Brotherofwill said:
I generally think that labelling yourself is a large part of what is currently destroying individualism and I do get what you are saying. Why not just drop the term, well or atleast only use it around your friends? It always bad to cram yourself into a category, especially if your mind starts believing in it.
I have to say something here, I dont like this whole individualism junk thats going around for some people (i say some because not everyone does this) everyone feels the need to say they are "individual" in everything, its like "oh I cant like that because everyone else does" my point with saying that is even our precious individualism is being invaded by labeling. Everyone is an individual at heart, so adding a little title here and there isnt bad as long as it is not your only tag. I truly think an individual is constructed out of these "tags" some are small and some are large, the difference is there are many not just one, we cant really place ourselves into one tag, because we all have different traits that define us, interests and so on.
So any one label is stupid, but there is something about them, if you have a passion for gaming people understand that when you say gamer. What would coin it as? "virtuaplaya'" or "videogameplayer" or maybe "button masher" i mean its all the same, its just a gamer games, he is in the act of gaming, hence he is a gamer. It doesnt mean thats all he does but its an interest. If someone tells me they are a gamer I dont assume they only play games and have no life, they obviously have other labels which they are not sharing right away. People dont just say everything they are, just imagine if someone told you this:
" oh me? im a jock that has a bit of an emo side to me, im a gamer, a fanboy of this, a movie goer and critic with a mound of uniqueness and individualism sprinkled all over"
Im not trying to be annoying here, its just that saying you are a gamer doesnt imply you spend every second gaming, buying products for gaming, and only live breathe and die with gaming. It doesnt mean you will eat up ever ad. Thats like saying a "jock" has to only like sports, and can never understand when somethings a good deal or a rip off, and never has time for anything else.