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Murdering Monk

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Hey guys. As you can tell by the title, I need some advice. I've been seeing this girl for awhile and I used to have very strong feelings for her. And I'm not sure what happened, but.. I just don't anymore. Whatever feelings I had for her just dissipated overnight. While I used to feel a spark there, its filled with an empty hollowness now. She really likes me, and has very strong feelings for her. Shes told me I'm the only guys shes told she loves, and all that. And I just don't know how to do this. Thanks for reading/helping in advance.



Edit: Taking the first posters advice and going to that thread. But I will still be watching this one for awhile, any advice of your own is still greatly welcome and appreciated.
 

Crowser

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Do something... different. Something you two have NEVER done before with each other and try to create a situation where its fresh and new... nothing mundane. Grab a car and drive away from town for an hour so you have NO light and watch the stars... or something like that. Mix it up!
 

Paksenarrion

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A quick fix would be if you found yourself in a dangerous situation with her. Can you two work together to escape what is surely certain doom?

...or talk about it with her? Actually, that's probably a bad idea. I guess give it time, or think about why or what may have changed.
 

Spinozaad

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You got (close to getting) the girl, and now you lost interest.

Happens more often than you might think. The journey being more important or fun than the destination, or something like that.

Not to be a dick, but you're 16 and (I'm forced to assume) she's not much older, if not younger. That's an age where you're just experimentin' (and experiments are fun) and your body plays all kinds of hormonal tricks on you.

Perhaps yours just ran out? Talk to her, or move on. Or fake it, if you want to get to any base.
 

Nifty

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Marq said:
Nifty said:
Kill her. Death is the greatest teacher.
I'm afraid this is your only viable option. I'm sorry it had to be this way.
Indeed, breaking her skull with a perfectly head sized rock is better than breaking her heart.
 

Angerwing

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Nifty said:
Kill her. Death is the greatest teacher.
Marq said:
Nifty said:
Kill her. Death is the greatest teacher.
I'm afraid this is your only viable option. I'm sorry it had to be this way.
You just made me laugh. Thankyou.

Give it time. If there's still nothing, do one last big romantic outing, if still nothing, call it quits.