No sex for a year.

[Housebroken Lunatic]

the sexual motivation was that the women i was dating at the time convinced me to do those things, dont get me wrong a lot of my hobbies do stem from women convincing me to do them, but a lot are still my own, its just i know i wouldnt have done most of them tho if a women wasnt in hadnt convinced me to.
rock festivas arnt really my thing, large groups of people and too much noise, but i had fun because i went with my girlfriend at the time
and rock climbing never appealed to me as it involved dangling from a ledge by my crotch
also camping is non of that, iv been doing it since i was young with family and hated it, it was only when i went with friends and lovers i really enjoyed it,but if a women hadnt convinced me to go i wouldnt have known that

But then it wasn't these experiences you had fun with but more in being with a person you were sexually attracted to. Had you not done it with them you'd be bored and miserable, so all that your sex drive got you to do was to be with the one you were attracted to, even if it meant suffering through crap that you don't really like to do.

 

[ramboondiea]

the sexual motivation was that the women i was dating at the time convinced me to do those things, dont get me wrong a lot of my hobbies do stem from women convincing me to do them, but a lot are still my own, its just i know i wouldnt have done most of them tho if a women wasnt in hadnt convinced me to.
rock festivas arnt really my thing, large groups of people and too much noise, but i had fun because i went with my girlfriend at the time
and rock climbing never appealed to me as it involved dangling from a ledge by my crotch
also camping is non of that, iv been doing it since i was young with family and hated it, it was only when i went with friends and lovers i really enjoyed it,but if a women hadnt convinced me to go i wouldnt have known that

But then it wasn't these experiences you had fun with but more in being with a person you were sexually attracted to. Had you not done it with them you'd be bored and miserable, so all that your sex drive got you to do was to be with the one you were attracted to, even if it meant suffering through crap that you don't really like to do.

no i had fun with these experiences, i do them all regularly now, my motivation to do them in the first place was sexual in nature, but because of that initial push iv developed new hobbies and interest, hell most of my favourite hobbies have come from a either being coerced into by a women or my attempt to impress, no sex drive would have left me a very bored and boring person

 

[Ickorus]

Human population of earth 200 years from now: 0

I know, people would still understand the need to procreate.

Im gonna assume that people would still be able to love so going from that perspective:

I think the world would be a better place if people got to know others of the opposite gender without the eventual goal being sex, the world would be far more honest than it is now and jackasses who have good looks and no brain/personality would cease to taint the genepool with their stupidity.

 

[Sexual Harassment Panda]

24, sexless for 2 years and perfectly happy.

My "drive" has always been minimal, it's not completely absent...just nearly absent.

 

[affinsaff]

I'm speaking from the point of veiw of a virgin, so it maybe easier for me to say this but, I often try to go full celibate for as long as I can, and I find that after about the first few days, you just pritty much forget about the daily retain all men seems to manage to fit in. You diffatly think about sex much less, and you do feel much more physically charged during, say, exercise. thing is that once you do see something arousing, it hits you pritty hard. But if you mannage to just shrug it off, you quickly just forget about it again.
I'd actually recommend trying it. The longest I've gone is about 2 months (I usually start from the start of a month).

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

If my sex drive disappeared I doubt I'd have anything to do with the female sex. I could just hang out with my friends and have an ass load of fun without worrying about courting and dating. Without the physical attraction, what's the point?

 

[Taldeer]

I really don't think procreation is a thing to be taken lightly at all. Problem is, the more you think about it, the more inadequate you feel, and I don't mean sex, I mean the actual bringing into existence of another human being. Depends on how you look at it - you might say you're giving life to someone, or you might say you're bringing someone into an excruciatingly long process of entropy and death from which there is no respite. I have no clue what would ever make me feel like I needed to do that and be able to honestly say I did a good thing. Feel free to call me "negative Nancy" but the pain, depression, confusedness, loneliness, alienation and disgust towards oneself cannot be compensated by any fleeting moment of joy or bliss. Actually, I feel like those moments are just there out of irony. I am not an emo kid, I'm a 26 year-old student and writer and I write this while using my mind, not under the influence of some emotional fit, just to be clear on that. I'd say sex drive as a perpetual search for pleasure is a fine distraction and definitely has its benefits, but I wouldn't put it at the base of our reason to be, and while I'd miss it if I lost it completely, I could definitely survive without it.

 

[Doctor VonSexMachine]

My sex drive kind of fell off the face of the earth (Thanks Effexor!) and I've found myself to be more much more efficient. No more skipping class for romps and staying up all night because I feel obligated to hang out with my partner. No more house guests who just don't know when to leave causing me to be late going places.

My grades have improved, my social life is more open...I should have done this not-having-sex thing years ago. Or maybe not have clingy boyfriends...

Either way, it's not so bad.

 

[Gindil]

So I want to hear your thoughts. Make it short, or make it long. Just be honest

I've once gone on for three years without it. It's not that I don't like women, but I felt a need to develop myself into a better person first. But just like anything, you have to learn to do things a lot better after so long without practice.

 

[Da Chi]

My sex drive kind of fell off the face of the earth (Thanks Effexor!) and I've found myself to be more much more efficient. No more skipping class for romps and staying up all night because I feel obligated to hang out with my partner. No more house guests who just don't know when to leave causing me to be late going places.

My grades have improved, my social life is more open...I should have done this not-having-sex thing years ago. Or maybe not have clingy boyfriends...

Either way, it's not so bad.

Is Effexor a sexdrive blocking drug?

 

[Doctor VonSexMachine]

Is Effexor a sexdrive blocking drug?

That's not it's intended purpose, but everyone I know who is on it has experienced this side effect.

 

[Baneat]

Is Effexor a sexdrive blocking drug?

That's not it's intended purpose, but everyone I know who is on it has experienced this side effect.

I heard MDMA blocks sex drive too

lolololo

 

[Ironic Pirate]

I've never had a sex drive, so it'd be pretty easy, I guess.


I don't even like nudity in my porn. I just think of how cold it must be, and then I can't concentrate.


And then of course I have crippling self esteem problems and I'm pretty ugly, I'm pretty sure I'm a few pounds overweight and I'm so unbelievably awkward around the other sex a girl in my class thought I had a severe speech impediment. I'm fucking pathetic...