Dudes... power-bang!

I mean, nothing could possibly go wrong by announcing he wants to power-bang her.

 

[Trolldor]

You Are in Denial bro. She is getting Rammed by some dude right now while you sit here debating bull with complete strangers. Youre calling this a hitch while your relationship is crumbling around your freaking ears.

I guess you dont see cus your head is buried up your ass. Guys like you make it way too easy for the rest of us.

Guys like you are the kind of guys who talk about getting women that in reality won't be in the same room as them.

 

[DeathWyrmNexus]

Do you really want a woman who can be easily convinced by strangers on the internet? Seriously? If she goes, she goes... It sucks but it isn't about you. Soooo suck it up and wait it out. If you want any chance, it is your only option. Hell, I am surprised you made this thread and didn't think it would insult her if she found out that you were soliciting a mob to harass her, technically pushing her away instead of towards you.

 

[rutger5000]

You gave too little information for me to form a well informed opinion. Which is good, you ought not to have shared this personal stuff. But now the only thing I can say is: You ought to trust your fiancee, talk about her with what she means with a little break. And if that's nothing too extreme, then let her go. Sure if she says she wants to start datting different people or something of that nature, then yeah you might be better of calling the whole thing off.
One piece of information that would be very helpfull is your age (and that of your fiancee).
Now I'm going to make a strech here (I could be very wrong). First you're American (nothing wrong with that, I just need cultural background), second since you're engaged for two years, but don't have children I asume you're still very young. Somewhere around the range of 19 till 22. In this time it's very natural (and I would say healthy) to feel unsure about where your life is headed.
If the break thing really becomes a problem. I would advise you that you convince your fiancee that you can still do some crazy stuff. (Travel around a bit maybe for a year).

 

[Yopaz]

Making an account just to do this thread... OK?
Making an account just to ask a question no-one can give you an answer for but a person you claim to live with? OK?
Making this account on a place where most are geeks (sorry escapist)? Why?
Sorry to say, but this whole thread reeks of stupidity, and I have a feeling that this is all a big lie to see if you can get some sympathy or advice, or just see how many answers you can get.

 

[Kobainsghost1]

Sorry Troll but Im not talking about getting models or the popular chick. You dont have to be a meathead, Jock or a smooth-talking Con artist to get women. I assure you I am neither. This dude needs some serious help and his main issue seems to be a complete and utter lack of connection to reality.

She was with him for 2 years.WTF?
1.she loved him at some point
2.He got too complacent and comfy in his relationship
3.She doesnt think hell change
4.He doesnt realize what she needs or wants
5.shes runnin for the Hills

 

[BiscuitTrouser]

This whole thread is one of the strangest things ive ever seen on this website. Seriously. If i did this for my girlfriend id be slammed with a whole bunch of creepy. Feel lucky she finds this kinda thing amusing. Congratz. Youve officially made me feel awkward on the internet XD Its like im listening to a personal conversation.

 

[BonsaiK]

Strider]Hello all. Me and my fiancee have been engaged for nearly two years now, and she also is a frequent user on this forum. She decided a few days ago we needed a break, something to do with having a (strange, unprecedented) feeling, which I do not understand. She acknowledges I did nothing wrong. What I need you fine people to do is tell her she should stay with me, she is on every day and is sure to see it, and she will be won over. If you need reasons, I am a good guy who loves her, and she says she still loves me, so it is just some phase I think she is taking too seriously.

I don't know that you're a good guy. For all I know you're a psychotic axe murderer and she's cooled off on you because she's finally starting to figure this out. In any event "go with the flow" is sexier than "omg my relationship has a problem" so if I were you I'd just chill and ride it out, and if she warms back up to you handcuff her quicksmart and drag her down to the registry office.

 

[Sonic Doctor]

Strider]

Strider]Someone please tell me how to destroy this before it gets any more insane. I literally have no idea how to remove a thread.

You don't. It will remain here forever!

*evil laugh*

True story.

Wow, my first foray into internet forums has been...... awesome.

Welcome to the Escapist and best wishes for your relationship.

To give you help for the future, if you want to kill your own thread because you want people to stop posting because it is getting out of hand, just find one of the Mods, preferably one that is online, and message him or her to help out. I believe that they have the power to lock threads at the request of the creator of said thread.

 

[meryatathagres]

Threads can be locked. They can even be deleted. But some things like Google snapshots ensure that it's virtually impossible to remove all trace. That's kinda scary considering what I used to write way back in usenet. >_<

 

[Art Axiv]

If she loves you, she will come back. If not, well, you didnt lose something you didn't have right? It's how it is in life unfortunately, so hold your head high and tackle these problems as they go!

 

[maddawg IAJI]

You know, maybe she's "taking a break" because you're so desperate and running your life by random people from a GAMING community?

I'm sorry, but this is just absurd. Either you are truly stupid, and I don't mean to offend, or you are one hell of a troll.

I suggest asking next in 4chan.

You're on the site's advice column. What do you expect other then people asking the community for advice and help?