I meant that the solution often seems very easy for people not actually having to deal with the problem.ohya said:I didnt understand a thing from what you just said. Regardless, there might be an easy way of dealing with a friend deciding to stop talking to me, and I might have somehow missed it for some reason. Otherwise, how come I'm still struggling about this.thaluikhain said:Oh yeah, very easy for me, as a net random, to say to you "walk away", as if emotions weren't involved.ohya said:That's kinda my problem, I dont really know how to 'walk away' from it.. It is embarassing like you say because normally a good friendship like this shouldn't have ended the way it ended for me between me and him. The fact itself that it embarasses me also makes it difficult to move on from what happened. Like....I can technically move on but it will always be there, the memory I mean.thaluikhain said:Very hard to give useful advice to someone I don't know over the net about a complicated issue for which I'm only hearing one side.
But there comes a time when you have to walk away...and then pretend that you never cared about the other person at all, cause it's really embarrassing when someone you liked turns out to be a terrible person.
Realistically, though, you're in an awkward place, and nothing anyone can say is likely to change that, but you'll get over it eventually, just have to put up with it for now.