They don't have to actually say anything though to be transphobic.KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:I think it's fair to be uncomfortable, and any discomfort you have, imagine being the one going through puberty for the second time, or who's recovering from one surgery and waiting for the next. I'm personally really weirded out by people who have had excessive amounts plastic surgery. It's not particularly transphobic if someone who is visibly trans makes you uncomfortable, it would be transphobic to say nasty things to them because of it.Barbas said:It's discomfort in some cases - when I look at someone and they don't look 'right' on the surface - their facial features are neither here nor there, it makes me feel marginally uncomfortable. The way I understand it at the moment, some trans people undergo HRT and surgery to go from MtF or FtM, so maybe the people I see are in a state of physical transition. The idea of someone having both breasts and a penis (or an unexpected vocal pitch) doesn't bother me, but I would look at someone with more feminine features and a beard and think that was weird, to a greater extent than I would seeing someone who simply has the particularly pronounced facial features. Like Jennifer Lawrence vs. Michael Jackson, if that makes sense - hopefully without being hideously insensitive. The reason I wonder about it being a latent phobia is that I think it may just be toward people who've undergone surgery but carry certain physical traces of the previous sex, though someone who appeared feminine talking with a deep, masculine voice would be momentarily startling.KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:(Snip).
Well at least honest curiosity is often a good way of removing ignorance.the December King said:I also want to mention, that I find I am curious about transgender people, but I think it has more to do with their social standing and my current views on masculine and feminine. I certainly don't have a fear or hatred, but might very well have some latent ignorance.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/TransphobiaTransphobia is a range of antagonistic attitudes and feelings against transgender or transsexual people, or against transsexuality. Transphobia can be emotional disgust, fear, anger or discomfort felt or expressed towards people who do not conform to society's gender expectations.
Though knowing you are transphobic and addressing it as an issue you are actively trying to overcome rather than allow your transphobia to influence they way you view and treat people is the right thing to do when you realize you have this issue.