Please help me with my girl problem

[Vainglory]

Stick it out. Good chance they wont work out, being as thats the age where relationships are less durable. If they do last, then he's probably a really good guy, and deserves a shot. How would you feel if you were going out with her instead and heard some guy had done what you're planning.

 

[Jfswift]

She only went out on a date or two with him? It's not like a permanent relationship, move in for the kill. What have you got to lose? If it works out cool, if not, more hot girls out there.

 

[ethaninja]

If she isnt going to put in any commitment or effort, she probably isnt worth it simply because its normally a sign of things to come, and it makes you look desperate even if your not. If you absolutely must though, talking about it would probably work.
The afore is correct about 7/10ths of the time.

What he said. And if she is in so many a relationship so much, it means she is the common denomiator, and will lead you into more misery.

 

[Adzma]

We are a nerdy internet game-based community

Do not ask us for relationship help. It's largely bullcrap and we don't enjoy having to talk about it.

Wow. Never have my thoughts been summed up so perfectly.

 

[Bigsmith]

you see, i've just had the opposite problem. A girl that i've known for almost a year now was going out with someone, and had been for almost two years. She broke up with her boyfriend last week, i asked her out on thursday she said it could go either way and am next seeing her on monday... hopefully ill get an answer.

But with ur problem i think u should just tell her, it may not be the best thing to do but maybe she will realise that your better then Jerk no.1546.

 

[Bigsmith]

P.S.: Be a man and say it IRL.

Saying it IRL is sometimes realy hard to say, but seems to increase the chance of her saying yes if im correct.

 

[Wuvlycuddles]

Trust me, confessing your feelings and gettin rejected bites more than "never knowing" especially if you just enjoy being friends with her (and nothing screws that up more than telling her you like her more than friends), in my experience, the best way to find out if she likes you is to go out with someone else, preferably someone she doesn't like. If she has any feeling for you they'll come to to surface when you are no longer "available".

 

[HunterMonkeyy]

if you feel this way about her, then what have you got to lose?
take a shot or you'll hate yourself more if you never give it your all dude.

 

[tobi the good boy]

tell her how you feel, or dont

another alternative is a high powered sniper rifle but that might just be me

 

[havass]

She JUST got into a relationship. It means they're entirely devoted to each other AT THE MOMENT. I suggest you wait at least a few weeks. Continue talking to her though.

 

[ClunkiestTurtle]

If just being a friend is about as painful as not having her at all then tell her how you feel, what have you got to lose?

Don't make the mistake of thinking that if you be the greatest friend to her and are always there for her etc etc that she will then fall in love with you cos it really doesn't work that way for woman, especially in school.

As ridiculous as it is its still true that nice guys finish last most of the time and she will only see you as a good friend at best or like a brother at worst if you keep going down that road so just make your feelings clear and then give her some space to think it though

If this doesn't work within 30 days i'll give you you're money back.....

 

[Turing]

You need to kill them both and bury them in the Nevada desert, ride off into to sunset in old convertible and never look back..

Alternately, go for gold as they say. Unless her guy is your best buddy, you might as well try

 

[Washboard]

Hey, it could be worse. she could go out with you for a few months then u outta the blue move far away that hurts, believe me. *sad face* lol

 

[Luftwaffles]

good luck with it