See, it may be and indeed is a worldwide community here, but even more than that it's The Escapist community. It doesn't matter, as far as I understand it, if some country has different social norms. If a behaviour falls outside the way of behaviour that this site wants to encourage it's not accepted.Generic Gamer said:Of course people's individual definition of reasonable behaviour matters, bear in mind this is a worldwide community. Certain behaviours are tolerated in some societies and not in others. Add in that some people on here have genuine social issues like autism or anxiety and it gets increasingly hard to predict what constitutes 'being a jerk'.teh_gunslinger said:If you're not quite certain if something is gonna sound dickish I think it's a safe bet that it should not be posted.
And people may very well have different interpretations of jerk, but that doesn't matter. It's up to the site/mods to say if something is jerkish, as far as I care at least. If someone lack social ability, as you put it, then he or she should perhaps, in deference to that, take care when wording a post. It's perfectly possible to write something without crossing any lines. Politeness costs nothing.
When in doubt, don't post.
First rule of building a system; try and break it. Putting in an ambiguous rule is just asking for confusion, it's not even all that hard to think of a situation in which you will get two different sides subjectively justifying their behaviour calling each other jerks.
I imagine that my own interpretation of when someone is a jerk is different from the next persons. So I tend to try to err on the side of caution. After all I don't have God given rights to post here. And since I want to keep doing that I try to avoid setting myself up for mod action. Most people ought to be able to do the same.
My first language is not English and so I take even further care to make sure I avoid making statements that might be misconstrued due to me having a shaky grasp on the language. Likewise, if someone is in doubt whether a post might be seen as jerky, he or she ought to consider posting it or not.
And if I may be perfectly frank, I really think that most people know perfectly well when they make a post if it's being jerkish.
And again, when in doubt, don't post. Just like in the real world. Carefully worded and polite discourse goes a long way to actually having a fruitful conversation.
I realise that some people have genuine problems when it comes to interactions and that poses a potential problem. But I figure that the current rule set gives the mods enough leeway to deal with those situations should the present themselves.
Language barriers might be a problem as well, but I guess that's not to be avoided. Again, I'm confident mods have that under consideration as it becomes relevant.