Please help me!!!!

[BB-52]

I need your insight. I made 2 promises to 2 of my freinds. If i do both i will be a wreck but i will keep my freindship. Or i could only do one and lose one of my freinds. Im so fucking frustrated.Help

 

[delet]

First off, tell us what those promises are and explain things in a little more detail. I can't help ya if I don't know details...

 

[Cabisco]

My first thought is that in future think about what your promising.

Otherwise, without knowing more about the situation all I can really suggest is trying to reassure you that if these are really that good friends to you they will forgive and forget. If you honestly think they will ditch you because of one fuck up in promising them both something I'd go ahead and suggest your better off without such fickle people.

 

[Insanum]

Ok, What were the promises...?

Without some details we're not going to be able to help.

Also, List a little background to the people.

 

[quiet_samurai]

Just pretend to be sick or something. Honestly, unlesss they are life altering ptromises then I doubt they will hate you for it.

 

[A Weary Exile]

Apologize to your friends and tell them that you won't be able to keep your promises, if they don't forgive you then they were never really your friends.

 

[Angry Caterpillar]

Keep your promises.

It doesn't matter if you're not a wreck if you're not untrustworthy.

 

[DazZ.]

The variable of what the promises are is too great for good advice to be given without knowing what they are.

 

[DarkxReaper56]

1. You're coming to the internet for help? I suppose The Escapist would be more helpful than most places so thanks for coming here.

2. We can't help you unless you detail your situation.

 

[Orwellian37]

Why ask the guys on the internet for help? If we know what the situation actually is, maybe one person here will have a good answer, but until you're back at the keyboard explaining exactly how badly you screwed up, there's nothing I can do.

 

[BB-52]

I had to take one of them out because they are deppressed and i mean like serious deppresion,
but they are a real downer. And the other wants to hang out and he's lively and i am obliged to do both

And piss off all those **** cakes out there being douches

 

[Insanum]

I had to take one of them out because they are deppressed and i mean like serious deppresion,
but they are a real downer. And the other wants to hang out and he's lively and i am obliged to do both

And piss off all those **** cakes out there being douches

Right, couple of things:

1 your new, Please, Comments like the last one are ones that get you shouted at, please chill.

2. can you not combine the two? Go out the three of you? Go bowling, See a film, If this guy is "lively" surely it will rub off on the depressed person.

 

[stone0042]

I had to take one of them out because they are deppressed and i mean like serious deppresion,
but they are a real downer. And the other wants to hang out and he's lively and i am obliged to do both

And piss off all those **** cakes out there being douches

Right, couple of things:

1 your new, Please, Comments like the last one are ones that get you shouted at, please chill.

2. can you not combine the two? Go out the three of you? Go bowling, See a film, If this guy is "lively" surely it will rub off on the depressed person.

Thanks for the suggestions oh and xmetar0nx you are the biggest douche ever

Very mature last comment, I'm sure you'll last long here. You've got you're helpful suggestions, despite the lack of initial detail. No need to be resentful,

 

[CINN4M0N]

I had to take one of them out because they are deppressed and i mean like serious deppresion,
but they are a real downer. And the other wants to hang out and he's lively and i am obliged to do both

And piss off all those **** cakes out there being douches

Right, couple of things:

1 your new, Please, Comments like the last one are ones that get you shouted at, please chill.

2. can you not combine the two? Go out the three of you? Go bowling, See a film, If this guy is "lively" surely it will rub off on the depressed person.

Thanks for the suggestions oh and xmetar0nx you are the biggest douche ever

Friendly word of advice:

That kind of language will get you booted from the escapist so fast. I'd recommend you try 4chan.

 

[Asturiel]

Thanks for the suggestions oh and xmetar0nx you are the biggest douche ever

No need for harsh words bro. Here we keep things civil so that we do not incur mod wrath.

Now a threesome(outing you terrible minded people!) with all three of you is likely best. I would go with the depressed one though myself, your other friend will understand if you cant hang out one night.

And if he/she cant well then fuck him/her, this is one of dem "good" tests.

 

[LordGarbageMan]

Make one of your friends pity him enough that they start hanging with him. That is, the depressed guy.