When one states that the reason they can't relate is the lack of realism, you do indeed have what I describe. Now, not everyone needs characters to be realistic to be relatable, but the author clearly does. I am obviously not against chars being relatable. I am against the notion that, just in general, chars have to reflect how real people act to be relatable. No, that's just that one person's taste.Neuromancer said:I disagree on that. As I said, the problem lies in relatability. Being unable to relate to the characters of the show hampers one's enjoyment. I do not go into an anime expecting realism. I do, however, go into it expecting at least some basic relatability with its characters. If I can't relate, then I can't enjoy the story, because I have no stakes in it.Dreiko said:So yeah, anime can definitely be realistic, and unrealisic, at times even both simultaneously. One ought not to expect it to be thus, ever, hence one ought not find fault with it when it isn't one way or another.
So yes, I believe that one should expect realism in that regard, if only because you need to at least relate to a character to get some basic enjoyment out of the story.
I am not sure I am getting what you wrote here correctly. Are you saying that your issue is that she called things misogynistic?Dreiko said:And yeah, if she had stated a mere opinion based dislike, and not called things mysogyny and whatnot, that also would have been fine too.
If so, then it doesn't really subtract to the fact that this is still just an opinion piece. It serves to clarify part of the reason she dislikes what she watches.
Mysogyny isn't opinion-based so one can't just shake it off like one does someone's random opinion. It is exactly why people use such terms, they are harder to dismiss than their otherwise unincredible opinion. Similarly, one needs further proof than an opinion to establish such a characterization onto a work and not have people call BS. This is why the reaction. If all you say is "moe shows contain unrelatable chars for someone of my tastes and opinions, hence they are mysogynistic" the only right answer is a very confused "wtf...?".