Another thing. I may have my issues, but im a loyal person to my friends, if i truley feel like were cool, i have your back and your important to me. Cheesy i know, but its true.
For the most part, my friends are all sort of indvidal of eachother (they may know each other through work or school, but were not a group) But i do have one group of friends through a group im in (not a cult or anyting). I think that i get along with all of them, and i would consider them friends, and as stated above i value them. The group in itself gets along well due to pretty much everyone knowing eachother for a long time (as opposed to me only being there for a year). And they seem to be close. But there is one person that, when shes around everyone gets along with, but when shes gone the other people sort of dump on her (more than anyone else in the group by a long shot). IT bothers me because: a) The people saying things are my friends, b) the person theyre talking about is a friend, c) i will not lie, i really like this person. Shes a nice person whos really friendly and possitive and that, but i think she has a bit of emotionaly issues and frequent relationship problems, stuff youd talk about granted, but the amount that they dump on her behind her back, then change faces when she is there honestly bothers me.
Granted, they atleast dont bother her directly (as far as i know) and as far as she knows its all good. But its just against my nature to be so 2-faced with people, atleast in this way.
And yes, knowing you guys. Ill answer the 2 inevidable questions.
1. She is attractive, like, a 7.5.
2. She seems to have an issue with obsessiveness over current/ex boyfriends. Ill admit, the couple things ive heard are pretty weird stuff. But being someone who has issues dealing with control and that, so i dont like to mock people who have similar problems as me. Also, she may have had oral sex with a guy once. But considering how frequent teen sex is in my community and culture is like hating on someone for vandalizing a poster in the middle of a warzone or something.