Opinions in relationships

[Kinguendo]

She's asking for you to care about her problems while she expects you to want absolutely nothing in return. Get rid of her.

Hey, thats what I said but I made a reference to a tasty breakfast too.

Oh oops. I just skipped breakfast and went straight for the *****.

I just got the image of someone walking straight up to the woman and shouting "NO! F*ck breakfast and more importantly F*CK you!" from you comment. XD

 

[scotth266]

She doesn't sound very nice.

Being in a relationship is all about supporting your mate with their problems. It's a balance to be sure: you have to respect your mate's privacy and all, but if they come seeking help you should be more than willing to deliver.

This is coming from a bachelor...

 

[Matronadena]

age also has a MAJOR impact on the value of relationships, so they naturally change over time.

 

[la-le-lu-li-lo]

So recently me and my girlfriend were having a talk about past relationships and such. And to get straight to it, whats basically said was she doesnt believe in being supportive of a mate's problems...that just doesnt sound right to me though. Was wondering if anyone had some input here, like agree or disagree and why.

Dump her ass and sleep with her mother/sister/cousin/all three.

It's the only way.

i support this solution. *nods in appreciation*

 

[la-le-lu-li-lo]

lol, nice. Just see her eating breakfast calmly then someone runs in, throws the breakfast off the table, slaps her, and just yells "*****!". Epic.

lolworthy mental image indeed.

 

[MiracleOfSound]

So recently me and my girlfriend were having a talk about past relationships and such. And to get straight to it, whats basically said was she doesnt believe in being supportive of a mate's problems...that just doesnt sound right to me though. Was wondering if anyone had some input here, like agree or disagree and why.

Your girlfriend would probably feel rather betrayed if she ever found out you'd been making posts like this about her on the internet.

 

[gbemery]

Like she wouldnt help me through any emotional problems caused by a prior relationship because she would feel as if she were a rebound girl, which i understand, but other emotional problems...like if i had issues with my family she would, she doesnt think she would be able to...she would try tho

this post and the first sound like she's not all that supportive and like someone else said "don't get too attached"

but this one

I mostly get it from her never wanting to share her problems though im there for her, she is there for me, but she never opens up herself mostly

sounds like your saying she mostly shares her problems and you both support each other but you can't get her to open up about certain things. If that is true then it is possible something happened to her in a past relationship that she might not feel comfortable talking about and would rather forget.

 

[Lusperus]

You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.

 

[Golden Gryphon]

I used to have similar arguments with my boyfriend because he thought that not wanting to help other people with their problems made me a bad person. I didn't think there was anything wrong with not enjoying listening to people whine since I would still do my best to help.

It's hard to tell just from what you've said whether or not she is worth you putting up with it but you did say she was willing to try to be supportive. Maybe you should try talking to her about why she has trouble opening up to you. Try not to pressure her though.

 

[dalek sec]

So recently me and my girlfriend were having a talk about past relationships and such. And to get straight to it, whats basically said was she doesnt believe in being supportive of a mate's problems...that just doesnt sound right to me though. Was wondering if anyone had some input here, like agree or disagree and why.

Dump her ass and sleep with her mother/sister/cousin/all three.

It's the only way.

i support this solution. *nods in appreciation*

Likewise, it sends the message I think.