Essentially, it comes down to this (from the point of view of a physics student):Veylon said:All right. I thank all of you for offering your answers. I can see know that I only have the barest grasp on my own ignorance. And apparently Quantum Mechanics come into play? Well, I guess there are deeper forces afoot than mere electrons. I was really hoping that some Grand Unified Theory of Chemistry existed that would bring together all the bits and pieces of Chemistry together into one chunk.
I don't mind be laughed at here; I'm asking a painfully stupid question from the standpoint of pitiable ignorance. I'll bookmark this thread and use the helpful resources that you all have provided. Chemistry's kind of been a blind spot in my knowledge of science and getting to know it better would be great.
Thank you so much.
Nature is governed by 4 forces (can equate it to three, and some theorize fewer, but that gets very complicated very quickly. too complicated for you, me, and I'd wager anyone else on this forum): Electromagnetism, Weak nuclear, strong nuclear, and gravity. Chemistry in general is concerned only with electromagnetic interactions between electrons, nuclei, and upwards. The problem is that while we can model interactions of atoms to a reasonable standard using the rules of electrostatics and electrodynamics (sometimes classical and sometimes quantum electrodynamics, which is again, way beyond either of us), for systems of even a medium amount of electrons it becomes hideously complicated, and the mathematics involved is typically beyond any physicist, let alone a chemist (not to say chemists aren't clever people, just that they aren't required to know as much mathematics).
Also, when you work with things as small as atoms, the inherent uncertainty from quantum mechanics begins to have a great effect in how well you can predict things, so we'll likely never be able to develop a theory in which you can perfectly predict exactly what will happen in every chemical reaction.