Petty little things that an ex has done that hit home more than you thaught they would*

[Hawk eye1466]

She keeps posting how her and her new boyfriend are made for each other and how they are soul mates
I swear to god if i see one more post i will give her computer so many viruses it will never do anything again

 

[SovietSecrets]

Had another guys kid. This was a while back though so I have gotten over it.

 

[x EvilErmine x]

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1) Call me when you have your first real messy drawn out what the fuck is up wit all the mind games brake up and we shall talk again.

2) Read the OP, she did it to spite me.

As for your seeming veneration of the facebook friend status then i can only ask really? when did the phones stop working? text message? e-mail? or even...No you might not of herd of this one well it turns out theirs this neat thing we can do with the post, it's called sending letters. i know that at least is up and running my phone bill came today.

 

[lee1287]

Sent me a video off her performing.. Sexual acts on a guy. That was kinda low, but i sent it around to pretty much everyone i knew. She wasnt too smart. Also sent to her dad. LOL.

AND if i get put on pobation fro this i will flip out -.-

 

[x EvilErmine x]

Sent me a video off her performing.. Sexual acts on a guy. That was kinda low, but i sent it around to pretty much everyone i knew. She wasnt too smart. Also sent to her dad. LOL.

AND if i get put on pobation fro this i will flip out -.-

LOL silly girl. I don't think you should get probation for that it's just poetic justice.

 

[Daveman]

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1) Call me when you have your first real messy drawn out what the fuck is up wit all the mind games brake up and we shall talk again.

2) Read the OP, she did it to spite me.

As for your seeming veneration of the facebook friend status then i can only ask really? when did the phones stop working? text message? e-mail? or even...No you might not of herd of this one well it turns out theirs this neat thing we can do with the post, it's called sending letters. i know that at least is up and running my phone bill came today.

1) Yeah, I clearly don't know shit. You're right [guy moaning about your relationship on the internet]. btw, you misspelled the "break" in break up.

2) Speaking as a guy with maybe a better outside perspective than you have, she clearly didn't. Well, just going from what you said (which I did read... twice so as to make sure).

"Veneration"? I believe the opposite! As in you don't have to be friends with somebody to have them on facebook so by REMOVING her from it means you just actively dislike her... probably quite a lot. Then couple that with the idea that by then refriending her basically just means you no longer hate her guts. Sorry to ruin your whole "facebook isn't a big deal" thing you had going on but that was the exact point I was using.

I dunno. I seem to be in quite a confrontational mood this evening so I'll just leave it at that but rest assured I aim NOT to have a messy break up merely for the purpose of discussion...

 

[Ossian]

just take a breath and calm down and for gods sake remember the Guide.

Guide what guide!? there is a guide!?

:Starts ripping apart bookshelf looking for a guide::

 

[Doctor What]

It's been over for about four months now, and she has yet to get back my stuff. I didn't really plan on seeing it again, but one day out of the blue she sends me a message saying that she'll give it back to me when I get her some money I owe her.

That definitely tussled my jimmies.

 

[flagship]

When they try to prove to me and any mutual friends that their rebound guy is "the one" when clearly he's a step or two down and everyone knows it. It hurts a bit to see how quickly they lavish attention, time and praise on some random guy after all the time I put into the relationship. I've always wondered if it's because I can't turn around and do the same.

 

[Ziadaine_v1legacy]

Got dumped on Valentines day 2 years ago. Im personally over her, but I still hate the day and all it stands for.

My friend though, I gave up on her. Her BF abuses (both physically and mentally) her like no other, got engaged so she cant walk out on him and tells her she looks like a slut to stop her going clubbing. She re-dated him just before Val's because "She sees the good in him". Personally if I see him step one foot out of line I'll drive up there, beat the crap out of him, give her a good slap over the cheek and tell her "Is this REALLY the person you want to be with?"

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

Petty crap that hit home more than I thought it would? Nothing. I always expect the worst from my exs and I usually get it, too.

 

[Braonan]

She aborted my child. And, too all the women out there we decided to go full term even if I was to be the only parent. I fell into a coma for a few months and when I awoke, she was gone. Three months later she contacts me and says she had my child aborted. Us men feel pain too and are also the parent, I still and will never get over it.

 

[holy_secret]

My ex threatend to call my family, friend, workplace and everyone else I've ever spoken about to tell them about all of my secrets, insecurities and stuff that I don't want to get out.

What did I have to do in order to make it stop? Pay 200? for a shirt I didn't even have in my belonings anymore (I gave it back the week after it ended).

Oh yeah. I'm the asshole, because I was clear from the beginning that I'm not ready for a steady relationship. Of course this only makes me more attractive...sigh. Fucking hell, sometimes sentences mean exactly what they say.
But of course I was the one playing games because I'm such as asshole that I like sleeping next to someone and enjoy sexual activities.

Did I mention that I was clear from the beginning that I was not ready for a relationship?
This damaged me for all eternity. I don't trust people anymore. Using my past and lowpoints as blackmail...I just don't understand where the humanity went.

 

[Caligulust]

Wow I feel inadequate, I've only had to deal with some humiliation thus far.

Then sometimes she'll text me quoting poetry on how much she hates me, and one time she tried to give my computer a virus via Facebook. Two things you little *****, 1. don't try to send a virus over Facebook 2. If you want to give my computer a virus, don't tell me that you're going to give me a virus.

I'm curious now, how did she go about attempting this?

 

[WorldCritic]

Wow I feel inadequate, I've only had to deal with some humiliation thus far.

Then sometimes she'll text me quoting poetry on how much she hates me, and one time she tried to give my computer a virus via Facebook. Two things you little *****, 1. don't try to send a virus over Facebook 2. If you want to give my computer a virus, don't tell me that you're going to give me a virus.

I'm curious now, how did she go about attempting this?

She tried to send it over Facebook, it that's even possible.

 

[Carlston]

Well lies about me abusing her, the abuse being taking her credit card away at the 7k mark...

Divorce papers on the fridge at my kids 4th birthday, after the last payment on her suv and cell phone my unemployment from the Navy ended and she and her family run me out of the house.

When I was later diagnosed with cancer her only question was if it increased my disability so she could get more money...double dipping social security and child support...


And had a new 6 figure a year job hubby before the divorce was final.

But that's the joke, she couldn't stop spending, she blew all my Navy paycheck even for food and new uniforms on just her, 1200 bucks in one to two days never saw a dime to even get lunch.
...

Now i'm about to get a house, be happy, and she is about to squeeze out a baby to a man who tears her apart with insults in public but she takes it for his paycheck.

But she did far worse, worse I wouldn't want to get into on a forums. But she was pretty mad about be getting medical discharged and leaving her a whole two months with no spending money...thank god it was only 5 wasted years and not 25.

 

[spiffleh]

Wow. That really sucks for all of you. I hope it never happens to me (still in the no exes.. exs? camp)

I do have to say... it seems like all these stories are about ex-girlfriends. I wonder if that's because girls are more cruel after a relationship or if there are just more unfortunate men on the Escapist... hmmm.

 

[3AM]

My ex decided to open up his facebook after our break up. His page is full of cutesy love messages between he and his new true love and of course the tasty sexual stuff too. Yeah, I'm a masochist for checking his page but I can't stop. During the move-out he took just about every gift I ever gave him and tossed them onto the garage floor (I'm not allowed in the house I half-own unless he's there). And the most bizarre one - we broke up because he cheated on me and claims to have fallen in love with her. Somehow in his mind that makes me the villain and he treats me like I cheated on him. I'm so confused...

My experience isn't half as bad as those I've read here, but pain is pain. When it comes to bad break-ups, men and women equally suck.

Sent me a video off her performing.. Sexual acts on a guy. That was kinda low, but i sent it around to pretty much everyone i knew. She wasnt too smart. Also sent to her dad. LOL.

AND if i get put on pobation fro this i will flip out -.-

Oh, I love this! Revenge can be sweet, eh?