Overall Advice

[TheRundownRabbit]

I'll get straight to the point...I have lost my fucking mind and my life is in pieces. Basically most of my friends are super mad at me...and the girl I love doesnt want to speak to me or see me for that matter (no we arent dating and havent dated). Worst part, all of them are from my high school and I just graduated, so there's is basically no other method of communication other than the phone, and also since Im out of high school, its getting close to zero time with ALL OF THEM. I need to fix all this and fast, but I cant do it alone, just give me some advice here.

 

[SiskoBlue]

You haven't said why they're mad at you, or what you're hoping to achieve. Are you looking for new friends? Or a way to resolve things with your current friends?

If you've just graduated it's sounds like an excellent time to go do and be whatever the hell you want. You're not confined by your friends excpectations, you're going to be meeting new people in the next phase of your life whether that's a job or more school. Right now you have a completely blank page to make your life which ever way you want.

The worst thing you can do now is nothing. Go ahead and try things, make mistakes, experiment. You won't figure out what you want sitting around so off you go!

 

[Limecake]

If you've just graduated it's sounds like an excellent time to go do and be whatever the hell you want. You're not confined by your friends excpectations, you're going to be meeting new people in the next phase of your life whether that's a job or more school. Right now you have a completely blank page to make your life which ever way you want.

Right on, don't think that just because you were close in High School doesn't mean you'll talk to any of your old friends when everyone has graduated.

This is a major turning point in your life and you need to start asking yourself some tough questions:

Do you want to go to post-secondary school or start working?
What are your goals in life? (if you want to travel there is no better time than now)

but most importantly you need to ask yourself why you're clinging so hard to these people that would abandon your friendship over what I'm assuming is trivial High School crap.

graduating high school is something almost everyone does, and almost everyone has to say goodbye to the friends they made in that time. Most importantly though don't get hung up on a girl who you've never even dated, you have more than enough time to get hung up on the girls you will date.

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

If you've just graduated it's sounds like an excellent time to go do and be whatever the hell you want. You're not confined by your friends excpectations, you're going to be meeting new people in the next phase of your life whether that's a job or more school. Right now you have a completely blank page to make your life which ever way you want.

Right on, don't think that just because you were close in High School doesn't mean you'll talk to any of your old friends when everyone has graduated.

This is a major turning point in your life and you need to start asking yourself some tough questions:

Do you want to go to post-secondary school or start working?
What are your goals in life? (if you want to travel there is no better time than now)

but most importantly you need to ask yourself why you're clinging so hard to these people that would abandon your friendship over what I'm assuming is trivial High School crap.

graduating high school is something almost everyone does, and almost everyone has to say goodbye to the friends they made in that time. Most importantly though don't get hung up on a girl who you've never even dated, you have more than enough time to get hung up on the girls you will date.

Thats true, but Im positive I'm not ready to let go of the girl Im in love with, I think I just need help with that predicament. A week before graduation, she told me to leave her alone (via text). Truth is, I was being kinda annoying, I tried apologizing but she kept retaliating, then she just said "Im not in the mood for this". Those where her last words to me. I dont want her to be mad at me. I just need a convincing way to show that Im sorry and I just want us to be friends again, this particular problem is eating at me more than my other problems.

 

[gazumped]

Im positive I'm not ready to let go of the girl Im in love with, I think I just need help with that predicament. A week before graduation, she told me to leave her alone (via text). Truth is, I was being kinda annoying, I tried apologizing but she kept retaliating, then she just said "Im not in the mood for this". Those where her last words to me. I dont want her to be mad at me. I just need a convincing way to show that Im sorry and I just want us to be friends again, this particular problem is eating at me more than my other problems.

Once I was infatuated with a really good friend, he ended up getting creeped out and annoyed by my clinginess so he cut me off. Of course it hurt like hell at the time, but being away from him helped me to get over him, and about a year later after bumping into each other through mutual friends we became friends again.

The problem is, of course, that even when love is unrequited, you don't want to stop loving them. So even if you could be sure that it's all going to be okay in the end, you probably don't entirely want it to be.

 

[dmase]

I think you need to just talk to your friends and see them face to face and tell them what you think about the whole situation and your sorry. This girl you need to say I wish I could talk to you face to face whenever you could please bring flowers tell her why you said what you think, which would help if you said what made you piss these people off including the girl, just say I won't bother her you just wanted to see her face to face and say bye face to face. Tell her face to face so that you had some closure to make you feel together, this is for you and you have to admit that. Say i don't expect you to forgive me I just wanna make myself feel better, its the truth so go with it tell her why you acted this way say your piece and let her say her then walk away. If she doesn't wanna talk to you again or your friends don't at least you walked out of their a man and don't be stupid again without telling them or stopping yourself if this is of course your fault.

 

[KrubixCube]

I would say "Fuck it, you've graduated" but having NO idea why they're mad at you I don't know if that's good advice or not. if you were being a dick, I wouldn't say go and do what you want and screw them because retribution could be in order.

If people are angry at you because you were a bit too over-enthusiastic about this girl, I'd say apologize to them. Say "I know I got a bit carried away with her" and see how they react. As for the girl, well, if she's not interested she's not interested. It sucks, not saying you shouldn't be upset, but that's life unfortunately and best to figure that lesson out now because it will not be the last time you face it, guaranteed.