Odd features you find attractive.

[Squallie Greenthumb]

i like pale girls with dark hair and a bit of meat on their bones. So basically my tastes haven't changed since I was that greasy haired kid with the nail polish huffinf rubber cement in art class.

 

[koromir32]

Well, long strait hair is definitely a plus. If it was a natural red, that would be extremely hot. I have always loved green eyes, or very light blue, but green definitely. Pale but not "vampire white" skin, but it should be soft and smooth. Strange?

For some reason, cheerful, and happy girls, who are also intelligent and able to have meaningful conversations (Most of the girls/guys where I live spend their time at a bar getting wasted. Drugs are a huge turn off). Maybe because it's a contrast to my serious/depressed/dark self. I just find it attractive when nothing seems to make them sad or upset. And they need to have at least some of my interests (Books, games, movies. Nerdy stuff). And less makeup, piercings, etc. is always better. I like natural features.

Breast size is fairly unimportant, and weight as well, though I think I would prefer a more more thin, and "feminine" build. Also Corsets are hot, even if they are horrendous torture devices.

Nothing overly odd though. I think.

 

[Lord Beautiful]

Not sure if this qualifies as an odd feature, but I will not even consider marrying a woman unless she knows how to fight. If she's an even better fighter than me, all the better. I love a woman who can kick my ass.

 

[Ambi]

I'm usually attracted to insecure looking ones with soulful eyes (any colour), laid back slightly awkward ones who seem to always be smirking about something as if they're perverted creeps, and the mildly pissed-off smug type who look like they're about to spit out some kind of smart-arse comment. A mix of all three is even better. Also, sometimes I get crushes on those guys give you the impression they might be gay, as in the small tech-savvy ones who always pay too much attention to their hair. They're cute. It depends, though.

I can't think of many features in particular because it's almost always about the overall impression they give, and I can be attracted to different types. I usually like when they're mostly average and have a few good traits that are averaged out by things that aren't typically attractive, I guess.

Fucking hell. You and my ex need to meet up, she's only in Canberra, the two of you could compare notes on how to reel in that type of bloke. She probably has an extensive list of tips. She keeps telling me I fit that type exactly, which actually just makes me mildly scared of you, since she was a bit of a nightmare.

She sounds like she'd be of interest, but would it make more or less sense to just ask you?

I find it laughable that someone could be scared of me... [sub]*evil laugh*[/sub] <_< ...No really, there's no need to be scared of me. Did you get the impression I was somewhat scary because she and I are/were attracted to the same type of person, or what? I'm a little confused.

It's just that, a lot of the time people attracted to me and my type tend to be giggling predators. That, and the fact I'm REALLY bad at dealing with compliments and attraction, so I'm either snarky or try to make stilted conversation, which usually goes wrong because I have a habit of laughing about, or making wry references to, thoughts or memories that only I have. It's like I'm enjoying a load of in-jokes with myself, which tends to put people off.

Sufficiently insecure as to not be intimidating, and intelligent and weird enough to be interesting and intriguing. Having esoteric connections isn't surprising. I think the reason I'm attracted to the type I described is because I get the impression there's almost always something interesting going on in their mind.

I'm not quite sure what you mean by predators, but do they tend to come across as kind of partonising, or do you just get paranoid they're insincere, or does their attention give you a boost of confidence which motivates you to say something snarky, or is it some kind of combination of both, or neither? Am I asking too many questions? Maybe they're awkward insecure girls and that's why they're attracted to guys who also seem awkward and insecure, and maybe you were the subject of their fantasizing and they're laughing nervously at the fact that they built up the courage to talk to you? I'm trying to think of an explanation for this phenomenon. Oh look, I just stated the obvious. I'm familiar with awkwardness, really. Not that that comment was supposed to prove I understand you or something.

What are you going to do if you're scared of every girl who's attracted to you? Talk to girls who aren't obviously attracted to you and hope they start liking you later? Stay away from relationships?

You were bang on when you suggested you might be asking way too many questions. Sorry, Ambi, but I wasn't trying to lay out some kind of secific statement put together using evidence I gathered during intensive studies into my own psyche and behavior, I was just making vague generalisations.

I do that when I'm trying to make an impression on people - say things that on closer inspection aren't really true, and I regret saying them.

I'm just bad at being social, yet I manage. Somehow. You are as well, at least in my experience, because you're too damn literal. =P

At first I was like "ouch" but then I saw you wrote other stuff.

I think I'm just vain and try to think of things to say that really mean "look how interesting and smart I am, you should be my friend!" and then probably fail at it. I could probably pull of boring small talk. So... Ermm... How's the weather? ._. No, that doesn't feel right either.

I think maybe a lot of people say things about themselves that aren't true most of the time and are just memories that vaguely exist and still feel a part of who they are. I don't know.

edit: Yeah, I think I should give up on the amateur psychoanalysis.

So you're not actually scared of me? =P Maybe someday if you become horribly disfigured in an accident or put on a metric tonne of weight or just generally feel down and think "bawww no girl will talk to me" you can think "oh wait, there was that girl from the escapist forums who liked me and wouldn't know the difference, she's better than nothing, I think I'll message her". Or you could do that any time you want. ^^ *prepares self for possibility of snarky comment* I'm not sure if I'm being cruel or kind by complimenting you. You brought it upon yourself by quoting my original post, though.

 

[Shadie777]

I know this must have been said already, but I find girls with heterochromia attractive.
I also find a weird personality to be really appealing.
In fact, thats the main thing I hope for in a girl >_>

 

[AgentNein]

I've always been terribly attracted to really short girls. Like, 5'1. Not entirely sure why! Also, slightly aquiline noses. Also a lot of quirks that may turn other people off (not perfect teeth for instance) I actually fixate on abit and sometimes find tremendously adorable.

 

[Antisigma]

Slim, pretty feet and long, shapely legs. Big brown puppy-dog eyes and general cuteness are what really melt me, though. Not fashionable, not made-up. A little bit plain, and plenty adorable.

 

[Biodeamon]

pale skin. Also brains.

 

[AgentNein]

You, my friend, need Connie Chiu.

Sweet Jesus, yes.

She gets points for the sweet Siouxsie Sioux eyes on her sweater.

 

[The Man With the Soap]

Receding hairlines...Well, I don't know if I find them attractive, but I'm usually attracted to guys with shaved head and receiding hairlines. And even that's not a physical feature, I like unsocial and rough guys.

So yeah, something like Vegeta from Dragon Ball.

How do you feel about the High & Tight? I jest. I jest.

Hmm...I guess short hair. No longer than the jawline is a plus for me. Practical, functional haircuts are the best.

This isn't a physical feature at all, but it's strange enough, so I'll say it. Marksmanship and a working knowledge of firearms or any classification of weapons for that matter are very attractive skills. Something about a woman who can take something down with a .306 from 400 yards out when the wind is blowing...sorry started ranting there for a second.

 

[The Man With the Soap]

I like chubby men, a bit of something to cuddle with.
I spose that's not weird as men aren't under as much pressure to stay skinny.
I can't stand skinny men, I know they can't help it but I think it looks disgusting. I don't like overly muscular men either.
That's about it really. A gal like me can't be too fussy

So you fault people for staying in shape? You would absolutely hate my DI buddy. He's got arms like a fucking tree.

 

[BoogieManFL]

Some of the less typical physical things I like on a woman..

Long hair, the longer the better really. Nice legs with some shape to them, not so much the skinny legs. Longish fingernails. Sometimes unnatural hair colors (like pink or blue) really get me going. Streaks, highlights, or even the whole thing. Not sure why. Also sometimes petite girls, or even really tall girls, even if they are much taller than me.

It's not exactly a physical attribute since most of the look is dependent on makeup but I sometimes find Goth/Punk girls really hot.

But it really is almost all about the personality, these can just be a bonus.

 

[corsair47]

definitely hair, either red or dyed some strange color

 

[Friendshipandmagic]

I have a particular thing for abnormal hair color, like pink or blue. Oh, also I like older partners. Not sure why, I just tend to be attracted to more mature people.

 

[stutheninja]

when a woman laughs and either: a. her nose twitches a little bit or b. she opens her mouth really wide. idk why i like that, its just really attractive to me. also proportional women are more attractive to me, like they are curvy, but realistically for their body type. also, and idk why, i like women with smaller breasts.

 

[Friendshipandmagic]

when a woman laughs and either: a. her nose twitches a little bit or b. she opens her mouth really wide. idk why i like that, its just really attractive to me. also proportional women are more attractive to me, like they are curvy, but realistically for their body type. also, and idk why, i like women with smaller breasts.

Oh yhea, that too. Smaller breast size I mean. I don't know why, but I like the smaller ones better.

"More than a handful is a waste" right?

 

[Klarinette]

I'm starting to think I have a thing for guys with a bit of extra weight. My boyfriend and I just broke up on Sunday (that thread today about needing videos/movies and stuff to make that guy cry... as exhausted as I am now, I feel way better), but his belly is just so squishy and wonderful. I mean, his back is all strong (I seriously dig a strong frame) and his legs are muscley and sexy, but he carries the weight around his waist... and I love it. Even when he lost some weight last year and was a little more flat-tummied, it was still adorable.

And dimples. Dimples are so fucking cute. He has dimples... *sigh, ugh*