LOL I think it takes a couple random murders for the wonderful things to happen. You get the message that someone notices what you are doing or something...Meanmoose said:You should murder a random person in the game and then sleep. Wonderful things will happen! =D
OP I suggest restarting and follow one of the character guides*. when you first start and get out of the sewers, you could ignore the main questline and do some dungeon crawling. directly across the river from the prison sewer exit is Vilveran and its a good one to go and visit, plus you get an item thats used in a side quest there. Doing that gives you time to get used to the controls, collect some better armor than what was found in the sewers and LOOT EVERYTHING thats not nailed down and sell it. early on getting gold is very very slow. once that dungeon is completly cleared and fully looted is a good time to start on side quests. I went and did the fighters guild first then did the mage guild.
excelent guide is http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Main_Page And they have a great map thats quite usefull too: http://www.uesp.net/maps/obmap/obmap.shtml
*http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Oblivion:Character_Creation